Today i learned my lesson. ALL Women are goldigers!

[Plain & Simple]

Believe me she is not in control, I call all the shots, even she would tell you that, its just that when it comes to money, she is a cheap bastard, she doesnt even dress up for me, she always wears the same 2-3 pair of jeans, all the time, all she wears is a tshirt jeans and sneakers, i mean i like that but not alllllll the time.

This girl depends on me, like without me she wouldn't be what she is right now, fuk it ima tell it all, when i first met her this girl didnt eve shave her pu$$y, i remember the first time i had sex wit her it was all bushy, i had to tell her to shave, this girl doesnt know in what direction to go with her life, she doesnt even know what school to go to, she depends on me to fisnish school so she can come and move in with me and live with me.

This girl its one of a kind, believe me. She doesnt even go to school now, she just working, saying that she wanna buy a car. she cant even drive, ill be scare and **** when she drives hoping she doesnt crash.

 

[Plain & Simple]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
your a MAN


get a better job if want stuff.


why does she have to buy it for you?


if you hate this then dont buy her stuff....damn.

i dont exspect anyone to buy me anything, let alone my women or any women for that matter.

Me neither but when i buy her somethin cause i care for her i atleast expect her to spend 40 dollars on the one thing that i ever ask her.

i bought the game myself, i just wanted to see if she would buy it,

I wont buy her **** no more, and when we do go out im paying my own stuff from now on.

we havent even talk since last friday, she called me just to let me know that my boss was trynna reach me thats it.

 

[ikkenai]

Generalities are for the weak-minded.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple


But then she hasnt got me **** other than a cheap watch wich after i pressured her to buy me something, the hitch dvd, and an xbox for valentines day, Oh **** now that i remember i aint get her nothing at all for valentines day.

In 10 months she bought you a watch, a dvd and an xbox and you're biotching? Sorry buddy, but it sounds like she's been just as generous as you have been. Xbox's aren't cheap, either. Go rent the damn game for a few days and then save up the other half (because she said she'd pay for half of it for you) and quit crying over it. You are being a brat.

 

[Black_Italian]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
This girl its one of a kind, believe me.

Having said that how can you come to the conclusion that "all women are gold diggers"?

Also why are you dating a girl that has no direction in life? It seems to me that you do not have many options because if you did you would go for someone better.

I wouldn’t usually say this but GET RID OF HER it will only end badly and try to find a classier chick with ambitions and possibly rich. Its not that hard.

Ninja out

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Having said that how can you come to the conclusion that "all women are gold diggers"?

Also why are you dating a girl that has no direction in life? It seems to me that you do not have many options because if you did you would go for someone better.

I wouldn’t usually say this but GET RID OF HER it will only end badly and try to find a classier chick with ambitions and possibly rich. Its not that hard.

Ninja out

Did you catch the part where he posted in the last 10 months she bought him a watch, dvd and an xbox? An XBox costs $150 for crying out loud. He's crying over nothing...

 

[jprjrjr]

I think a lot of women are gold diggers. Certainly not all women are, but a high percentage.

Do you really expect the women on this board to come out and say they're a gold digger? Of course not. They're all great girls who wouldn't think of ripping a guy off. Aren't we luck to have them?

 

[Plain & Simple]

believe me im looking, im looking, plus she always gets mad over the smallest thing u can think off and she does this , spend like 1. week without talking to me and ignoring me, only that this time shes up for a surprise cause im not kissing her ass and contacting her or trynna approach her untill she does so.

i think that she gets mad at small things and acts like this over her own frustrations on life like not knowing what to do about school and so on, so she takes them out by gettin mad at me for anything.

She doesnt realize that a car is gonna cost her way more than she can afford now, insurence, car payment, gas, and then school, oh well wateva.

 

[Plain & Simple]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Did you catch the part where he posted in the last 10 months she bought him a watch, dvd and an xbox? An XBox costs $150 for crying out loud. He's crying over nothing...

It was valentines day, i mean sh1t, thats normal, 150 is average on that day to spend, she aint even get me no game.
i didnt get her nothing in purpose cause of the things i had bought her up to that point she still hadnt got me nothing.

plus watch maybe costed her 20 dollars , dvd , 9.99, and xbox 150 thats 180 in 10 months. Now me 3 $80 sneakers thats...well lets say 2 thats $160 a $25 dollar bracelet wich she lost thats $185 some earrings thats $210 right there, now remember everytime we do something I pay for it, she only paid dinner once and when we go to them movies i pay 90% of the spenses.

I had to take out money of my SAVINGS account this past week to take her to the movies, then her greedy ass still wanted to go eat after i paid for everything that day. After i told her i got such amount, do you wanna eat or go to the movies, she said go to the movies first then eat.

put it like this for every dollar she spends i spend 10

 

[Black_Italian]

Man I am getting the impression that you’re not to bright. She buys you all these things and you complain because she’s saving for a car and cant buy you a game. I think you’re looking for some validation from us to end your relationship with this girl for some reason besides the ones you have posted.

Ninja out

 

[Plain & Simple]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Man I am getting the impression that you’re not to bright. She buys you all these things and you complain because she’s saving for a car and cant buy you a game. I think you’re looking for some validation from us to end your relationship with this girl for some reason besides the ones you have posted.

Ninja out

So her getting mad at me over her own lie, then ignoring me not talking to me at all not answering my phone calls

Her not wanting to spend no money on me 40 dollars on me.

Me having no money and taking money of the money that im saving , just to spend it on her.

still u think that im wrong here and she is doing right for looking for herself only, she does what she has to do for her then i come in the picture only after, and if it cant happen oh well

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
It was valentines day, i mean sh1t, thats normal, 150 is average on that day to spend, she aint even get me no game.
i didnt get her nothing in purpose cause of the things i had bought her up to that point she still hadnt got me nothing.

plus watch maybe costed her 20 dollars , dvd , 9.99, and xbox 150 thats 180 in 10 months. Now me 3 $80 sneakers thats...well lets say 2 thats $160 a $25 dollar bracelet wich she lost thats $185 some earrings thats $210 right there, now remember everytime we do something I pay for it, she only paid dinner once and when we go to them movies i pay 90% of the spenses.

I had to take out money of my SAVINGS account this past week to take her to the movies, then her greedy ass still wanted to go eat after i paid for everything that day. After i told her i got such amount, do you wanna eat or go to the movies, she said go to the movies first then eat.

put it like this for every dollar she spends i spend 10

1) You are "keeping score" with gifts. That suggests that you care more about material things than you probably should and that you are really only buying gifts because you expect something in return. Gifts with strings attached are not really gifts.

2) Saving for a car is far more responsible, important and a much better investment than a video game is.

3) You're behaving like a spoiled brat.

Case closed...

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple


So her getting mad at me over her own lie, then ignoring me not talking to me at all not answering my phone calls

Her not wanting to spend no money on me 40 dollars on me.

Me having no money and taking money of the money that im saving , just to spend it on her.

still u think that im wrong here and she is doing right for looking for herself only, she does what she has to do for her then i come in the picture only after, and if it cant happen oh well

If the behavior you are exhibiting here over this video game is typical of how you behave with her then I can't say I blame her for avoiding or ignoring you. You came on her complaining mainly about the fact that she won't buy you the video game because she's saving up for a car.

Sorry buddy...you're the one in the wrong here.

 

[Plain & Simple]

Wyld you dont really get the poing here, im not mad cause she dont wanna buy me the videogame. lets state this I already have the game, i bougth it, even before i told my friend to ask her.

Her response to it "Hell no i gotta buy my car" kinda ticked me off, the hell no part specially.

I dont keep track of gifts, its just been a good amount to the point where i have no choice to.

For every gift she got me we had some type of argument for her to buy me it.

That never happen with me.

I didnt talk to her since last friday.

I never came at her with this or told her none of this.

Yet now after explaining why she is mad you take her side, but then u are a female, what can we men expect.

I repeat in case u didnt get it.

She got mad at me simply cause i told her that there were 3 toilet papers in the bathroom trash, and nobody in this house uses that trash, only she does after we done having sex.

ITs not the first time she did it, yet she said that she never uses it, then when i told her that i got a video of her doing it, (we were doing it in the bathroom ) she changed her answer and said she didnt do it this last time, (didnt she just said she never does it) bu anyway i know she did it and she knows it too, so she decides to get mad at me, for not believing in her lie.

Yet you say she is right for that. ok.

Same last time, i seen a LD call made to trinidad, she is the only person that i know from trinidad and that sometimes has my phone, i asked her about it, she denied it, then she got mad at me for another week.

Yet you back her up for being mad about something that she is wrong about.

Ok ms wyldfire.

 

[Zairi]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
It was valentines day, i mean sh1t, thats normal, 150 is average on that day to spend, she aint even get me no game.
i didnt get her nothing in purpose cause of the things i had bought her up to that point she still hadnt got me nothing.

plus watch maybe costed her 20 dollars , dvd , 9.99, and xbox 150 thats 180 in 10 months. Now me 3 $80 sneakers thats...well lets say 2 thats $160 a $25 dollar bracelet wich she lost thats $185 some earrings thats $210 right there, now remember everytime we do something I pay for it, she only paid dinner once and when we go to them movies i pay 90% of the spenses.

I had to take out money of my SAVINGS account this past week to take her to the movies, then her greedy ass still wanted to go eat after i paid for everything that day. After i told her i got such amount, do you wanna eat or go to the movies, she said go to the movies first then eat.

put it like this for every dollar she spends i spend 10

LMAO @ you taking money out of your savings to go to the movies.

 

[Wyldfire]

You are getting all wound up over PETTY SH*T. That's the whole point I'm making. The ONLY thing you have justification in being mad over is the long distance phone call. Putting toilet paper in the trash can? It's ridiculous to start a damn argument over that. Isn't the trash can there for trash? Maybe she had to blow her nose for crying out loud.

You are picking fights with her over some pretty trivial nonsense. When you pick fights with someone over stupid things they are very likely to ignore and avoid you out of frustration.

Girls react to the guy's actions and behavior. You are pushing her away with all this fight picking. It sounds like you are just looking for any reason to be mad at or complain about her. If you aren't happy then end the relationship, but whatever the case...you're acting like a girl and you really need to stop it.

Oh yeah...and if you can't afford to go out then don't go out. And why is your employer trying to get in touch with you? Are you skipping out on work to play that new video game or something?

 

[Plain & Simple]

^^Yeah? well i aint supposed to touch that savings for nothing, but i did, just for that, so the same way i took some out the savings for movies, and on top that then she wanted dinner, she cant take some of her savings for me now?

Come on now.

 

[Black_Italian]

Man she’s ignoring you the relationship is over move on. Next time don’t buy a girl so much stuff and don’t start an argument over paper in a bin.

Ninja Out

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Plain & Simple
^^Yeah? well i aint supposed to touch that savings for nothing, but i did, just for that, so the same way i took some out the savings for movies, and on top that then she wanted dinner, she cant take some of her savings for me now?

Come on now.

You did NOT have to take money out of your savings to go out. You CHOSE to do that. Are you working? You couldn't just rent a movie and eat at home with her instead of going out?

 

[Plain & Simple]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You are getting all wound up over PETTY SH*T. That's the whole point I'm making. The ONLY thing you have justification in being mad over is the long distance phone call. Putting toilet paper in the trash can? It's ridiculous to start a damn argument over that. Isn't the trash can there for trash? Maybe she had to blow her nose for crying out loud.

You are picking fights with her over some pretty trivial nonsense. When you pick fights with someone over stupid things they are very likely to ignore and avoid you out of frustration.

Girls react to the guy's actions and behavior. You are pushing her away with all this fight picking. It sounds like you are just looking for any reason to be mad at or complain about her. If you aren't happy then end the relationship, but whatever the case...you're acting like a girl and you really need to stop it.

Wyldfire u getting me pissed off now for real, u acting like my girl always twisting **** up.

Learn to read and dont put no words in my mouth, i never said i got mad over the paper, I DIDNT CARE ABOUT THE PAPERS she got mad over that , cause i told her that she did it, she knows she did it too, cause she always does, i was just telling he that my dad saw them and he was suspicious about sex in his house.
she is the one getting mad over her own lie, cause i wont believe it.

The LD call i didnt give a dam, she agan got mad over her own lie saying that she didt make it when she is the only person i know from there, but still i didnt get mad she did.

She is the one gettin mad i never get mad over stuff like that, only when she lies and i dont believe it she gets mad.

So stop saying that its me when i clearly stated the situation.