To make a move or wait?

[BongDuy]

okay before anyone tells me to blindly go for it, i've already gotten to like 2nd base with here. here's the story, we'll call her jade. about 10 weeks ago, me and jade started talking. within a very short amount of time we started making out.

I kind of let her on that I " wanted a relationship" but what i really want is to fvck her goddamn brains out beacuse she has such a nice ass. What had happen was, I went on a 6 weeks vacation to my homeland about a week after i had started talking to her. she also left on an 8 week vacation, so we had to talk through facebook and texting, even though i wasn't a big fan. she would mostly initiate, although im not going to lie, i sent a text here and there to keep her interested.

she gets back today ( thursday ) and i was wondering.. we did a lot of flirting. like sexual innuendos, and what I want to do is get her so hot and worked up that she literally grabs my **** the next time we hang out.

I was thinking of telling her to take today to get some rest because "shes going to need that energy tomorrow" ( I actually do plan on telling her that) and see her. I was thinking of inviting her back to my place when no one is home and either

A) tell her we've done enough talking and just pretty much make out with her and build up to the freaky.

B) Talk, but not boring talk. when i say talk, I pretty much mean slowly pace myself to like... a handjob or something including me ejaculating.

I don't want her to feel like a "slvt" because that'll just give me a lot of last minute resistance. But I don't want her to bring up the " are you my boyfriend" now topic.

thoughts? I want to be a little unpredictable, but not lame

 

[ARrocket]

A) make out with her and build up to the freaky.

THIS. Take note of the part I deleted.

You're over-thinking this WAY too much bro. All this "make her feel like a slut" nonsense is going to ruin your game. At the same time, don't just stare at her and say "we've done enough talking," that really is lame.

Escalate progressively. If you're talking to her, touch her more and more. Then kiss her. Make out with her. Keep touching her and making out with her, get her really turned on. And keep escalating.

Don't over-analyze your interactions with women.

 

[BongDuy]

thank you, ill see what happens tomorrow and reply

 

[BongDuy]

we went to a public place. my family was at home and her house had people all over. long story short, i probably broke a lot of "DJ" rules. but we just talked. because we were in a public place, we didnt do much making out. thinking about it now, im sure she was surprised i didnt make a move infront of a bunch of people, because in the past ive had very little self control and would kiss and make out infront of anyone, but i held back.

long story short, we talked. a lot. just about bull****, but i did find out that she had people promise that she would wait a month before any sexy stuff. i felt a lot of attractioon was lost during thsi vacation, until she told me "atleast 3 dates" until some foreplay.