To free up your girl's ability to love you on her deepest level - make her feel loved

[sageproductor]

In the midst of all the talk of gaming and mindfwcking women into thinking you might leave at the drop of a hat, we're really fwcking ourselves out of opening a woman's entire heart so that she will give her love wholly and unconditionally.

In a relationship, if you constantly mindfwck your lady and remind her that you're ready to bolt at the drop of a hat, how the hell is she supposed to give her heart away to you? Sure, you might get her to cook for you, clean for you, do sh1t for you, and buy sh1t for you constantly, but is that what you really want?

You close off one side of you, then she'll close off one side of her too. Sure, you can have that kind of relationship if you want - but then what's the point of a relationship anyway if you're going to close yourselves off? Women are afraid of being hurt. They're kind of different from us in that they kind of have the ability to hold themselves back if they want to. They'll hold on to a piece of their heart until you absolutely prove that you're there to stay, or at least are making your effort to the degree in which she decides it's worth the risk to give herself away.



My girl's told me many times that when we first started going out, she liked me a lot but held herself back because she was scared she was just "another girl" to me. The way she described her feelings is "I like you so much it scares me". It wasn't until I proved my intentions over time that she really opened herself up.

Sure, she fears that someday I'll look at her and wonder if I can do better. But she knows that I really give all of myself to her right now, and in return she loves me in the most unconditional way I have ever seen.

If you're in a relationship, do the little things that matter. Hug her extra long, tell her sweet things, surprise her every once in a while. If she doesn't feel loved, then she won't feel loving.

 

[TheCWord]

Please just stay in your ridiculous thread.

Do not venture off into other threads or start new ones.

EDIT:

My girl's told me many times that when we first started going out, she liked me a lot but held herself back because she was scared she was just "another girl" to me.

She definitely did not think this. It was pretty clear to anyone by your humiliating texts that you had nothing going on in your life but clumsily obsessing over her.

 

[El Payaso]

Ridiculous coming from the same guy that likes to insult and disrespect women's dads.

 

[sylvester the cat]

totally agree OP.

glad it's working out for you.

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[PlayHer Man]

This is pure sh!t. Sorry this is faggot speak. Which Disney movie or chick-flick did you get this drivel from? :crackup: :crackup:

Lets clear this up fast --> You have been brainwashed.

All women care about is what a man can do for them. They only care about "love" after they are done riding the c0ck carousel and the bloom of youth is fading OR they want kids. Just like expired meat in the supermarket.. the price goes down as that date gets closer.

In addition to that.. romantic "love" is a woman's domain. Meaning.. its a tool women use to keep men loyal and under their control. Women are looking FOR love.. but they are not looking TO love. They want a man's love, but they are not interested in loving a man.

Women stay loyal to value.. not sentimental soul mate sh!t. Google "female hypergamy".

Once a man is no longer useful to a woman he is discarded like trash. So all this soul mate sh!t is indeed bullsh!t and just a way to keep MEN loyal.. not women. :yes:

Also.. listening to anything your girlfriend tells you on the topic of relationships is idiotic. Women will always encourage men to behave in a way that benefits THEM (women) not the man. Hello??

 

[sylvester the cat]

never mind.

 

[sageproductor]

This is pure sh!t. Sorry this is faggot speak. Which Disney movie or chick-flick did you get this drivel from? :crackup: :crackup:

Lets clear this up fast --> You have been brainwashed.

All women care about is what a man can do for them. They only care about "love" after they are done riding the c0ck carousel and the bloom of youth is fading OR they want kids. Just like expired meat in the supermarket.. the price goes down as that date gets closer.

In addition to that.. romantic "love" is a woman's domain. Meaning.. its a tool women use to keep men loyal and under their control. Women are looking FOR love.. but they are not looking TO love. They want a man's love, but they are not interested in loving a man.

Women stay loyal to value.. not sentimental soul mate sh!t. Google "female hypergamy".

Once a man is no longer useful to a woman he is discarded like trash. So all this soul mate sh!t is indeed bullsh!t and just a way to keep MEN loyal.. not women. :yes:

Also.. listening to anything your girlfriend tells you on the topic of relationships is idiotic. Women will always encourage men to behave in a way that benefits THEM (women) not the man. Hello??

You sound angry, like you've been hurt real bad

 

[PlayHer Man]

You sound angry, like you've been hurt real bad

And you sound like you have a vagina. :crackup:

 

[TheException]

Anyway, you are right overall. Women fear rejection 10x worse than men. That's why they don't approach men for the most part. If they think you will reject them long term they will look for a man they can control and use you as a sex toy piece, regardless if its your gf or just a fvck buddy. This is co.patible with alpha fux beta bux. If you want the girl to stick with you you have to show her you do like her sometimes.

This^

Well said.

 

[Jariel]

My girl's told me many times that when we first started going out, she liked me a lot but held herself back because she was scared she was just "another girl" to me. The way she described her feelings is "I like you so much it scares me".

This is the point where her interest is at it's highest. My ex said the same to me, she was crazy about me at this point and would do anything for me...because she knew she couldn't take me for granted.

This is the best place to be in a relationship. You keep her on her toes, she keeps working for your attention and keeps guessing about you.

If you're in a relationship, do the little things that matter. Hug her extra long, tell her sweet things, surprise her every once in a while. If she doesn't feel loved, then she won't feel loving.

This is the point where she starts to take you for granted and stops thinking about you so much. She knows you're smitten and you're not going anywhere. She can act complacent, put you to the back of her mind and gradually your value decreases.

This also happened to me.

I'm not saying you should cheat, lie and be cold with your girlfriend, or even imply that you're seeing other women, but when you show her affection, make sure you withdraw and leave her wanting more. Make sure you keep her guessing about you, because uncertainty raises your presence in her mind and increases emotions.

Never let a woman take you for granted because it's all downhill from there. Women love the chase, they love the tension and the best position for a man to be in with a woman is just out of their grasp.

 

[mikey2012]

This is pure sh!t. Sorry this is faggot speak. Which Disney movie or chick-flick did you get this drivel from? :crackup: :crackup:

Lets clear this up fast --> You have been brainwashed.

All women care about is what a man can do for them. They only care about "love" after they are done riding the c0ck carousel and the bloom of youth is fading OR they want kids. Just like expired meat in the supermarket.. the price goes down as that date gets closer.

In addition to that.. romantic "love" is a woman's domain. Meaning.. its a tool women use to keep men loyal and under their control. Women are looking FOR love.. but they are not looking TO love. They want a man's love, but they are not interested in loving a man.

Women stay loyal to value.. not sentimental soul mate sh!t. Google "female hypergamy".

Once a man is no longer useful to a woman he is discarded like trash. So all this soul mate sh!t is indeed bullsh!t and just a way to keep MEN loyal.. not women. :yes:

Also.. listening to anything your girlfriend tells you on the topic of relationships is idiotic. Women will always encourage men to behave in a way that benefits THEM (women) not the man. Hello??

Ultimately, women want the big house, nice car, diamonds, nice clothes, vacations and prestige before their sell by date. The rest is conversation.

Talk love to them when you have no job, no money , nothing...see what they say then.

 

[Mr_Stinky]

This is pure sh!t. Sorry this is faggot speak. Which Disney movie or chick-flick did you get this drivel from? :crackup: :crackup:

Lets clear this up fast --> You have been brainwashed.

All women care about is what a man can do for them. They only care about "love" after they are done riding the c0ck carousel and the bloom of youth is fading OR they want kids. Just like expired meat in the supermarket.. the price goes down as that date gets closer.

In addition to that.. romantic "love" is a woman's domain. Meaning.. its a tool women use to keep men loyal and under their control. Women are looking FOR love.. but they are not looking TO love. They want a man's love, but they are not interested in loving a man.

Women stay loyal to value.. not sentimental soul mate sh!t. Google "female hypergamy".

Once a man is no longer useful to a woman he is discarded like trash. So all this soul mate sh!t is indeed bullsh!t and just a way to keep MEN loyal.. not women. :yes:

Also.. listening to anything your girlfriend tells you on the topic of relationships is idiotic. Women will always encourage men to behave in a way that benefits THEM (women) not the man. Hello??

You are my Guru

 

[GotED?]

You are my Guru

This is a gay thread - lucky I am from San Francisco and full of tolerance for pansy behavior. :cheer:

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