To speak or not to speak? ... that is the question.

[MrQG]

Hi,

After reading a few very insightful posts here, I wanted to know your opinion on something that I have in mind.

Being Alpha is what truly matters, but one of its qualities is to always maintain a kind of superiority level … so can you ever actually have friends?
Also, an Alpha male can never be messed with … umm, retaliation prevents that ******* from troubling you again … but then again … do people actually matter that we have to get affected?

I’ve tried ignoring most people around me and just being in-myself … if there’s such a thing … it just recently struck me that people just hold conversations … they just want to contradict… realizing this … I dunno, but I don’t feel like talking with people anymore … the replies are so “predictable” …. I just like to initiate conversation with dedicated and motivated people … cause they really understand the ideology, actions speak louder than words.

Now again, if you remain aloof and in yourself , girls find you “weird” … well as lame as it sounds on a seduction site … they don’t matter anymore … I’ve had my shot with them. In a nutshell …. they are very moody and don’t have a practical way of seeing stuff, to many questions that I prefer to ignore … I’m not saying all girls are like this, but atleast the one’s I’ve met. Girl’s I would like to hook up with are those of the independent kind and don’t-****ing-care-for-the-world attitude and do rather than talk ….the girl with the doctor in Lost is one such example

After, changing to a guy who doesn’t talk much in school … I’ve noticed people beginning to ignore me, but they always seem interested in what I’m doing … thanks to this attitude… I’ve lost almost all friends ... but well, I don't consider them friends at all cause if they were .... they'd atlest inquire as to my sudden quietness ... anyways, not complaining here . Kind like girls, I've NEXTED them all

When I think of being myself again … I always, think the day is all about pleasing people … but being quite is like a man of your world .



Any insights, don juans?

 

[Maverick001]

Originally posted by MrQG
Hi,

After reading a few very insightful posts here, I wanted to know your opinion on something that I have in mind.

Being Alpha is what truly matters, but one of its qualities is to always maintain a kind of superiority level … so can you ever actually have friends?
Also, an Alpha male can never be messed with … umm, retaliation prevents that ******* from troubling you again … but then again … do people actually matter that we have to get affected?

I’ve tried ignoring most people around me and just being in-myself … if there’s such a thing … it just recently struck me that people just hold conversations … they just want to contradict… realizing this … I dunno, but I don’t feel like talking with people anymore … the replies are so “predictable” …. I just like to initiate conversation with dedicated and motivated people … cause they really understand the ideology, actions speak louder than words.

Now again, if you remain aloof and in yourself , girls find you “weird” … well as lame as it sounds on a seduction site … they don’t matter anymore … I’ve had my shot with them. In a nutshell …. they are very moody and don’t have a practical way of seeing stuff, to many questions that I prefer to ignore … I’m not saying all girls are like this, but atleast the one’s I’ve met. Girl’s I would like to hook up with are those of the independent kind and don’t-****ing-care-for-the-world attitude and do rather than talk ….the girl with the doctor in Lost is one such example

After, changing to a guy who doesn’t talk much in school … I’ve noticed people beginning to ignore me, but they always seem interested in what I’m doing … thanks to this attitude… I’ve lost almost all friends ... but well, I don't consider them friends at all cause if they were .... they'd atlest inquire as to my sudden quietness ... anyways, not complaining here . Kind like girls, I've NEXTED them all

When I think of being myself again … I always, think the day is all about pleasing people … but being quite is like a man of your world .



Any insights, don juans?

Hi MrQG,

First off, welcome to the board. If you haven`t done so already read the DJ Bible, try out the stuff in it and see what works for you and what doesn`t.

Now, as to what you`re saying above, there seems to be more going on than what you`re telling us. Why would you withdraw from your friends and become a loner? Were your friends all idiots, keeping you down, keeping you back, etc.?

Also, why next all women? I can understand if you want to take some time off from women because of work, school, family matters, etc. but what`s your reason?

Lastly, don`t think that this board is all about pulling chicks. It`s not. This board is about you helping yourself to improve yourself in ALL ways.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[MrQG]

Re: Re: To speak or not to speak? ... that is the question.

Originally posted by Maverick001
Hi MrQG,

First off, welcome to the board. If you haven`t done so already read the DJ Bible, try out the stuff in it and see what works for you and what doesn`t.

Now, as to what you`re saying above, there seems to be more going on than what you`re telling us. Why would you withdraw from your friends and become a loner? Were your friends all idiots, keeping you down, keeping you back, etc.?

Also, why next all women? I can understand if you want to take some time off from women because of work, school, family matters, etc. but what`s your reason?

Lastly, don`t think that this board is all about pulling chicks. It`s not. This board is about you helping yourself to improve yourself in ALL ways.

Cheers,
Mav

Argh, a late reply I know ... but I kinda forgot the location of the thread

Regarding withdrawing from my friends ... well I don't know why but I guess there might be three reasons ... there are a few who are extremely jealous.
Secondly, most of them want to have a 1-up attitude .... like in class, when something goes wrong ... wether its my fault or not, I just hear the teacher out ... but most of them act as though they are innocent angels ... and sly reflect the blame on someone else ...this hypocrisy , kinda puts me off.
Thirdly, most of them are totally fake in front of girls ... I mean, I understand the ****y/funny but they thrive on putting others down just to show who's "the man".

Well, since I'm in high-school. Most of the "girls" ... haven't matured much, either they have LOADS of attitude or are really really shy. And once I started my game on a little shy one but good looking ... I learned that she spread out our conversations to all her closest friends ... and at times, there was an interrogation sesssion as to why this happened in class/why that happened (we are in a coed based system) ... I gave her the message that I'm not the kind of a guy who's interested in such mundane conversation ... but well, later I tried to make a few moves and she declined by just giving me the "I wanna be just good friends" ... so after that I moved on. Its a bit awkard since we are in the same class , but well I don't care anymore ... she just wasn't the independent perrson I was looking after , who knew to keep stuff with her , rather than share it with her friends ...

Uh, I guess, I better stop fretting about it ... but since you asked what gave rise to it , thus the reply

Exactly , bro ... I read a few threads in the Tips section and it was really impressive ... a few posts by Pook have great insight to reflect on.

EDIT : I think I posted this in the wrong forum. Had many sub-forums open so must have hit the Post New Thread button in the Mature DJ by mistake ... Mods, please move to High School forum if necessary.

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[Maverick001]

Ok, so you`re in High School. Cool.

If I knew then what I knew now...I`d be gaming some of the hot teachers...you know the 20 somethings fresh out of teacher`s college...but I digress.

Taking time out for yourself is always a good thing and if you do it now to help focus on what it is that you need and want to do for yourself then all the better.

In fact, I`d say most guys your age are caught up in the High School cr@p and aren`t thinking at all about the future, so if you do then you`re way ahead.

I`d suggest gaming the girls in your High School just for practice, to sharpen your skills. No harm if you and they are having fun.

As for your friends, if they`re holding you back then turn your back. Life`s too short to be wasting it on pleasing others, and yours is just beginning to unfold. College, University, working, exploring the world (literally and intellectually), meeting people and indulging yourself on occasion with women...you have quite the grand adventure ahead of yourself.

It`s your time. Invest it well.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[Good_ol_boy]

Ummm High School (or Regular ) Forum??

Unless he's realllly dumb, no High school student is 25 or older!