Tips on getting her to go down

[faiNt`]

Yeah .. I've went down twice and she told me that she feels like she would be forcing herself to do it and that it just doesn't feel right for her to go down on me. What a load of horse sh*t. Someone explain how I can make her feel more comfortable or whatever I have to do because I'm confused.

 

[Vitanoid]

Pardon me, but what does "going down" mean?

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

^lol

Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..

Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.

I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga

 

[eaglez1177]

Yeah .. I've went down twice and she told me that she feels like she would be forcing herself to do it and that it just doesn't feel right for her to go down on me. What a load of horse sh*t. Someone explain how I can make her feel more comfortable or whatever I have to do because I'm confused.

God I hate when girls pull this bs. DO NOT go back down on her if she isnt returning the favor!! Hopefully she'll use her brain and realize that your not gonna do anything for her if she isnt returning the favor. I wouldnt even finger her either; just stay away from it completely. On top of that, act as if your losing interest in her. That way she will wanna give you head to keep things spiced up. She'll be goin crazy over it all, and she is going to want things the way they were before, so to do that, shes gonna return the favor to keep things going.

And DO NOT ask her to give you head. That is just really pathetic and desperate. Guys that do that NEVER wind up getting head from the girl.

EDIT: and lol @ Vit

 

[faiNt`]

Pardon me, but what does "going down" mean?

Getting head .. oral sex .. blow job etc

^lol

Get her drunk for the first time, maybe she will realize its not so bad..

Are you having sex with this girl? Its possible to put bjs on the backburner if your still getting her a$$. She will become more comfortable with your d1ck in her body and more accepting to the idea of her getting on her knees for you.

I would also stop going down on her. Dont give her that pleasure if shes unwilling to return the favor. Just use the fingas my nigga

She's a tank and doesn't like drinking anyway. I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral.

Advice taken .. I won't do it for her till she starts to get how it works.

God I hate when girls pull this bs. DO NOT go back down on her if she isnt returning the favor!! Hopefully she'll use her brain and realize that your not gonna do anything for her if she isnt returning the favor. I wouldnt even finger her either; just stay away from it completely. On top of that, act as if your losing interest in her. That way she will wanna give you head to keep things spiced up. She'll be goin crazy over it all, and she is going to want things the way they were before, so to do that, shes gonna return the favor to keep things going.

And DO NOT ask her to give you head. That is just really pathetic and desperate. Guys that do that NEVER wind up getting head from the girl.

EDIT: and lol @ Vit

So I don't ask .. she would have to initiate it then .. alright, I'll try that.

Tell her to do it instead of ask? I'm not sure ...

 

[Vitanoid]

Getting head .. oral sex .. blow job etc

That's what I thought, but just making sure because my perverted masculine mind associates everything with sex.

 

[thedude4242]

if a girl aint giving you head by now you just are not going to get it. shaved your ass pubic hairs if u have not already. the heck with eating her stuff. usually you hook-up with a girl she will do it the first time.

 

[getready]

"I feel there's a natural progression such as makeout, upstairs, downstairs, oral, then sex. I can't see her having sex with me before oral."

not true. Some girls just refuse to give head. I felt the same way with my girl, but then we talked about it and she was like id rather go straight to sex. Definately stop eating her out though

 

[YogurtSlinger]

And DO NOT ask her to give you head. That is just really pathetic and desperate. Guys that do that NEVER wind up getting head from the girl.

NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.


Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.

Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.

 

[faiNt`]

NEVER use words like never and always...It's not an absolute truth.


Dude, if she has that kind of attitude about it and getting sucked off is important to you, you are going to have to find someone else. If she feels that strongly about it, it's not worth the effort because she won't be that into it if you ever convince her to give you head. She may do it once or twice to appease you, but it's not gonna be a regular thing.

Here's my advice for you if you really want head. Get some ribs removed. If I was as ugly as you, I wouldn't expect any girl to want to suck me off either.

Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.

Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true

 

[eaglez1177]

Personally I just don't think she's ready yet due to never having done it before. I've gone the farther out of us two, and the farthest of any guy with her, which is, I'm guessing, why she's hesitant.

Funny comment at the end .. maybe it's true

So what, theres a first time for everything. If you lose your patience, move on to the next one.

So I don't ask .. she would have to initiate it then .. alright, I'll try that.

Tell her to do it instead of ask? I'm not sure ...

Yes, let her initiate it. And no, DO NOT "tell her" to do it. That will come off as being too forceful, not to mention it will still come off as desperate and needy. If she still doesnt initiate after what I said to do before, NEXT HER.