to be honest about Anti-Dump

[frivolousz21]

I think its to general..and broad.

and really geared towards afc's.

being a confident man and still being a great guy in a relationship are much diff than being an AFC in a relationship.

i think like all the advice on this site..its overblown to help afcs.

but its a decent guideline.


I dont buy into the calling thing...nor the seeing her to much.

its just about making her respect you..and you not becoming a boring bloke.

 

[MindOverMatter]

i think like all the advice on this site..its overblown to help afcs.

Bingo. The goal of the bible is to give the AFC the basic skills needed to begin his work in the field. Since the AFC can misunderstand sh!t easily (look how many people f*ck up neghits), most of the articles in the bible are written in a very black & white point of view. Do everything exactly like this, wait this period of time to call, keep your conversations soandso long, etc.

When you first start applying the bible knowledge in your bootcamp, you will find that a lot of the information doesn't work, and actually screws your game up. While the info may have worked for another DJ who had a different personality, it may not work for you.

It is up to you to apply what you read, and customize it so it suits you.

The real knowledge doesn't come from the articles, it comes from the field. You learn the basics here, and then you go out and try them out. Some of it works, and it becomes a part of your overall game. Some of it doesn't work, and you never do it again.

Game cannot be learned through articles alone, it's built through trial & error.

 

[Bonhomme]

Yup

The "rules" are designed to deprogram AFCs, and short-circuit their self-defeating tendencies.

Once you're pretty much cleansed of AFC attitudes, you can go on more independent judgment.

Game cannot be learned through articles alone, it's built through trial & error.

.. and success.

 

[darthsidious]

stop

spacing

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post

idiot.

 

[DJDamage]

Its like learning to ride a bicycle for the first time. The DJ Bible is like training wheels. First you learn how to ride the bike with the training wheels, then you remove them and after falling a few times, you learn not to fall and be a good rider all by yourself.

 

[undesputable]

good, i see you read his posts. Yea as you say, his stuff might be geared towards AFCs, after all they were just posts by him compiled by pook answering AFC's questions.

Now unlike many many other posters in this board on approaching getting laid, end of story, Anti dump was really the one who knew what he was talking about when it came to long relationships. He gives a lot of rules of this and that, and you cant expect to use them and get success. You got to mold them into the way you want to use them....You got to learn to use them. I know you read all that bc of this girl you posted in the other thread....you got a couple of options:

A. Ignore everything anti dump said, and just go on just like you would have before you read his stuff, but be honest to yourself and do not apply any of his stuff.

B. You can take what you want, and use it, and you can choose to ignore whatever he said that you dont agree with.

C. Follow all of his guidelines.

This is just one girl, this is just one potential relationship. Unless yall get married, youre going to walk away from her sometime and you have to analyze everything that happened. Think what would have happened if you had chosen another option and work from there. But until then youre really not sure how this stuff really works.

 

[Spiky]

Anti-Dumps material will not help you out when it comes to getting and keeping chicks.

ADs stuff is a LIFESTYLE CHOICE.

If you get a total AFC and give him ADs material, it wont help him.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by Spiky
Anti-Dumps material will not help you out when it comes to getting and keeping chicks.

Not man, not at all....ADs stuff is all about getting a girl (of course, as long as shes interested) and keeping her. the thing that it isnt about is about getting a chick and getting laid. thats speed seduction and is a whole different game plan.

I dont know what people have against his stuff....To be honest that stuff completly changed my mind about everything having to do with women... and ever since have has so much more success.

 

[Spiky]

Originally posted by undesputable
Not man, not at all....ADs stuff is all about getting a girl (of course, as long as shes interested) and keeping her. the thing that it isnt about is about getting a chick and getting laid. thats speed seduction and is a whole different game plan.

I dont know what people have against his stuff....To be honest that stuff completly changed my mind about everything having to do with women... and ever since have has so much more success.

True, i just read over his stuff again.

Im trying to point out that if you want to be able to walk down the street, approach any chick you see and have a good chance of laying her, ADs stuff is not the best solution.

Mentality wise and keeping chicks on the schedule, i agree with you.

 

[wind20mph]

I need a little bit detail on anti-dump please...

 

[frivolousz21]

I just dont see its purpose....

for instance...we preach on this site....that

AFC"s are sufficating, overbearing and pyssies.

this is true...but if I did wat anti-dumped tells me to do with my girl now..I will get dumped.


I think one problem with the advice on this site..is that its so geared towards afc's......


a lot of the rules dont apply once u have confidence..because then u can almost do whatever u want..because ur still giving off im a bad ass vibe.

 

[Maximus_Decimus]

Anti-Dump and Doc Love's material is mostly geared towards AFCs with no game and those looking for a LTR. Thus, they have strict rules on when to call back, no kinoing on the first date, how to screen women, etc.

There is some good knowledge provided by Anti-Dump but you won't be able to see it if you read his information too literally. If you pay close enough attention to Anti-Dump, Pook, David Deangelo, Mystery, Gunwitch, etc, you will start to see some common patterns.

Maximus_Decimus

 

[Bonhomme]

Anti-Dump's stuff

Anti-Dump's stuff -- as the name clearly implies -- is all about eliminating women who are not very interested and/or are playing head games.

You'll get less action, but a hell of a lot less disrespect and bullsh1t.

If you can have a lot of fun and shrug off the crap, the Anti-Dump way ain't for you. If you're looking for a gal who will be in it for the long haul, it's golden.

 

[TizZle]

I believe everything is generalized because no woman is the same as another...