Tip - How to get a girlfriend in 4 easy steps [version 1.0]

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How to get a girlfriend in 4 easy steps [version 1.0]


Do you want a girlfriend but no matter what you do you just can't seem to get one?
Well, if so read this tip, understand it, and apply these 4 easy steps.
In order to get a girlfriend, you have to treat her like your girlfriend long in advance or you actually closing the deal preferably as soon as you meet her if you are

attracted to her.

Here are the steps:

Follow these steps in order, if one or two get out of order that's OK. Just make sure that 1-3 are all done before you INDIRECTLY pop the question.
Yes INDIRECTLY, this will be explained later.


1st off: Assuming you've already met her, talked to her, got her number, and dated her at least a couple of times:

[STEP 1 HUGGING]

After your first encounter with her you should definitely hug her upon leaving.
After any date you should always hug her upon leaving.
Say it with me, "Whenever we are parting from each other I will end the encounter not with a handshake, or a simple goodbye,
I will leave her with a HUG and whisper "goodbye" in her ear while doing it.
How do you do this? Simply grab her and hug her.
If she's startled the first time, don't worry about it, that's probably a good thing. It shows her that you have a measure of unpredictability to you. Besides she'll get used

to it after a couple of times and come to expect it. In short she'll begin to love you for it.

[STEP 2 HANDHOLDING]

On the next date say, "you have pretty hands, can I feel how soft they are?" Grab her hand and kino it.
Make a comment. Be honest but in a C/F way. You can say "You have really soft hands, they feel nice, but they are cold as ice." Or, "Your hands aren't as soft as I

expected, in fact they feel like a construction worker's hands." Now everytime you see her make it a point to hold her hand while you are with her, she'll get used to it.

When you get good you'll expand to grabbing both hands at once and swinging them, and walking while holding hands.

[STEP 3 KISSING]

Don't talk about kissing with her. Use the mouth spray kiss close.
So that's a second good reason to always keep a little can of mouth spray on you at all times. Make sure that she is already relaxed and having fun with you. If she

isn't, then either build up to it by making her laugh and lightening her mood or wait until she's in a better mood. It doesn't have to be in private but that can help some.

At some point stop, say "I just want to take in your beauty for a few precious moments, may I please?" then gaze into her eyes for a good ten seconds, Then spray

into your mouth, move in like you're going to kiss but stop and back up then hold the can up to her mouth and spray if she let's you.
If she does let you then kiss her. Don't be shy, throw a little tongue in and suck. Bite her bottom lip as you end the kiss. Now everytime you first meet up with her,

greet her with a kiss. Start with a kiss, end with a hug.

[STEP 4 ASKING HER TO BE YOUR GIRL]

You NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER come straight out and ask her to be your girlfriend. That shows way too much neediness.

So this is what you say:

"Do you think it is too early in this relationship to be talking about hooking up as a couple?"

Based on her response, if it is positive then go ahead and say: "Then I want to be your boyfriend." [Notice you DID NOT ASK HER TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND]

Please pay attention to how that is worded.
If the response to the first question was negative then say, "That's just what I was going to say but I thought you felt differently."
See how you left the door open for yourself to bring this up later while not looking like a needy wimp.


Remember getting a girl is not hard. It does involve work though.
AFCs can get girls sometimes without going through any of these steps, but they won't keep her for long. She'll get stolen away, hopefully by YOU.


But because you are a DON you not only know how to get a girl,
you know how to "lock her in" and keep her!
So keep doing what it was that got you her in the first place, long after she is finally yours!
 

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I disagree. IMO, meet her until she mentions the b/f, g/f thing like anti dump said.
 

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I also disagree with your steps TDOT.

I think you should keep "dating" them. In terms of making them your girlfriend / boyfriend, assume you guys are close after a couple of dates. Just never assume you're exclusive until you've specifically mentioned that.

As for exclusivity, i would wait awhile for that, perhaps months. After all, you should be seeing a bunch of girls to make sure you're taking the best.

Rhino
 

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ugh; pop the question? You're not f'in gettin married, stop makin a big deal out of it. :p


Also, making steps doesn't work either; its gotta come naturally.
 

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I like the 'version 1.0' bit, and this version will definitely need some patches and major upgrades.

Acting like her boyfriend before its time may be a little too much too soon. You start doing things for regularly that a BF would do, but that she hasn't earned yet. You have to keep things in balance.

Hugging to me is a no-no - that = friend to her. She'll think .. 'why didn't he kiss me?' .. he must just want to be friends.

Popping the question .. this isn't a good idea at all. This is childish in the least, and has no charm/savvy to it what so ever. It's just something that happens.

Can't wait to see what version 2.0 will look like.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I would infer to the girl that I were interested in hooking up, make sure I get a positive response/vibe and then retreat.

The sense of indifference in her mind will then bring her to you and cement the notion of attraction without question.

Too much touchy feely advice here and I agree, hugging a girl incinuates friendship.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Hugging to me is a no-no - that = friend to her. She'll think .. 'why didn't he kiss me?' .. he must just want to be friends.
Kino type girls love hugging! You can actualy win them over by cuddling, cuddling leads to kissing etc.
 

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writing tips should only be authorised to certain members.
 

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Originally posted by Double
writing tips should only be authorised to certain members.
I agree man. All our quality members hardly post.
 

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yeh dude, it's a shame. maybe one day i will post a tip of my own, but it is so fvcking annoying to look up the words in the dictionary for me. so i just can bump good tips;)
 
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Originally posted by Double
writing tips should only be authorised to certain members.
IMO Thats not a great idea - we need new people to post quality tips to keep things fresh. What we need is for the Mods to delete the trashy tips, or at least move them somewhere else.
 

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Getting a gf is not that complicated. Most of the tricks people try to get are to get quick sex but not to get a gf.

Here are 4 tips on getting a gf.

1. See girl
2. Approach girl
3. Talk to girl.
4. Enjoy each other's company until you decide to be a couple.
 

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Or how about this:

1) Improve yourself - socially, physically, financially etc.
2) Let her chase you, and decide from there

2 easy steps!, but actually more work. It's a win/win situation though.
 

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Re:

IME, the 'needy' girls will be ones to come out and say "be with me." The non-needy or more 'feminine' chicks will just show TONS of interest until you man up and decide what you want.


Ask her out, for crying out loud.


Remind yourself, if she's into doing anything you want to do, then the next step is to ask without reservation EXACTLY what you want. If she declines, or wants to go slow, then it's your choice, again, from there. Walk or stay.


I battled this with a few hotties, GIRLS LIKE TO BE ASKED OUT. If they like you, you got nothing to lose. If they don't, they WAITING to find out if they do is a pvssy move. There's a fine line when you're playing it cool between looking wimpy/pvssy/afc and being laid back enough to remain calm. It will be OBVIOUS if the relationship is there...


If she....
*hangs with your friends, you hang with her's.
*share similar interests.
*spend a few days/week together.
*she does whatever you choose to do.
*she's into spending time with you, and doesn't care about the plans.
*Expresses her interests in making plans with you, such as taking you out or suggesting a place she'd like you to go.

If she doesn't...
*She won't find the time.
*Hooking up is on her watch.
*She doesn't return calls for more than a few days.
*Plans are more important than you.
*She's shady about her dealings.


To me, it's MORE AFC to pitter patter around the HOW DO I ASK HER stuff, than to just upfront say it. You're calling her, fvcking her, inviting her out, ASKING HER to be steady is a way of saying "I ain't gonna screw anybody else or see anybody else now." It ain't the end of the world. You've already expressed interest in her WHEN YOU got the number. After, the interest level varies from Stalker to Pvssy / WIMP. You want to be in the middle. Don't stalk her, but don't leave it so limp she has no idea what kind of guy you are.




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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Or how about this:

1) Improve yourself - socially, physically, financially etc.
2) Let her chase you, and decide from there

2 easy steps!, but actually more work. It's a win/win situation though.
Fair enough dude, have a boring life ;)
 

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