To Call or Not To Call?

[jgoodz]

So i've been dating this girl every Saturday for a month now. This past Saturday we planned on going to the beach... but instead ended up just laying down by the park. She seemed tired and said she wanted to go home and take a nap.
And we talked about possibly meeting up again later that night. So she told me numerous times and texted me saying she would call me when she woke up. Needless to say I never received a phone call, or even a text, since that day.

What gives here? Is she really not that into me? She's done this once before saying she would call and never called. So I waited a day or two and decided to ignore and just call her which ended up great. But now I'm really not digging this Flankyness' !
Do I even bother contacting her again? If I do, should I confront her about this? Should I just ignore it and ignore her and see if she contacts me? Any advice is appreciated.

 

[WoodB]

You are more interested in her than she is in you. If she really wants to see you again, she will contact you. If you contact her, no matter what the response, she has clamped a chain on your collar.

 

[SecondHalf]

Regardless of interest level, this chick is rude.
If she does get bored and call you back, don't be so nice.
See if you can plate her, but don't take her seriously again.

Don't call, it will just further aggravate you.

SH

 

[WoodB]

Regardless of interest level, this chick is rude.
If she does get bored and call you back, don't be so nice.
See if you can plate her, but don't take her seriously again.

Don't call, it will just further aggravate you.

SH

I agree. She is rude.

 

[Lord Hypnos]

Question: have you made out with this girl yet? have you made any moves on her during your dates?

 

[jgoodz]

Thank You! You are both right. And it's true that is very inconsiderate of her. No more contact from me. And I will follow your advice.

 

[jgoodz]

Question: have you made out with this girl yet? have you made any moves on her during your dates?

Yes, Kissed her on the first date, held hands walked around the city... made out some more in the car in front of her place. Same goes for the other dates ... we were very touchy feely.

 

[Lord Hypnos]

Yes, Kissed her on the first date, held hands walked around the city... made out some more in the car in front of her place. Same goes for the other dates ... we were very touchy feely.

in this case, my guess is that she was expecting/hoping that you would have banged her by now, instead of going to the beach (like seriously, the beach? what is the point of that, if your goal is to bang her)

take a look at the sub-communication here..

"She seemed tired and said she wanted to go home and take a nap"

you are boring her to sleep!! she would rather sleep than hang out with you!! and now she is totally blowing you off!

Major red flags

 

[Pimp-sicle]

in this case, my guess is that she was expecting/hoping that you would have banged her by now, instead of going to the beach (like seriously, the beach? what is the point of that, if your goal is to bang her)

take a look at the sub-communication here..

"She seemed tired and said she wanted to go home and take a nap"

you are boring her to sleep!! she would rather sleep than hang out with you!! and now she is totally blowing you off!

Major red flags

I agree; except for her behavior being a major red flag.

They seem to have a very casual relationship right now; going out on Saturday's for the past month; so they've hung out about 4x.

A woman, will overtly show her dropping interest level when she is expecting to get physical and it doesn't happen.

They feel partly rejected & partly frustrated.

Always try and bang a chick as quick as possible, then watch her jump thru your hoops wanting to do all that beach day date shiat.

Sounds like you were playing it safe, and trying to line her up as LTR material?

In other words, maybe you felt like if she put out too quickly then she wasn't worthy of being taken on dates?









PIMP

 

[jgoodz]

in this case, my guess is that she was expecting/hoping that you would have banged her by now, instead of going to the beach (like seriously, the beach? what is the point of that, if your goal is to bang her)

take a look at the sub-communication here..

"She seemed tired and said she wanted to go home and take a nap"

you are boring her to sleep!! she would rather sleep than hang out with you!! and now she is totally blowing you off!

Major red flags

Maybe you're right I was boring her... But I mean I did try and invite her back up to my place to 'nap with me'. Don't think she was haven't it though. I guess I screwed up... honestly don't know how though things seemed like they were going good. :/

 

[jgoodz]

Sounds like you were playing it safe, and trying to line her up as LTR material?

In other words, maybe you felt like if she put out too quickly then she wasn't worthy of being taken on dates?


PIMP

I think you just hit the nail on the head my friend. I actually really liked this one and was probably thinking a little bit too far ahead. I should of just had her come to my place for a 'movie date' and banged her out instead. :cuss: