Barrister
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Partly going to depend on where she is agreeing to go. If you go to a bar and sit side by side do the usual and feel the situation out with strategic kino. If she reacts positively you know you can keep escalating towards more.Ok. That makes a lot of sense.
Then on your date, you do things as usual yeah? Kino, flirting, sexual escalation, and so on.
I just want to ensure that through this method, she doesn’t get blindsided. That it’s not like “Surprise, I have a pen!s and I want to sleep with you!” So she doesn’t freak out when you make a move lol. Or end up in the “Half Hour Conversation to Nowhere” as PUAs call it.
Though, I suppose you could consider asking her out on the date showing intent within itself, yeah?
Nothing wrong with getting her out and keeping the charm up and then getting her number at the end and asking her out on the date either. Remember that generally boldness is rewarded though. Once you’re past age 21 no one goes out 1 on 1 without some expectation of seeing where it leads on a romantic basis. Personally, I would try some kino in that initial meetup - but I don’t think you’re dead in the water if you keep it charming and get her number and set up a “real” date soon thereafter.