To those who still have their v-cards, how far have you gone with a girl?

[MrJibbles]

I am just curious to see where I stand, sexually-speaking, in comparison with some of the other virgins on this site. Personally, besides never having fvcked a girl, I have never kissed one. Some of us here, though virgins, may have at least gained hook-ups. On what part of the spectrum do you lie, SoSuave members?

 

[BatJuan]

I think there's some notion that most virgins haven't had sex because they suck with women, or that they will eventually succumb to temptation. When I was 15 years old I posted something on a message board saying I'd wait until marriage, and this guy called me out saying that I should "wait until I grow up" and to get back to him in five years. In the subsequent five year period I had several girlfriends, including the obligatory extreme face-sucking make out sessions, and I even had one chick begging me to bang her while we were alone in this secluded park, but I stood my ground. Five years later I messaged the guy back, much to his surprise, and now at almost 24 years of age, I still haven't changed my views.

I just don't feel the need to be sexually active (despite the biological urges), so my activity is generally limited to kissing. I guess some of the heavy stuff could be considered feeling someone up, but I'm not one of those touchy-feely kind of guys.

 

[Eternal_water]

when we were little kids growing up and were still in primary school and had very little knowledge of sex, me and the girl next door used to experiment getting naked in bed and doing various things with each other and we always noted it felt good and exciting when my c**k rubbed against her v****a.

Several years later we found out why lol.

I've had one girlfriend when I was 17/18 for around 10 months. we did a fair amount of kissing and our fair share of neck kissing and some full on face sucking makeouts and I touched her up a bit but we never had sex. Eventually she dumped me cos she said we didn't see each other enough.

No action since, still a virgin.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

i'm 24, i've done everything except for sticking it in, so no penetration, i've kissed, made out, fingered, sucked on titties, both have received and given oral sex, but the last time i experienced all of this was when i was 20.

 

[JPlaya]

lol 20 and never haven't gone as far as kissing

 

[Chamber36]

I think there's some notion that most virgins haven't had sex because they suck with women, or that they will eventually succumb to temptation. When I was 15 years old I posted something on a message board saying I'd wait until marriage, and this guy called me out saying that I should "wait until I grow up" and to get back to him in five years. In the subsequent five year period I had several girlfriends, including the obligatory extreme face-sucking make out sessions, and I even had one chick begging me to bang her while we were alone in this secluded park, but I stood my ground. Five years later I messaged the guy back, much to his surprise, and now at almost 24 years of age, I still haven't changed my views.

I just don't feel the need to be sexually active (despite the biological urges), so my activity is generally limited to kissing. I guess some of the heavy stuff could be considered feeling someone up, but I'm not one of those touchy-feely kind of guys.

In the past 7 years every single cell in your body has been replaced. You are literally not the same guy you were at 15.

I would not let a little 15 yr old boy dictate my actions.....

 

[djokovic77]

I think if you're a virgin at over 21, you should just go up to girls/milfs/ skunks in bars and make a fool of yourself until you find one sl*t that will do it. It really makes a difference after it's over. You can sort of relax. There's a lot of power in it.

 

[MM92]

How on earth someone can be in their 20's and still a virgin i'll never know.

 

[JPlaya]

many reasons, but I'll get blasted if I post them

 

[Eternal_water]

How on earth someone can be in their 20's and still a virgin i'll never know.

If no girls are willing to have sex with you then you remain a virgin unless you take it by force, but that gets frowned upon.

Perhaps after graduation a celebratory trip to amsterdam

 

[don't]

wtf are you talking about? never heard of paying for it? I was a virgin until I was 26, wish I'd stayed that way for years longer, and put more money in the bank. If you let yourself, and let her, you can ruin your life by involvement with the wrong woman, the wrong time, the wrong approach to life.

 

[MM92]

If no girls are willing to have sex with you then you remain a virgin unless you take it by force, but that gets frowned upon.

Perhaps after graduation a celebratory trip to amsterdam

But they are. If you're a virgin then in 95% of circumstances it has nothing to do with the way you look. It's your lack of "game" that is the reason and that can be sorted out. That's why you're here, right?

 

[Eternal_water]

Yes but I don't see your point.

Looks wasn't what I was refering to. I actually like my looks. I look in the mirror and like what I see.

My lack of game is why I'm still a virgin, and my lack of game is very much a part of me. And its what I want to try and improve on.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

seriously, how are some guys born with game meanwhile others have to struggle to gain it?

 

[Eternal_water]

seriously, how are some guys born with game meanwhile others have to struggle to gain it?

I guess its to do with nature, every species has strong and weak.

Also upbringing, if you were raised by a father with game or had an older brother with game you are bound to have picked something up.

My dad is 40 years older than me, stuck in the stone age and I have no brother and 1 sister, so I guess I got femminised a bit.

I need to build the I dont give a **** attitiude neded to approach

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

I guess its to do with nature, every species has strong and weak.

Also upbringing, if you were raised by a father with game or had an older brother with game you are bound to have picked something up.

My dad is 40 years older than me, stuck in the stone age and I have no brother and 1 sister, so I guess I got femminised a bit.

I need to build the I dont give a **** attitiude neded to approach

yeah it's like for so many guys, it's common sense for them, it's like "game" is instinctual for them, it's like they had "game" in them from day one, i'm not trying to compare myself to them because that is a waste of time, but it's like they were born knowing how to approach and talk to girls, women, but other guys were not. Also, my Dad told me that a lot of guys who grow up with an older sister or sister close to your age, it helps a lot, since i don't have any sisters, maybe that hurt me as well.

 

[Eternal_water]

yeah it's like for so many guys, it's common sense for them, it's like "game" is instinctual for them, it's like they had "game" in them from day one, i'm not trying to compare myself to them because that is a waste of time, but it's like they were born knowing how to approach and talk to girls, women, but other guys were not. Also, my Dad told me that a lot of guys who grow up with an older sister or sister close to your age, it helps a lot, since i don't have any sisters, maybe that hurt me as well.

I think you misread some of my post.

I do have a sister, 1 sister 6 years older than me, which means I grew up listening to her and her friends talking about how they love nice sensitive guys and not being old enough to know better I took it all in.

Also meant years of my mum and sister playing chick flicks and observing how succesful the good guys are in the fictional storylines.

And I had no brother to do guy stuff with, hence growing up to be the nice guy. And now I know better and am working on deleting niceness from myself.

 

[Eternal_water]

And If I'm still a virgin at 25 I'm going to amsterdam for a week and I'll be taking some bloody good condoms.

 

[MM92]

Yes but I don't see your point.

Looks wasn't what I was refering to. I actually like my looks. I look in the mirror and like what I see.

My lack of game is why I'm still a virgin, and my lack of game is very much a part of me. And its what I want to try and improve on.

...But they probably are willing to have sex with you, you're just too much of a faggot to make it happen.

 

[Leporello]

Something like 12% of men over the age of 25 are still virgins - that's 1 in 8. Not the norm but hardly uncommon.

I basically lost my V the first chance I got and I haven't regretted it.