To FB, or not FB. (f*** buddy)

Aurora Demon

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Like I said in the other thread, you're assuming the FB setup is a reaction to the quality of the girl, that you "settle" for a "fb" until you find a "gf-material" girl.

As opposed to preferring FBs as the best possible relationship setup for you for certain stages in life.

If you personally needed to cut FBs from your repertoire of possible relationships in order to encourage yourself to find hotter girls, that's all you man. . and some others for sure, its no doubt a useful tactic, but not indicative of everyone out there. Its just an external rule you set up to help control yourself. If you only **** hot chicks you're genuinely attracted to period, then you're fine to relationship them however you want, with respect to your lifelong goals and dreams, the big picture.

Also, sometimes non-GF material girls can be preferential. For a guy in his late 20s/early30s, setting up his life and business become the key priority, rather than partying and ****ing chicks as much as possible like late teens to late 20s. Note that your business IS GIRLS, you need a harem of GFs around FOR BUSINESS, which is an added motivator and justifies putting in the time, the same way I need instruments, songwriters, and recording equipment. If your business is not girls, then often banging out a non-GF quality a few months is ideal to being on the hunt for Mrs. Right, or on the hunt period. For guys not in the business of girls, constantly being on the hunt can be time consuming and draining, as can having a GF.
 
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