Tinder/Bumble Online Dating

tennisbuck12

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How long do you guys wait until ask these women out after intial contact? I've tried both ways right away (sometimes same night) and I've slow played it.
 

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When I was doing OLD, I generally asked for a meet up pretty fast, sometimes without even asking for the number. It helped weed out the chick's who were just looking for orbiters or an ego boost. I think the know within a few messages whether they are going to boink you or not.

Occasionally one would say "that's a little fast, I would like to get to know you better first" and I would say something like "can you really get to know someone online? I think we can learn more about each other in 30min over coffee than a thousand text messages".
 
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