to laugh it off or to call her out

[princesimba]

something ive been thinking about

What is that line between laughing it off or to call her sh!t out when a woman disrespects you? And what message will it send to the woman?

Example: a girl you've been going out with for barely a few weeks starts ignoring you and flirts with her friend in front of you. Do you

1) smile and find something else interesting to do
2) tell her you dont like it afterwards
3) both or none of the above

 

[foreverAFC]

i would leave and stop talking to her

 

[QuadDeuces]

Ive actually been in a situation quite similar where my gf didnt ignore me but went socialising with 4 other men on another table in a bar I kinda ignored it and talked to other women on my table. When the evening progressed they all got drunk and she started sitting on the lap of other dudes making pictures.
I was sick about it walked over and took her to the bathroom and had a huge fight. Next day it was sorry's all over, and "it wouldnt happen again".
In retrospect I shouldve dumped her right there, because she didnt have respect for me, which proved later on.

So yeah the best way is to leave and break up.

 

[princesimba]

Ive actually been in a situation quite similar where my gf didnt ignore me but went socialising with 4 other men on another table in a bar I kinda ignored it and talked to other women on my table. When the evening progressed they all got drunk and she started sitting on the lap of other dudes making pictures.
I was sick about it walked over and took her to the bathroom and had a huge fight. Next day it was sorry's all over, and "it wouldnt happen again".
In retrospect I shouldve dumped her right there, because she didnt have respect for me, which proved later on.

So yeah the best way is to leave and break up.

i see but what if the girl is not your gf but rather just some girl you've been seeing for a few weeks? when does it go from "hahaha look at her pathetic attempts!" to "okay thats disrespectful she shouldnt be doing that"

More importantly, when speaking out, when does a girl go from "this guy is so easily jealous, hes a loser" to "this guy doesnt accept my nonsense, i respect him"

 

[yougottaknow90]

i see but what if the girl is not your gf but rather just some girl you've been seeing for a few weeks? when does it go from "hahaha look at her pathetic attempts!" to "okay thats disrespectful she shouldnt be doing that"

More importantly, when speaking out, when does a girl go from "this guy is so easily jealous, hes a loser" to "this guy doesnt accept my nonsense, i respect him"

WHen you're a jealous loser, you whine, piss and moan a little, you continue wanting her, and she knows it.

When you cut the bullsh*t, you convey it sternly, leave, and she knows you're gone. You don't take her back unless she comes crawling for you.

Especially if you've known her - what? 3 weeks?

 

[Brosy]

Personally, if she's that into you she knows the first few weeks are so precarious that she won't dare to misbehave at the risk of losing you. If she's she's off searching for jealousy drama she already knows she is in the dominant position.

I had a friendly disagreement (not even an argument) with a new GF once and she was like "are we over? ". She didn't go looking for drama until later on in the relationship, it was around about that time that I ended it.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Actions speak louder than words. So don't say a word. Just go NC for a while. Let her initiate anything and be blunt, but polite when you respond.

If she works for your attention, then give her another chance. If she doesn't, then the hell with her and move on.

 

[SoSuaveDJ123]

This is a very simple situation.

If your time is valuable, you call her out on it. If your time
Is not valuable, do not call her out on it. How do you know if your time is valuable?

1. Does she usually text you first?
2. Does she reply right away to texts?
3. Has she stopped with **** tests?

If she does the above, you're good and you can call
Her out on it. Simply because she's more likely to apologize and stop that behavior and respect you more. If your time and attention is not valuable, you ignore her. Why? Because if you call her out on it in this scenario, she'll laugh at you and not take you seriously. As a result, her respect for you takes a serious nosedive.

 

[rhythmic]

I would never bother to call her out on that. Always option 1 for me - look for reasons to next rather than reasons not to.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Take that mental note that Danger suggested you and put this girl in the fvck buddies group with no pass to leave it.

Do not psychologically or emotionally invest in her since she proves how her character is sh1t so is sh1t low her interest toward you, a girl which likes you doesnt confuse or do anything that could piss you off, a serious girl even if she doesnt like you would never do anything to humiliate you in such way.

So you own this girl nothing nor expect her nothing beside her body, so keep gaming her and have sex with her while attending other girls which make better prospect as girlfriends and once you're fine just drop her with no further attention.

 

[lamobatsman]

Take that mental note that Danger suggested you and put this girl in the fvck buddies group with no pass to leave it.

Do not psychologically or emotionally invest in her since she proves how her character is sh1t so is sh1t low her interest toward you, a girl which likes you doesnt confuse or do anything that could piss you off, a serious girl even if she doesnt like you would never do anything to humiliate you in such way.

So you own this girl nothing nor expect her nothing beside her body, so keep gaming her and have sex with her while attending other girls which make better prospect as girlfriends and once you're fine just drop her with no further attention.

what you mean " a serious girl even if she doesnt like you would never do anything to humiliate you in such way.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Ive actually been in a situation quite similar where my gf didnt ignore me but went socialising with 4 other men on another table in a bar I kinda ignored it and talked to other women on my table. When the evening progressed they all got drunk and she started sitting on the lap of other dudes making pictures.
I was sick about it walked over and took her to the bathroom and had a huge fight. Next day it was sorry's all over, and "it wouldnt happen again".
In retrospect I shouldve dumped her right there, because she didnt have respect for me, which proved later on.

So yeah the best way is to leave and break up.

damn that's some disrespectful ****.

 

[Trump]

If you are just seeing eachother, but not exclusive. Then you make a mental note in your head to not commit to her.

She is not worthy of commitment. Like another said, if you are three weeks in and she is showing this sort of behavior when she should actually be on her toes, it tells you everything about how she will act in the future.

Say nothing, don't even act cold. Act like everything is cool and normal, just keep fvking her and never consider her more than sex.

Are you sure she is doing everything on the up and up?

She could have done it purpose, flirting with him just to see how he would react. If he does nothing, she knows he won't protect her in the future, while the previous guy she was with would have called her out which is what she was hoping for, so she loses respect for him and doesn't want to sleep with him anymore.

 

[Who Dares Win]

what you mean " a serious girl even if she doesnt like you would never do anything to humiliate you in such way.

I mean that a girl with any worth character quality besides her pvssy would understand that she is in your group of friends and dropping you (the guy who introduced her) to openly chase an other guy would paint you as a lesser man and would humiliate in front of all.

It doesnt take any intelligence or empatetic abilities to recognize that, if she likes such other guy she could wait till the meeting is over and speak to him privately, definitely not in front of everyone after ignoring you.