tips and tricks with attention

[sam3083]

Ok, so I understand the idea/concept of denying a HB attention, after giving her attention or just giving her short spurts of attention. My question is that how much attention should I give and how often should it be given?

Keeping in mind that I want to convey to this girl that I am interested, becasue we are sort of already associates, and I have been kinoing her pretty well lately.
She is a grade younger then I am, so I see her occasionally at school for brief periods of time. However, we both do track and field where we are around each other 3 times a week (mon, wed, thur) for about an hour and a half. During track and field we train with each other quite a bit ( we are both in the more advanced group of only about 5 people, out of those I am easily the alpha male though).
Would giving her my full attention every training be too much or what?

Cheers for the advice.

 

[GaryUranga]

play around with it, sell yourself liek a drug, the first few are for free, for the rest she has to pay for it

 

[AlphaOmega]

Just ask her out. Whats so difficult about "hey, do you wanna have dinner together after this?", or "lets grab a coffee?". If you don't, somebody else could move in, she could have somebody else, or a plethora of scenario's where your hard work goes for nothing. And for what? She will either say yes, at which point your in a better situation to work her up, or she will say no, and then you know she doesn't want you. So? Do you honestly believe that playing with attention or hot-and-cold games like radio knobs is gonna make her want you if she already decided she doesn't?

 

[sam3083]

good point omega. Kind of came to thatconclusion myself recently...

Probably something I have to work on. The whole 'no fear' notion.

So from hee should I read some more bible, or just grit my teeth and go for it.

Think I answered my own question... Go for it.

 

[GrayWolf]

Push her

Try push/pull technique. Send her mixed signal... that's make bold attraction.

 

[sam3083]

ok... can u elaborate a bit more on the wolf. I understand the concept but an example or something would be really handy