To PUA's: how did YOU decide to approach no matter what?

[HaremMasterThomas]

You use the terms DJ and PUA too loosely no one on the site is a true Don Juan although most will claim to be.
What you are is an advertisement or a comercial how you sell yourself will equate to the way of which the attractive woman will respond to you.
The only way you can succeed in fvcking the gorgeous girls is to fake yourself as a Don Juan.
You have to present as an entity that you are not in order to ensnare your desire.
Remember we are all social rejects nothing has changed only that we can learn to disguise ourselves as confident DJs for long enough periods of time to reel in the gorgeous babes whom we want to fvck.
You cannot allow yourself to be veiwed by the girls as the dawk that you really are you have to present as the DJ whom all of these babes want.
This can be done but never ever think that you are a real DJ you are faking DJism because if you don't you never get to fvck the gorgeous ladies.

 

[comic_relief]

I approach because I know that if I don't approach, than I will feel like a pvssy and regret it later on in life.

comic_relief

 

[izza]

You use the terms DJ and PUA too loosely no one on the site is a true Don Juan although most will claim to be.
What you are is an advertisement or a comercial how you sell yourself will equate to the way of which the attractive woman will respond to you.
The only way you can succeed in fvcking the gorgeous girls is to fake yourself as a Don Juan.
You have to present as an entity that you are not in order to ensnare your desire.
Remember we are all social rejects nothing has changed only that we can learn to disguise ourselves as confident DJs for long enough periods of time to reel in the gorgeous babes whom we want to fvck.
You cannot allow yourself to be veiwed by the girls as the dawk that you really are you have to present as the DJ whom all of these babes want.
This can be done but never ever think that you are a real DJ you are faking DJism because if you don't you never get to fvck the gorgeous ladies.

I am truly and deeply sad to hear that you think that way. I know you're doing your best to live life. It's definitely ok to think the way you do. I don't know, I suppose I used to think that way. I used to think I needed some facade to get women. Then I realized that the facade was getting in the way.

For me, in my life, all this negging, push/pull, 3-day, action-date stuff got in the way of my development.

The only thing that has helped me is the realization that I have a DJ already inside me. That DJ is me, but every time I don't express myself, I give away my DJdom. And I have so much trouble expressing myself.

I approach because I know that if I don't approach, than I will feel like a pvssy and regret it later on in life.

comic_relief

Really? That's cool. I feel that way too. I just hope that in life, I will approach just for fun. Not out of fear of regret later, but because I truly, purely enjoy the moment. But I am so far from that sort of ease.

Izza

 

[izza]

Thank you all for your great responses. You're rocking my world.

Izza

 

[sexxyback]

I don't jack off for a couple of weeks, then I start thinking about sexxing the girl I'm approaching and what that would be like.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

After a while you keep reading Don Juan posts, so excited and filled with hope. You go out ready to practice it and you choke, you're too nervous to approach. You watch t.v. lusting after all of these beautiful actresses and wonder how hard it could possibly be to get an 'average' girl. You go out and see ugly jerks with beautiful girls. You start to get pissed....... finally you snap! You see a chick walking all alone,

-she's just your type
-no people around to make you feel self conscience
-She seems to be lingering as if waiting for you to do an approach!
You then realize this can't be a coincidence, this is fate. you puff your chest out, inhale some confidence and approach her.....

"Hi..."

Where are all of these so called ugly jerks with beautiful girls, you obviously are not a looks matters thread dude, are they Tennis Champions or Pop Stars, everyone else is always telling me about all the ugly guys they see with hot babes, though I can't say that I see it very often myself, maybe they just want to beleive that every dude who is with a pretty girl is ugly when they are not.

 

[onyx]

I aint no PUA, but approaching no longer was an issue when I used to go out with my mates and just do random things just for the sake of doing them, like as a dare to myself, and not really care what the outcome was because I wasnt really expecting one. After that it was just easy to me.

Though I realised afterwards, chicks thought I was hilarious and wanted to suck my **** off, so really I'd already done the work just by having a laugh.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

izza, many of these people are lucky enough to have something snap. For me and people I've talked to it is kinda like gettin over a bad relationship. Every day it feels a little better and then before you know it you are in a completely different mindset.

Im just saying dont wait for something to snap in you. You gotta be out there and then you can look back and say "oh sh!t i think i must have snapped last week coz I've done like +15 approaches since then."

 

[ksoileau]

Well, I approached a b*tch and survived, which made me realize that even if she turns out to be a b*tch (VERY unlikely), it isn't as bad as you might think. It was very liberating (even though she was a b*tch LOL)