Well, I am a typical guy who actually been involved with different relationships and It always ended up like a trashed, Is it me? Is it the way I handle the relationship? I can't hardly spell it out, I have been so pissed off everytime that a girl would say there typical lines, "I need some space" , " I want to have a breath of fresh air " , " I am dealing a lot of stuff right now and I think we should cut off seeing each other" etc., what the ****! that's just their way of ditching a guy and it punch me in a minute knowing that every relationship, I made a point to invest a lot of emotions and make all the effort to keep the relationship but then what can I do?, I just can't figure out why women easily change their feelings in just a snap of a finger. I am so confused at the moment, I badly want some advice how to deal with my situation right now.
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Tired of being ditch!
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Purefilth
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Dude read this post it may help answer your questions
Dude read this post it may help answer your questions
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
troy_003 said:"I need some space" , " I want to have a breath of fresh air " , " I am dealing a lot of stuff right now and I think we should cut off seeing each other" etc.,
every relationship,I made a point to invest a lot of emotions and make all the effort to keep the relationship
When I read what these women are saying to you, and how you invest a lot of emotions and effort into the relationship, it just makes me think that you're too relationship-focused. Like you're one of those guys who BADLY wants a girlfriend.
A girl might break up with me for a number of reasons, but i never hear "I need more space."
So, I don't know your whole story, but it sounds like you need some interests outside of your relationship. Hobbies. Sports. Clubs. Friends. Instead of calling/texting a gf 7 days a week, call/text 3 days a week. Instead of seeing her 5 days, see her 2 or 3 days.
troy_003 said:I made a point to invest a lot of emotions .
thats your problem right there. women despise that, they truly hate it. sounds counter intuitive but drop the emotional sh!t.
Mr.SomeoneElse
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You sound like someone who makes their relationship their life.
You have to stop doing that.
A relationship should be SHARING your life with someone else.
If your life = the relationship, then you really have a problem about the sharing aspect, making you un-ininteresting and clingy.
Iceberg is right man, get some hobbies, outside interests, self-improvement, girls will follow and the girls that do follow will be of higher quality.
The girls that dumped you will be messaging you asking you to take THEM back. Truth.
You have to stop doing that.
A relationship should be SHARING your life with someone else.
If your life = the relationship, then you really have a problem about the sharing aspect, making you un-ininteresting and clingy.
Iceberg is right man, get some hobbies, outside interests, self-improvement, girls will follow and the girls that do follow will be of higher quality.
The girls that dumped you will be messaging you asking you to take THEM back. Truth.
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
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They are not doing it in a "snap of a finger."troy_003 said:I just can't figure out why women easily change their feelings in just a snap of a finger.
That is an illusion us men assume naturally.
by the time they tell you, they've already thought it all through, hamster full spin cycle.
They only tell you after they've decided already, which seems like an instant, but in actuality was going on days or weeks prior.
my last ex, I knew we were done when she tactfully retrieved her items from my house one by one. a week after getting her last item back, she called it off.
I saw it coming, because of reading other stories here and figured it was going to happen any day and it did.