To not kiss on the next date

[bud_2005]

I was thinking that I want to further myself in being a challenge. I've been on a date 3 times with this girl and at the end of all 3 I've either kissed her or made out with her. So I was thinking that at the end of the next one, I'd lean in like I'm going to kiss her, smile, and then walk away. What do you think?

 

[LikRetsam]

Not walk away, but hold it off. Walk away could go both ways and trust me, you don't want it going the wrong one.

 

[Juggalo]

She's going to expect it now that you've been doing it and teasing her with it will make her want it more. Sounds like a plan to me.

 

[Disconnect]

Why wait? Kiss her! Lik said it best - it could work, but it would more likely backfire. You have to take what you want. Who cares what she wants? You want some action, so take it! This 'going too fast' bullsh*t is for pvssies. She wants it too. Be a challenge in other ways.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by bud_2005
I was thinking that I want to further myself in being a challenge. I've been on a date 3 times with this girl and at the end of all 3 I've either kissed her or made out with her. So I was thinking that at the end of the next one, I'd lean in like I'm going to kiss her, smile, and then walk away. What do you think?

Are you trying to be funny? "Being a challenge" means not being her little toy to control, not just plain being a prick. If my chick did that to me, I'd probably do the same thing back to her on the next TWO dates out of spite, if she even GOT two dates with me again.

 

[bud_2005]

Ok maybe I'll just not kiss her the next date. I won't do the leaning in thing or everything.

 

[sexual_intellectual]

just get creative with your kissing! Keep things fresh, and mentally she'll challenge herself to keep you.