What is this? Pook baiting?
Pook, after reading your sareal reply, all I can say is 'Bull****.' Firstrly, when asked if you've ever treated a sexy woman like a trophy you replied: "Actually, no. Why waste it on these chicks?" as if to say that you do not spend time with sexy women, because they are not worth your time? I'll give you the benifit of the doubt, maybe you didn't understand the question. See, weather you treat a woman like a trophy has no bearing on her as a person, its how YOU look at her... so your reponse of "no, why wast my time on these chicks" does not answer the question.
I don't like every girl all guys like. It could be for many reasons. Maybe the way she walks, or something in her mind. There are some physical features that I just go nuts for in a woman. Why? I don't know. But Nature is calling me to it, so I go. When I see these chicks, I really like them so I go for them.
This is not 'trophy' like.
All the guys talk about some 'hot' girl. If you get her, you think, "Man! You are really something!"
This is trophy like.
Those so called 'idolized' girls know they are idolized and play their parts well. That's why I don't waste time with them. As I get older, I see less and less of them however.
Maybe it has something to do when you get older and maturer. I've been around female models and all. Quite nice. Most I had nothing in common with. I am not trying to find some 'perfect' girl, I'm trying to find the 'perfect' girl FOR ME. And the right girl for Pook will be diffrent than the girl for redblue.
You also said: "Beautiful women have the habit of containing the personality of a statue. They just stand there." And this is wrong. Period. This thread is about amazingly beautiful women.
Not from what I've seen. I do think the more 'beautiful' the woman is, the more she tends to be social. But that is not personality.
If you didn't like that comment, then you'll love this one: 'hot' women are nortortiously just a 'standard' lay in bed. Oddly, it is the women who wearing unfeminine clothes who seem to go WILD. As for women who are used to being admired by all, such as a model, well she just lies there. It is like making love to a corpse.
But this is generalizing. It does, of course, vary with the individual.
And, those who are exceptionaly sexy are hated by their own sex, and feared by the opposite sex. I know because I've been there. For many years I was a popular fat guy who everyone hung out with for a laugh. After going on a self improvement binge, all of a sudden I was alone. And it was only after I was alone I truly became an 'interesting' person. You see, when society keeps its distence from you [due to its own insecurity] your individuality begins to shine. You develope your own views, ideas, opinions, and see life and its events from your own perspective.
I don't disagree with any of this.
Women are no different. In my experiences extrodinarily good looking women are opinionated, deep, and worth the time to talk with.
Well, all women are opinionated. As far as a being a 'deep thinker', if she was intellectual then she wouldn't be woman.
There is a reason why women do not play the role of philosopher, math god, sculptor, or scientific genius. It has nothing to do with intelligence, it is just something they don't do.
I have not found beautiful women to be extroadinarily individualistic in thought or mind. I find them to be like every other female. The beautiful ones may sound more intelligent because they are more confidant and articulate in everything they do and say. But, articulation is not intelligence. As with other females talking about pure form
ideas all sums up to be irrelevant. Women just don't have the same gift of conceiving or visualizing purely abstract 'ideas' as men can. Women want to personify everything.
But this is more generalization.
Now, the average mans HB, my high 7 to low 8, makes for a very bland woman. Everyone loves her... girls aren't jealous of her, guys feel they can approach her.
I don't agree with that. Women are more vicious to ugly girls than guys are. Women seem to make up their own aristocracy based on their attachments and, if no attachments, beauty.
But I do agree they don't feel THREATENED by her.
Shes the pop princess, and because of that her opinions ideas and perspective of life is squed... melded with that of the group, her lifeline of friends. So not only is the conversation with these women usually un-stimulating... its quite often the same kind of unstimulating as the girl standing next to her.
To be honest, all women sound unstimulating to me. They are feeling with they talk, they are not dealing with abstracts.
You said girls think "A guy with spiked hair and a leather jacked is exuding a personality different from a guy in a suit" and that you dissagree with this. You are wrong. Human beings, given the means, will alter their looks with cloths, hairstyles, and anything they can [thats not tabu] to corespond with how they would like to look. Anthing having to do with human desire is DIRECTLY rooted into personality. Looks reflect the person you are inside.
I was speaking of the viewpoint from Womaniverse. Women (and men do too) think your personality and looks are very much the same.
A great guy can wear stained clothes but the women will view him differently from what he is in reality.
You say you are not stuck up. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Men do the picking, women do the choosing?" Well, the mere act of picking one woman... rather, NOT PICKING ONE WOMAN, is indirectly stating she is not good enough for you. In that sense, all of us good looking men, every man who's ever turned down a "below standard" woman, is stuck up, and that includes you.
There is such disrespect for men nowadays that women only think of men in terms of lustful pigs. If an attractive chicks is interested and the man does not go, she gets very very angry. By the frame she already has set up (that all guys are lustful), the guy has to be not attracted to her (which can't be!), gay, or arrogant.
But in reality, there are many reasons why a guy would not go for a chick. He could be in love with someone else. He could be incapable at the moment of starting a relationship due to projects or work. His mind is elseware, on something other than love and romance. But women think of love and romance much more than men do. So they do not percieve the man is doing something else. He must 'be stuck up' or gay.
I always CHOOSE the chicks I want. I do not have them choose me. They can flirt all they want, but if they aren't what FITS me, then nothing will happen. I ignore plenty of chicks. It is not due to being 'stuck up'. It is due to having a life
that is outside chicks. If, at the moment, I do not want a chick, I just let her pass by. For every love that dies, a new one is reborn. Wait a little while and the same exact scenario comes up again... and again... and keeps occuring with the frequency slowly increasing. Nature is tightening her noose around me.
It depicts how a man should act, how a man WOULD act in a perfact fairytale world where honor and love conquer all. But it's not, it doesn't, and your post is bull****.
How you get that from ANYTHING doesn't make sense to me...
. I work in a girls clothing store, and I'm convinced I got the job souly on looks. Of course during the interview I was confident, charismatic, blablalbblla, but I just got the feeling no matter what I'd have siad, the job was in the bag.
