Tip on setting this date up

[djthiago1]

Im trying to get a date with this girl i started messaging on IG that goes to my uni, apparently she wants to see me first, how do i this properly? I don't want to hang out and talk about everything we should be talking at a real date.

 

[marmel75]

Turn it into a date then

 

[djthiago1]

Turn it into a date then

A date sitting on a bench at campus with no food or drink? Sounds kinda weird.

 

[djthiago1]

Wait, thats starting to sound like a good idea, i could bring some ice cream, we could find a more private place and do it right then and there, i'll have to clarify that it is a DATE though, else she's gonna think it's just a little meet. I still think it's gonna be a little weird, you sure that can work?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Ask her to join you at something you are already going to do.

And stop thinking about the word "date" in such a narrow way. It is a good word to drop from your vocabulary altogether. Women don't like it, either, too much pressure. You dont date, you just hang out and do stuff...and have sex.

 

[djthiago1]

Ask her to join you at something you are already going to do.

And stop thinking about the word "date" in such a narrow way. It is a good word to drop from your vocabulary altogether. Women don't like it, either, too much pressure. You dont date, you just hang out and do stuff...and have sex.

I actually disagree with everything you just said, i'm not going to argue though.

 

[jaymbrs]

I'm curious to know how you managed to get the interest of a chick on IG when she doesn't even know what you look like.

 

[djthiago1]

I'm curious to know how you managed to get the interest of a chick on IG when she doesn't even know what you look like.

Same way you'd spark interest through Online Dating, a good job, education, and some cool pictures. There's no secret.

 

[Bible_Belt]

If you are looking for girls who will make you spend money on them before you have sex, then yes, telling them you have a good job is the right thing to do. Maybe you are looking for a wife, and that is your definition of wife material. That's up to you.

 

[djthiago1]

If you are looking for girls who will make you spend money on them before you have sex, then yes, telling them you have a good job is the right thing to do. Maybe you are looking for a wife, and that is your definition of wife material. That's up to you.

There's no need to tell, it's in my description. Also, gold diggers don't do coffee dates, i always go for a first coffee date. I always screen them out. I never have to spend money for sex, i actually reject sex before i get more time in. Not everyone is a sex addict.