To ALL the BRAVE MEN doing APPROACH JOURNALS

[DarthAngel707]

First off, congratulations to everybody who is going out there and doing cold approaches, because this is what this site is all about.

However, and I don't mean to be pessimistic, but how many lays have you guys received from cold approaches both during the day and at night? In my mind after a 100 approaches a guy should at least be getting laid from one out of the next 10 girls he meets...

For me, I can get phone numbers and girls to text me, but kissing and sex I've yet to get to that skill level. It seems if you cold approach, no matter how much interest you generate in the girl you're still known as "the guy she met off the street."

 

[schttrj]

nopes, if u CA her on the streets, its like "u r just another cool and interesting guy who was interested in her" (thus putting her on a pedestal) if u know what i mean.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Man , ive done a lot of approaches . Dont know never count them .

And im very thankful that i pushed my self to grab my balls and approach .

I got lots of girls through approaches .

Im not saying that i just met girls and fvcked her . Im telling that i got girls attracted to me , went out with them couple times before doing anything else with them . I live in small city and its great because i approach girls , build some rapport and next weekend i see them to a club or bar . There are perfect chances to get something out of them .

Also , if you dont get laid its great feeling to get a girl attracted to you .
I feel unstoppable .

 

[Technical1]

It seems if you cold approach, no matter how much interest you generate in the girl you're still known as "the guy she met off the street."

I guarantee you 100% that there is an interest level at which "place where I first met him" no longer matters. So "no matter how much interest you generate" really isn't true in this case. If you remain 'stigmatized' for having the ballz to go for her when you want her, then she really isn't that interested at all. My opinion (and I suck at cold-approaches but I still try and do them.)

 

[schttrj]

Man , ive done a lot of approaches . Dont know never count them .

And im very thankful that i pushed my self to grab my balls and approach .

I got lots of girls through approaches .

Im not saying that i just met girls and fvcked her . Im telling that i got girls attracted to me , went out with them couple times before doing anything else with them . I live in small city and its great because i approach girls , build some rapport and next weekend i see them to a club or bar . There are perfect chances to get something out of them .

Also , if you dont get laid its great feeling to get a girl attracted to you .
I feel unstoppable .

hey, i would like to thank u to really give me the courage to approach cold. i broke free from the matrix and im also doing it often i think.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

hey, i would like to thank u to really give me the courage to approach cold. i broke free from the matrix and im also doing it often i think.

Im glad that you got courage from my post . Just do it , i promise you wont regret .

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

No, it isn't that simple. In the last year I've probably done something like 300-350 approaches in clubs (which isn't that much in the big scheme), but it's only the last few months (that last 60 approaches or so) that I've had any kind of success.

I seem to be getting sex on a kind of regular basis, but not as much as I'd like.

After 100 approaches there is no way (unless you're a natural with just one or two things to sort) you'll pull one out of every ten girls. Maybe you'll kiss 1 in every ten, get a number etc, but these are easy things to do.

I sarge with a lot of different guys and it seems to be around the 6 to 8 month mark before any kind of success (I was 8 months). It takes about a year and a half to get results on an inconsistent basis, and more time to get regular success (I'd say about 2 years).

100 approaches is nothing, you'll get that, and maybe get a few numbers. It takes as long as it takes.

Yea true . But you can also get a girl in second approach .
It doesnt depend always on you . It depends in her mood , in her mindset .
Best way to improve yourself is to do approaches . Even if youre that guy that never spoke to a girl , this will help in lot of areas of life .If i could , i would force some of members here to approach at least once a day.

 

[SickAgain]

Could get a definition on what exactly counts as a cold approach. I mean I don't think club approaches should count because people are supposed/expected to be approached in clubs. I think that when you catch someone off guard, that counts.

 

[j0n024]

Maybe 1 out of every 20-30 approaches

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Could get a definition on what exactly counts as a cold approach. I mean I don't think club approaches should count because people are supposed/expected to be approached in clubs. I think that when you catch someone off guard, that counts.

Every approach counts . Every approach will improve your game .It will take some time but youll get good results

 

[DonGorgon]

First off, congratulations to everybody who is going out there and doing cold approaches, because this is what this site is all about.

However, and I don't mean to be pessimistic, but how many lays have you guys received from cold approaches both during the day and at night? In my mind after a 100 approaches a guy should at least be getting laid from one out of the next 10 girls he meets...

For me, I can get phone numbers and girls to text me, but kissing and sex I've yet to get to that skill level. It seems if you cold approach, no matter how much interest you generate in the girl you're still known as "the guy she met off the street."

I have noticed that Their stats are in line with what the average male has to deal with but they were brave enough to document all the BS that these women are perpetrating in 2008.. I thank you all too.

 

[ChrizZ]

I haven't approached much lately. I only do night game now cuz I'm busy with school. At night I play a more passive game. I usually bring 6 to 8 girls with me when I go to the club and then the women usually approach me. I don't even have to cold approach anymore.

 

[Entropy4]

As commendable as 100 approaches is, it's no metric for your success. It's conventional wisdom to consider a guy a "newbie" until he's done 1,000 cold approaches. 100 cold approaches could be done in 2-3 days if you really put your mind to it. To expect to become some master seducer after approaching 100 girls is delusional. That's like thinking you'll be a master pianist after playing 100 minutes.

 

[snowdog]

Cold Approaches are always hard. One of the reasons I keep a journal is that I can keep track of my own progress. If I read posts from a year ago I can see they're totally different from now. Check it in my signature, that thread is getting redicilous by now.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

As commendable as 100 approaches is, it's no metric for your success. It's conventional wisdom to consider a guy a "newbie" until he's done 1,000 cold approaches. 100 cold approaches could be done in 2-3 days if you really put your mind to it. To expect to become some master seducer after approaching 100 girls is delusional. That's like thinking you'll be a master pianist after playing 100 minutes.

Well I think a better gauge of talent is what you learn. If you are going simply for the numbers game then you do not need to 'learn' to get better, you just gotta keep putting yourself out there. OTOH, if you are trying to get better, you have to actively learn from your approaches so that you can see the signs and know when to do <insert tactic here>. In this instance, 100 good approaches can be a lot better than 1000 canned run-throughs

 

[Entropy4]

Well I think a better gauge of talent is what you learn. If you are going simply for the numbers game then you do not need to 'learn' to get better, you just gotta keep putting yourself out there. OTOH, if you are trying to get better, you have to actively learn from your approaches so that you can see the signs and know when to do <insert tactic here>. In this instance, 100 good approaches can be a lot better than 1000 canned run-throughs

I totally agree.

 

[HandyAndy]

its great feeling to get a girl attracted to you

Hell yeah it is