Tired of being lonely...what even
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calling someone fat is not an insult. this whole idea of fat=insult was invented by the food industry to reduce the social pressures on gluttony, this will then increase their sales.TheCWord said:
and their tactics are working, seeing the number of fat/obese people around >______>
btw i used to be a walrus myself
ok i will assume this is not troll ...OP i know the feeling of living in a small town, everyone is watching your every move, nothing to do, same boring scenery , same restaurants, same a$$holes trying to bug you in the same effing place everyday....
also there are very few people that you can date...i know too well....
i have the same problems...worst i can't leave this place due to stuff.
but what to do? till you leave the place , try to find a hobby like idk, origami? also you can lose weight by just jogging every morning,no gym needed.
as for friends , i only had one "true friend" here and he lives 400kms away,i visited him last week.everyone else is just an "acquaintance", i know how it feels man,but i found some friends at my gym and two turned out to be quality friends
i have found one thing in life OP
"sometimes the people who seem a$$holes at first sight,have the most potential for "real friendships"my best friend s all sounded like a$$holes at first....:cheer:
Zion
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This. So soooo much this.
BelleSing94
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You are loved, you are beautiful, never forget that!!
We should hook up sometime if you're into girls
We should hook up sometime if you're into girls
Zion
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I'm into girls. Wanna hookup with me ,Belle ?
Anyway ,I forgot to mention this in my last post so I'm just go ahead and again state what I have many times before.
Judging by some of these replies,some of you guys are hopeless. You simply hate women. There is just no hope for you.At the same time , ironically enough , you still put women on a pedestal. So if her social life isn't all that , she's either fat or ugly ? Cuz if not , she'd be a goddess,right ?
I know quite a number of girls that are gorgeous. 8+ , and yet have close to 0 friends. They're exactly as clueless as the average chump and probably even more insecure.
Even more so , you feel threatened by the "White Knight" so you immediately try to bash & lower his value. You guys have obviously learned a lot on SS. Strong DJ-ing .While this is the internet , and this is just a forum , I'm pretty much willing to bet that you're not different in real life.
What would even be the point of white knighting over a forum ? Do you honestly think he's expecting to get laid off it ? seriously ... just wtf ? He's trying to be helpful , while you are being nothing else but utter useless.
Finally , this forum isn't a man cave. And yes,while the outline is 'teaching men to become better with women' , the core lessons are universal and apply to both genders that wish to enhance their life.
Anyway ,I forgot to mention this in my last post so I'm just go ahead and again state what I have many times before.
Judging by some of these replies,some of you guys are hopeless. You simply hate women. There is just no hope for you.At the same time , ironically enough , you still put women on a pedestal. So if her social life isn't all that , she's either fat or ugly ? Cuz if not , she'd be a goddess,right ?
I know quite a number of girls that are gorgeous. 8+ , and yet have close to 0 friends. They're exactly as clueless as the average chump and probably even more insecure.
Even more so , you feel threatened by the "White Knight" so you immediately try to bash & lower his value. You guys have obviously learned a lot on SS. Strong DJ-ing .While this is the internet , and this is just a forum , I'm pretty much willing to bet that you're not different in real life.
What would even be the point of white knighting over a forum ? Do you honestly think he's expecting to get laid off it ? seriously ... just wtf ? He's trying to be helpful , while you are being nothing else but utter useless.
Finally , this forum isn't a man cave. And yes,while the outline is 'teaching men to become better with women' , the core lessons are universal and apply to both genders that wish to enhance their life.
Zion
Senior Don Juan
Gentleman ? No,I'm actually an as$hole.
But yeah,our kids will be awesome.
But yeah,our kids will be awesome.
VladPatton
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whats funny is i am neither a troll, fat, or ugly.
just because an attractive girl has social issues doesnt mean there is something wrong with me physically.
Some people dont make friends easy no matter how attractive you are, i have had social issues alll my life.
im not that much of an exciting person so i never have exciting stories to tell, and i find it hard to be interesting and keep my audience entertained. i am also quite shy so that doesnt help my social anxiety.
I am keen to try some of suggestions given here and thanks to the users who gave me decent replies, its much appreciated. some things are easier said then done, i try not to care what people think of me but when you are trying to build social status and there is b1tches going around making up stories about you trying to make you look bad because they dont like you, it gets quite hard.
I have been severely bullied all my life cos of these problems and because of this i never had proper friends, ive always been one to do my own thing and go everywhere by myself which can be great but it just makes me look like a loner/loser which i hate. I have also been to therapy but its always the same things i get told over and over.
just because an attractive girl has social issues doesnt mean there is something wrong with me physically.
Some people dont make friends easy no matter how attractive you are, i have had social issues alll my life.
im not that much of an exciting person so i never have exciting stories to tell, and i find it hard to be interesting and keep my audience entertained. i am also quite shy so that doesnt help my social anxiety.
I am keen to try some of suggestions given here and thanks to the users who gave me decent replies, its much appreciated. some things are easier said then done, i try not to care what people think of me but when you are trying to build social status and there is b1tches going around making up stories about you trying to make you look bad because they dont like you, it gets quite hard.
I have been severely bullied all my life cos of these problems and because of this i never had proper friends, ive always been one to do my own thing and go everywhere by myself which can be great but it just makes me look like a loner/loser which i hate. I have also been to therapy but its always the same things i get told over and over.
Reminds me of where I used to live. It was ALL about status, competition, ego, and jealousy. Drinking and getting laid, judging and insulting anyone deemed fake or different (when they themselves were fake as hell), gossiping and drama... very shallow and superficial. Even if you were "better" than others, they'd still tear you down, bully you, try to keep you beneath them, downplay your successes, etc. Just a bunch of worthless, insecure, loud-mouthed *******s everywhere; competing and judging over the most inane **** you can think of. No depth, class, respect, etc, anywhere.. None of them were successful at **** - including what they claimed to be best at - but still tore down and disbelieved anyone who was actually worth a damn. Very delusional and simple-minded.djgirl said:
Fortunately, it's not like that here. Moving away was the best thing I ever did. Might wanna try it.
have often thought about it trust me. but when you have no money and no job to go to it makes it hard. you can apply for jobs but they wont look at you because your in another city and they dont know how serious you are and if your going to get home sick etc so they usually wont even consider you =/floydb25 said:
It's been said earlier in this post, but getting a job has to be a top priority for you right now. Nothing decreases self worth like being unemployed. Even if it's a job you're not crazy about - the thing is that it fills your time. That means less time sitting at home thinking about how lonely you are.djgirl said:
Atom Smasher
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OP, do a serious self-evaluation. Do you find that you tend to look down on people for their faults or imperfections? I'm not saying you do... I'm asking for an honest assessment.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I didn't ask if you shame them or make them feel any less.
Do you internally look down on them, perhaps thinking this person wouldn't make a good friend because of ______ or that person wouldn't because of ______?
Do you internally look down on them, perhaps thinking this person wouldn't make a good friend because of ______ or that person wouldn't because of ______?
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Djgirl, the same advice I would give a fella in your situation will work just as well for you.
Stop worrying about all of that other **** and focus on yourself for a while. Get a hobby, get fit, get awesome. Whatever you feel your big flaws are take steps in improving on and embracing those flaws. This will breed confidence, which it sounds like you are sorely lacking... Don't have a job, can't find one? Occupy your time with something else!
Confidence is sexy in women too.
Stop worrying about all of that other **** and focus on yourself for a while. Get a hobby, get fit, get awesome. Whatever you feel your big flaws are take steps in improving on and embracing those flaws. This will breed confidence, which it sounds like you are sorely lacking... Don't have a job, can't find one? Occupy your time with something else!
Confidence is sexy in women too.
You know guys, I have to say this: any Modern Woman in the USA today who "can't find" a man, despite its millions upon millions of feministized self-loathing faggots, appeasers, orbiters, wannabe providers, and young men who simply never learned from their fathers how to act like a man and get laid, etc., we must close ranks, lock arms, express solidarity with our downtrodden brothers, and unanimously give her this advice:
If you "can't find" a man to fvck, then go fvck yourself!
If you "can't find" a man to fvck, then go fvck yourself!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Why are you so surprised I ask, and how can you possibly not see how this applies?djgirl said:
Many women have become trained by the media to be overly-selective, perceiving everyone they come across as "not good enough". Then they wonder why they "can't find a good man". This is actually very common, hence my question.
