I wish I had known what university was going to be like when I was back in highschool.
Think of what your highschool is like. There are maybe a few hundred students in your grade, a very small percentage of them are girls you're interested in. Very small...like we're talking a handful of girls who are attractive, even less who are compatible with you
Fast forward to university: Thousands of women. Women everywhere -- your classes, residence, caf, library, anywhere on campus.
What have I learned after two years in this paradise? The two key things to succeeding are:
1) Your ability to be social
2) Looks
So here's my tip:
1) Don't waste your time with the few girls that are at your highschool. Instead, learn to be generally social -- talk to anyone, everyone, both guys and girls. Learn to express your feelings, talk interestingly and most of all: Learn to tell stories! Think about all the funny and interesting things that happen to you everyday! Every single time you laugh at something, I want you to tell yourself "Hey, that would be an interesting story to tell someone!" and make sure you remember it!
2) HIT THE GYM! while you're still in highschool! If I had started working out in grade 11, 2 years of solid weight lifting would have made me look like a model! And you don't have to be a big muscle-man or anything. Just workout consistently and get fit and put on as much muscle as you can. Seeing a change in your body takes many months, even years, so start now! You'll be so incredibly grateful you did once you're done highschool.
Your first year of university is the most important because people are most willing to meet others in their first year. This is the time when you make your friends and establish yourself. This is the time where your social skills and looks matter most.
I know it's hard for someone in highschool to understand, but if you can believe me, you will be way ahead of the game by the time you reach university.
Good luck!
Think of what your highschool is like. There are maybe a few hundred students in your grade, a very small percentage of them are girls you're interested in. Very small...like we're talking a handful of girls who are attractive, even less who are compatible with you
Fast forward to university: Thousands of women. Women everywhere -- your classes, residence, caf, library, anywhere on campus.
What have I learned after two years in this paradise? The two key things to succeeding are:
1) Your ability to be social
2) Looks
So here's my tip:
1) Don't waste your time with the few girls that are at your highschool. Instead, learn to be generally social -- talk to anyone, everyone, both guys and girls. Learn to express your feelings, talk interestingly and most of all: Learn to tell stories! Think about all the funny and interesting things that happen to you everyday! Every single time you laugh at something, I want you to tell yourself "Hey, that would be an interesting story to tell someone!" and make sure you remember it!
2) HIT THE GYM! while you're still in highschool! If I had started working out in grade 11, 2 years of solid weight lifting would have made me look like a model! And you don't have to be a big muscle-man or anything. Just workout consistently and get fit and put on as much muscle as you can. Seeing a change in your body takes many months, even years, so start now! You'll be so incredibly grateful you did once you're done highschool.
Your first year of university is the most important because people are most willing to meet others in their first year. This is the time when you make your friends and establish yourself. This is the time where your social skills and looks matter most.
I know it's hard for someone in highschool to understand, but if you can believe me, you will be way ahead of the game by the time you reach university.
Good luck!
) and he said he wish he knew that if everyone was not working in education but financial materials, then he could buy a million scientist from other countries.