Tinder Girl - Hookup Immediately

[BJP1991]

Recently had a couple girls either (a) straight up tell me they want a hookup, or (b) passively suggest one (I.e. they give me their number and tell me to text them, I text them, and they go down the “wyd” route, or “I want to see you” or “come pick me up” even though we have never met in person).

My question is, would you ever just make an arrangement for sex only? For example, last week a girl almost just came to my house like it was nothing. Gave her my address, and she was like “ok I’ll leave soon”. My gut got the best of me, and I suggested a drink at a bar first.


Have you ever just invited a girl over directly or gone to her place, before ever even meeting them? Seems risky, for multiple reasons (safety, stds, etc).

Personally, I feel more comfortable meeting them in person somewhere like a bar or coffee shop, then I’d be more than down to have them at my place or myself to theirs. But curious what you guys think or have done if a girl just flat out wants a hookup, like, right now.

Thoughts?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Recently had a couple girls either (a) straight up tell me they want a hookup, or (b) passively suggest one (I.e. they give me their number and tell me to text them, I text them, and they go down the “wyd” route, or “I want to see you” or “come pick me up” even though we have never met in person).

My question is, would you ever just make an arrangement for sex only? For example, last week a girl almost just came to my house like it was nothing. Gave her my address, and she was like “ok I’ll leave soon”. My gut got the best of me, and I suggested a drink at a bar first.


Have you ever just invited a girl over directly or gone to her place, before ever even meeting them? Seems risky, for multiple reasons (safety, stds, etc).

Personally, I feel more comfortable meeting them in person somewhere like a bar or coffee shop, then I’d be more than down to have them at my place or myself to theirs. But curious what you guys think or have done if a girl just flat out wants a hookup, like, right now.

Thoughts?

Over thinking. You should be in the moment.

 

[btownbuck2012]

That’s how c ocky women are getting man. they’ve got so many options that they’re actually starting to get sloppy. I’ve gotten the “ come pick me up” crap from women I haven’t met before either. What’s truly f*cked up is that you can’t even put them in their place anymore. “No” to her come pick me up suggestion would, in theory, get her to realize she’s acting like a c*nt and needs to check herself but today’s woman will just write you off and go down her list of 20 other guys she’s either matched with on tinder or who are orbiting her in real life who are more than happy to ask how high when she says jump. It’s totally ridiculous.

 

[BJP1991]

That’s how c ocky women are getting man. they’ve got so many options that they’re actually starting to get sloppy. I’ve gotten the “ come pick me up” crap from women I haven’t met before either. What’s truly f*cked up is that you can’t even put them in their place anymore. “No” to her come pick me up suggestion would, in theory, get her to realize she’s acting like a c*nt and needs to check herself but today’s woman will just write you off and go down her list of 20 other guys she’s either matched with on tinder or who are orbiting her in real life who are more than happy to ask how high when she says jump. It’s totally ridiculous.

Very interesting, because I agree with you entirely. Girl can be blowing up your phone at 11pm one day and then won’t even bother with you the next. Typically whenever I encounter women like this, I don’t give them the time of day, and I always assume they just go down their list of loser dudes who are chomping at the bit to get in their pants and will do literally anything for them. I’m not about to get out of bed at 11pm on a Monday and pick you up just because you’re drunk and lonely.

 

[backseatjuan]

Recently had a couple girls either straight up tell me they want a hookup

Talking and doing is two different things. What you saying there were such conversations, but it actually never came down to it.

About two months ago I created for this one girl, she's an ex fck buddy of mine and has 4 kids and a husband, an online dating account, and told her to get laid. Her experience with it was that there were plenty of losers online, and a few dudes she liked, she was desperate, literally telling them come pick me up from work, let's go on a date, etc. She only got one date out of the whole thing, and it didn't lead to sex.

If such thing is suggested, from my experience, go down with it, so long as she comes to you, or at least somewhere near you. Never drive to pick someone up. She could be fcking around, her account could be fake, or she might not want to go down with it.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Very interesting, because I agree with you entirely. Girl can be blowing up your phone at 11pm one day and then won’t even bother with you the next. Typically whenever I encounter women like this, I don’t give them the time of day, and I always assume they just go down their list of loser dudes who are chomping at the bit to get in their pants and will do literally anything for them. I’m not about to get out of bed at 11pm on a Monday and pick you up just because you’re drunk and lonely.

Yeah man. Totally. It’s important to remember that attention is like crack for women. Most of the dudes chomping at the bit she’ll use for stuff; buying her stuff, keeping her company. Most of these guys do so for the small chance of f*cking her. Just totally pathetic

 

[Chi Town]

Yes I have had meetups for sex with girls I barely knew, went well each time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That’s how c ocky women are getting man. they’ve got so many options that they’re actually starting to get sloppy. I’ve gotten the “ come pick me up” crap from women I haven’t met before either. What’s truly f*cked up is that you can’t even put them in their place anymore. “No” to her come pick me up suggestion would, in theory, get her to realize she’s acting like a c*nt and needs to check herself but today’s woman will just write you off and go down her list of 20 other guys she’s either matched with on tinder or who are orbiting her in real life who are more than happy to ask how high when she says jump. It’s totally ridiculous.

What is your solution for babes like this? Be even worse?

 

[btownbuck2012]

What is your solution for babes like this? Be even worse?

Just to not catch feelings. Bang them and be prepared to walk away at the drop of a hat.

 

[Mazer]

I met a woman on Tinder and 30 minutes into our second date she demanded that she be taken back to my house so we can fawk. I was still in the early stages of the red pill but it was a real eye-opener. I could have probably banged her 5min into the first date but I thought that women wanted to go out and do things. Some women are sluts, they don’t want dinner or drinks, they just want to fawk. She did have HPV. I’m lucky I didn’t get it and surprised she didn’t have any other STDS

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Recently had a couple girls either (a) straight up tell me they want a hookup, or (b) passively suggest one (I.e. they give me their number and tell me to text them, I text them, and they go down the “wyd” route, or “I want to see you” or “come pick me up” even though we have never met in person).

My question is, would you ever just make an arrangement for sex only? For example, last week a girl almost just came to my house like it was nothing. Gave her my address, and she was like “ok I’ll leave soon”. My gut got the best of me, and I suggested a drink at a bar first.


Have you ever just invited a girl over directly or gone to her place, before ever even meeting them? Seems risky, for multiple reasons (safety, stds, etc).

Personally, I feel more comfortable meeting them in person somewhere like a bar or coffee shop, then I’d be more than down to have them at my place or myself to theirs. But curious what you guys think or have done if a girl just flat out wants a hookup, like, right now.

Thoughts?

Tinder is a good hookup app. Some are very direct. Other times, its implied and seeded in the interactions. She suggest a movie with her at her place. It's just a gradual process. Other times, its a hookup and it is hard done. I never fix what is broken. When its done, I am out.

 

[BJP1991]

I was still in the early stages of the red pill but it was a real eye-opener.

Chance you could elaborate more on this and what you’re referring to?

 

[bob2007]

I met a woman on Tinder and 30 minutes into our second date she demanded that she be taken back to my house so we can fawk. I was still in the early stages of the red pill but it was a real eye-opener. I could have probably banged her 5min into the first date but I thought that women wanted to go out and do things. Some women are sluts, they don’t want dinner or drinks, they just want to fawk. She did have HPV. I’m lucky I didn’t get it and surprised she didn’t have any other STDS

How did u know she had HPV?

 

[sangheilios]

WTF is wrong with these women where they'd be willing to go over to the place of some guy they has never even met in real life lol.

 

[btownbuck2012]

WTF is wrong with these women where they'd be willing to go over to the place of some guy they has never even met in real life lol.

Just totally and completely damaged. No respect for themselves at all so how can they respect the boundaries of others? They go after whatever will “Quench” their latest and most pressing emotions. Other than a terminal illness or being sent to war, lol, these women are the most potentially damaging thing a guy can involve himself with. I slipped up recently and caught some feelings for a trashy woman. It’s easy to do, but also easy to drop them when you get your head screwed back on straight, start thinking logically and remember what they are AND what motivates them - just a ruthless, narcissistic selfishness that can’t be reasoned with. Doesn’t matter if you’re a no name player or brad Pitt. It ain’t gonna work with these types.

If you’re able to, bang them AND do not catch feelings. The second you catch yourself developing “feelings” for her. Leave. They may even bring it up to you first. “What are we?” “Don’t you want more than sex?” Your answer should be something along the lines of “no. I like having sex with you and that’s it. I’m not looking for a relationship. If that’s not ok with you, then we should not see each other any more”.

^this is obviously easier said than done but it is essential protocol for dealing with trashy, hoe types or even seemingly normal women that your gut feeling won’t stop warning you about.

 

[sangheilios]

Just totally and completely damaged. No respect for themselves at all so how can they respect the boundaries of others? They go after whatever will “Quench” their latest and most pressing emotions. Other than a terminal illness or being sent to war, lol, these women are the most potentially damaging thing a guy can involve himself with. I slipped up recently and caught some feelings for a trashy woman. It’s easy to do, but also easy to drop them when you get your head screwed back on straight, start thinking logically and remember what they are AND what motivates them - just a ruthless, narcissistic selfishness that can’t be reasoned with. Doesn’t matter if you’re a no name player or brad Pitt. It ain’t gonna work with these types.

If you’re able to, bang them AND do not catch feelings. The second you catch yourself developing “feelings” for her. Leave. They may even bring it up to you first. “What are we?” “Don’t you want more than sex?” Your answer should be something along the lines of “no. I like having sex with you and that’s it. I’m not looking for a relationship. If that’s not ok with you, then we should not see each other any more”.

^this is obviously easier said than done but it is essential protocol for dealing with trashy, hoe types or even seemingly normal women that your gut feeling won’t stop warning you about.

Hell, I'm not even referring to that but just overall safety. Why would any sane adult go to someone's house who they have never met at all and put themselves in such a vulnerable position. Seriously, I thought that was common sense lol.

This type of behavior reminds me of a lot of the perverted gay men you hear about who meet up with guys on craigslist or hang out at rest stops or parks at night for random hookups. I always found that behavior both bizarre and frightening, but to see women doing something similar to this is even worse.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Hell, I'm not even referring to that but just overall safety. Why would any sane adult go to someone's house who they have never met at all and put themselves in such a vulnerable position. Seriously, I thought that was common sense lol.

Because they don’t care. Their self esteem is non existent. They subconsciously hate themselves. This “recklace” behavior is a manifestation of that.

Same reason these hoes liked to get choked during sex and are intrigued by rape fantasies.

 

[cathenira]

Yes, they are just seeking for sex ONLY - like no strings attached relationship. Do not think deeply, only care about the current situation.

 

[sosousage]

That’s how c ocky women are getting man. they’ve got so many options that they’re actually starting to get sloppy. I’ve gotten the “ come pick me up” crap from women I haven’t met before either. What’s truly f*cked up is that you can’t even put them in their place anymore. “No” to her come pick me up suggestion would, in theory, get her to realize she’s acting like a c*nt and needs to check herself but today’s woman will just write you off and go down her list of 20 other guys she’s either matched with on tinder or who are orbiting her in real life who are more than happy to ask how high when she says jump. It’s totally ridiculous.

Date 30year old women that dont use tinder. If u do gym and have good job its perfect

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

How did u know she had HPV?

Worts lol disgusting women are disgusting.