So I have been dating this girl for about 2 months now and we have gone out about 7-8 times. We took about a 4 week break in between where we didnt see each other because I was away traveling and she had a lot of work.
We've slept together, she's stayed over my house about 4 times and we genuinely enjoy each other's company. We've gone out dancing to clubs, bars, concerts and she has also just come over my place to drink and spend the night.
During the week when we dont see each other, I pretty much never text her. In fact during the 4 week period where we didn't go out together, we spoke about 2 times.
This past Thursday came and I texted her asking how she was doing, she called me about 30 min after I sent the text and asked if I was down to go out that night. To which we did. We went out, got drunk, danced and slept over. Dropped her off home on Friday afternoon after spending the day with her and havent spoken to her since.
My questions are the following.. We haven't spoken about our feelings, (to which I dont intend on doing eitherway). Right now we are just having fun and hooking up. However I have caught some feelings and I think she may have too a bit. The way we kiss each other is very sensual, she caresses my face and looks me in the eye, and we kiss for minutes on end. We hold each other in the middle of a parking lot and just kiss and hug without saying anything. So, her behavior (as well as mine) shows something more than just having each other as a plate. She suspects I date other women (to which I do) and jokes about it but does not ask any questions. Neither do I ask about her dating life.
The times we've gone out has been mostly night life dates, to which they are fun and exciting. But I am getting the urge to want to do other things such as go to the park with our dogs or go on a trip together.
If I continue going out with her occasionally on evening dates, I am afraid it will become a known routine. How can I maintain the spontaneity with her without coming off as if I am looking for a relationship with her? I would like to get to know a different side of her, aside from her regular party self that I've been knowing this whole time. But I also want to maintain being my mysterious self to which I occasionally disappear for about a week or so.
Thoughts?
We've slept together, she's stayed over my house about 4 times and we genuinely enjoy each other's company. We've gone out dancing to clubs, bars, concerts and she has also just come over my place to drink and spend the night.
During the week when we dont see each other, I pretty much never text her. In fact during the 4 week period where we didn't go out together, we spoke about 2 times.
This past Thursday came and I texted her asking how she was doing, she called me about 30 min after I sent the text and asked if I was down to go out that night. To which we did. We went out, got drunk, danced and slept over. Dropped her off home on Friday afternoon after spending the day with her and havent spoken to her since.
My questions are the following.. We haven't spoken about our feelings, (to which I dont intend on doing eitherway). Right now we are just having fun and hooking up. However I have caught some feelings and I think she may have too a bit. The way we kiss each other is very sensual, she caresses my face and looks me in the eye, and we kiss for minutes on end. We hold each other in the middle of a parking lot and just kiss and hug without saying anything. So, her behavior (as well as mine) shows something more than just having each other as a plate. She suspects I date other women (to which I do) and jokes about it but does not ask any questions. Neither do I ask about her dating life.
The times we've gone out has been mostly night life dates, to which they are fun and exciting. But I am getting the urge to want to do other things such as go to the park with our dogs or go on a trip together.
If I continue going out with her occasionally on evening dates, I am afraid it will become a known routine. How can I maintain the spontaneity with her without coming off as if I am looking for a relationship with her? I would like to get to know a different side of her, aside from her regular party self that I've been knowing this whole time. But I also want to maintain being my mysterious self to which I occasionally disappear for about a week or so.
Thoughts?
