Tips on feeling less needy?

[Gamemasta]

Lately I've been feeling kind of, lonely..(sounds homo..) but Im sure you've been there. I've felt like this multiple times "needy" you could call it and it always ends up with me being clingy or getting one-itis. I've got plenty of friends and hobbies so Ive got plenty of things to keep my mind occupied but somehow I can't help feeling the need to keep texting some girl etc. I hate it. It's almost like without a girl I feel kind of empty.. (again no homo, lol) but what are some tips to help me feel less dependent on girls and whatnot.. ?

I guess inside I'm more of an "emotional guy" (not the crying type, but i have a heart) and I try not to let that show. Maybe some tips on toning down emotions would be helpful.

 

[ryanjevo]

First off. Stop being a ***** and saying no homo. Embrace yourself in your loneliness and your emptiness at times. Don't write it off as something thats feminine. This is part of being a man. Learning to understand and control your emotions.

Secondly, you need to GET THE **** OUT IN THE WORLD. You feel needy because you need your **** sucked. Get out and do the hobbies you like. Go out and get chicks! Start approaching a ton of women. When you have a solid amount of girls to choose from you don't get oneitis.

Your feeling needy because you still base your self worth off of what women and others think of you. Realize your fvcking the sh!t and girls should kill to be with you. Start working on YOU. Making yourself the best. Thats the only way you can get out of the endless infinite cycle of needless.

 

[old fashioned]

Bro I have been, in the exact same situation for two years with different girls... When i was in that situation, i always had a crush on some girl, and the girls i was crushing on, completely had control on my moods, if the girl i was crushing on said something bad to me, i would be sad for the rest of the day, bet you feel the same way right ? ... And thats the most awful mindset you can have with girls...

But one day i got up and changed it... wanna now how ? I started to go to parties and hook up with different girls, i started not to focus on only one girl, but more... I started to keep my options open, instead of only have one girl in mind... When you do that, i promise you that you will start to feel less needy...

Do not let girls control you bro !