To the guys successful with girls, what do you trade?

[RichardTheFrog]

I was talking to this older guy working on my house flip. He was telling me gets with younger girls. I asked him how. He says they "like dope." I told him I pay for it sometimes. He says "nothing's free."

So to the guys on here who seem to have success while spending nothing... What is it that you offer or trade?

 

[djthiago1]

20 year old brother hooks up with girls on Tinder frequently, he has no job and no car, he just offers looks and humor.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

20 year old brother hooks up with girls on Tinder frequently, he has no job and no car, he just offers looks and humor.

Yea it's definitely easier when you're young.

He wouldn't be expected to have anything at that point.

 

[lizardking82]

You offer masculinity and that's all you need. Before asking me what I mean by that, I mean you offer a manly behaviour and a person who's travelling his path. That;s it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You offer masculinity and that's all you need. Before asking me what I mean by that, I mean you offer a manly behaviour and a person who's travelling his path. That;s it.

I already do that, though. I work with tools all day and am traveling my path of making millions flipping houses. Even have guys working for me.

 

[djthiago1]

I'm also young, but in my experience, having good game beats everything else. Things like self-control, challenge, and confidence, goes a longer way than having material things. I'm 23, have little money, yet i do fine with girls, because THANK GOD i had 0 success with girls in my teenage years, and because of that, i invested into learning how women operate, and now, i'm confident in saying my game is better than at least 90% of the dudes out there.

Pain and suffering are a man's best friend.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'm also young, but in my experience, having good game beats everything else. Things like self-control, challenge, and confidence, goes a longer way than having material things. I'm 23, have little money, yet i do fine with girls, because THANK GOD i had 0 success with girls in my teenage years, and because of that, i invested into learning how women operate, and now, i'm confident in saying my game is better than at least 90% of the dudes out there.

Pain and suffering are a man's best friend.

I've gone through enough pain and suffering for a lifetime, and it had nothing to do with girls.

If somebody tells me to "work on my game," I don't even know what they are telling me to do. For the longest time, I thought "game" was a bull$hit word invented to sell you fake PUA crap.

But I read a definition that makes sense, in the Urban Dictionary of all places... "A guys ability to get girls to have sex with him," or something like that.

But still, if someone told me to "work on my game," I wouldn't know specifically what they were telling me to do.

 

[djthiago1]

I've gone through enough pain and suffering for a lifetime, and it had nothing to do with girls.

If somebody tells me to "work on my game," I don't even know what they are telling me to do. For the longest time, I thought "game" was a bull$hit word invented to sell you fake PUA crap.

But I read a definition that makes sense, in the Urban Dictionary of all places... "A guys ability to get girls to have sex with him," or something like that.

But still, if someone told me to "work on my game," I wouldn't know specifically what they were telling me to do.

Most guys here would tell you to read stuff like the Book of Pook or some book, now, i'm a relationship kind of guy, i don't enjoy meaningless sex, and what worked for *ME*, is Doc Love's The System, mostly because he's the only love doctor out there who actually has a radio show that you can call to ask questions, he literally lays out the entire game and strategy for you, you simply close your eyes and let his system guide you, sosuave and redpill stuff are just complementary for me, imo he's the most dedicated guy out there, but i would not recommend him if you're just looking for plates.

Like i said, i make very little money, so i pirated his stuff, but if i had the cash, i'd donate him a million dollars. If you got any questions pm me.

 

[lizardking82]

I already do that, though. I work with tools all day and am traveling my path of making millions flipping houses. Even have guys working for me.

Then I think it is your self limiting belief that women can only be bought and the fact you reinforce that belief by buying them everytime. Buying them is the easy way out. If you wanna develop catching skills, that is the hard way.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Then I think it is your self limiting belief that women can only be bought and the fact you reinforce that belief by buying them everytime. Buying them is the easy way out. If you wanna develop catching skills, that is the hard way.

I don't know what else to catch them with.

Bionic d1ck? Lol.

 

[zekko]

I thought the question was going to be "If you are successful in girls, what do you give up in your life in order to be successful?".
For example, if you are dedicated to build a business, there are things in your life you are probably going to have to sacrifice, in order to make more time and energy for your business. I sacrificed a lot of my social life so I could work and go to school simultaneously. It was hard, but I'm glad I did it.

Guys like RSD Tyler tell you to go out to nightclubs every night for six months/three years/however long it takes in order to get good at pickup. If you put that much time and energy into it, you're going to have to give up something. The guys I know who go after sex the most, don't really have much else going on in their life. That's what I thought the question was about.

 

[sosousage]

I don't know what else to catch them with.

Bionic d1ck? Lol.

go gym and try to pick up them from the street.

 

[fastlife]

I traded in my weaknesses, insecurities, fears and expectations

 

[Von]

I thought the question was going to be "If you are successful in girls, what do you give up in your life in order to be successful?".
For example, if you are dedicated to build a business, there are things in your life you are probably going to have to sacrifice, in order to make more time and energy for your business. I sacrificed a lot of my social life so I could work and go to school simultaneously. It was hard, but I'm glad I did it.

Guys like RSD Tyler tell you to go out to nightclubs every night for six months/three years/however long it takes in order to get good at pickup. If you put that much time and energy into it, you're going to have to give up something. The guys I know who go after sex the most, don't really have much else going on in their life. That's what I thought the question was about.

Agreed. That is key.

You want to succeed ?

1) know what you want (girls, business, sport)
2) be ready to pay the price for it

I am sacrificing all my social life/going out/internet to Build my Business and Study at the same time my master programs.

I've keep my gym at 1hour/2hour a day... but 6am (so I start fresh), do my business during day, study evening/night every day.

To relax: I do 2hours of dancing a week, Girlfriend at night when I crash.

So I have to setup my discipline, and put extra effort in my studying and business (Cause I accept that I must stay in shape aka gym, do some GF time, dancing to relax).. If I cut gym/dance/girlfriend.. It would add 8 hours more of my week hours into studying.

I understand that but I want to be healthy/grow a business/develop my LTR... so I accept it.

Just have to be disciplined and wakeup earlier to make it work.

One lifestyle setting I suggest is the one: do the things you love, a little bit every day for a long period of time....

That work too
Ex: study every day for 8hours, pickup girls practice 1hour every day, gym 1hour, guitar practice 1hour, 2 hours to eat max (breakfast,lunch,food etc.), 6-7hours sleeping, 25minutes reading book..

You will grow in each facet quite well over time and build discipline.

I've learned this year quite well that life doesn't wait for you, and you can't take back lost time.

So, I am disciplined, monk-life style, all in for my business/gym/dance/study/girlfriend

I sacrifice my social life, computer, Internet, reading for pleasure, extra-GF time, wakingup early and going to bed "late", everyday.

But I enjoy it.

To pick up girl: you need discipline, goal, drive, skills, practice, confidence.

Basically everything you need to succeed in life, so learn and use it for other facets (Cause like you said: if you focus on sex only... you have to nothing else going on... so you might get sex... but nothing else and might be a loser down the road with no money,status etc).

To be good with girls: I sacrificed my insecurity, shyness, arrogance, stubbornness, ego, fatness, lazyness.

Now: I succeed in a few areas of my life (dating,dance,gym... and studies/business are getting better)

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I thought the question was going to be "If you are successful in girls, what do you give up in your life in order to be successful?".
For example, if you are dedicated to build a business, there are things in your life you are probably going to have to sacrifice, in order to make more time and energy for your business. I sacrificed a lot of my social life so I could work and go to school simultaneously. It was hard, but I'm glad I did it.

Guys like RSD Tyler tell you to go out to nightclubs every night for six months/three years/however long it takes in order to get good at pickup. If you put that much time and energy into it, you're going to have to give up something. The guys I know who go after sex the most, don't really have much else going on in their life. That's what I thought the question was about.

Two years ago, I did go out 4-6 times/week downtown. I knew most of the bartenders downtown. Just got sick of it. Not worth my time. I live 30 minutes away from downtown now.

I don't know why a girl would invest in me other than money. And I don't think there's anything necessarily lacking in me, either. I know a lot of guys that get them with drugs. I'm unwilling to do that. I hope nobody is innocent to think that "personality" is what gets it done.

 

[sosousage]

Two years ago, I did go out 4-6 times/week downtown. I knew most of the bartenders downtown. Just got sick of it. Not worth my time. I live 30 minutes away from downtown now.

I don't know why a girl would invest in me other than money. And I don't think there's anything necessarily lacking in me, either. I know a lot of guys that get them with drugs. I'm unwilling to do that. I hope nobody is innocent to think that "personality" is what gets it done.

If you have money then all you need are muscles and healthy attitude. Women would see you as all in one perfect pack. But you prefer to be weird.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

If you have money then all you need are muscles and healthy attitude. Women would see you as all in one perfect pack. But you prefer to be weird.

How do I act weird?

Btw, I see plenty of guys who don't have large muscles with girls. Just as many as those who have them. Career, etc. supersedes that. I don't think I have that kind of time to be a gym rat. Not saying it wouldn't help.

 

[Urbanyst]

To attract women you need either looks, MONEY or status.

Being older is a form of status to most women. But only if you actually act or seem mature. If you're 50 and still wearing your baseball cap backwards, playing video games and broke its a different story because she can just date a younger guy for the same experience.

LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS. There is no way around it.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

To attract women you need either looks, MONEY or status.

Being older is a form of status to most women. But only if you actually act or seem mature. If you're 50 and still wearing your baseball cap backwards, playing video games and broke its a different story because she can just date a younger guy for the same experience.

LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS. There is no way around it.

Then according to this, money is my only option. I have to spend my life as an ATM?

My looks will not drastically change. "Status" is so rare that it's not even worth talking about.

 

[Urbanyst]

Then according to this, money is my only option. I have to spend my life as an ATM?

My looks will not drastically change. "Status" is so rare that it's not even worth talking about.

MONEY is the best option to have because its easier to hang onto for life. Everyone will eventually lose their looks. Status depends on the situation. MONEY is always MONEY.

You just need to get over it and accept your reality so you can start getting laid by HOT women.