Hi guys this is my first time posting here. The story I have here is simple and I know I have made a mistake but I know it can be fixed and that's why I need your help! I know she's a keeper unlike most girls I meet at clubs and I've been so busy with work... The point is I want her.
Met her Saturday night at a club, typical situation with my buddy and I hitting on two girls on the dance floor. We dance with these two but they don't act too slutty. We take them upstairs on the rooftop floor, talk more, they laugh, we offer them drinks (just once), they are kinda drunk but really not much.
The point is we end up spending the rest of the night with them. We go back down with them and dance more. The dance floor is crowded and I try to kiss mine but she doesn't want to. She doesn't act disgusted or anything, it's just a playful no but we keep dancing and she's in a good mood.
But they don't like the music and neither did we, so we go to a different club. I'm drunk by now, not acting harassing or annoyingly, and we are on our way out. She is having fun though. I buy her a rose as we walk to the other club. She likes it but I do it in a playful way, I'm acting fun and they are having fun.
End of the night: the second club closes very early, as soon as we go in. We walk them for a few blocks to get a cab. As we are walking the two couples are separated and I talk to mine about things in general, she laughs and has a good time or in other words there is a connection.
Right before we are about to get them a cab, my buddy starts making out with hers and they stay busy like that for a few minutes. I try to kiss mine too but again she says no, although she is acting playful and not like there is a problem or anything. I ask her for her number and she gives it to me.
Keep in mind mine lives in my city while her friend was visiting and is staying for a few days only. Anyways, although she didn't wanna kiss she definitely enjoyed me and had a good time. Before she and her friend get in the cab I ask her of she wants to go out again and she says yeah.
I text her on Monday because I don't wanna look too needy. I texted her at 3 pm: "hi xxxx how are you! It was nice meeting you the other night
hope you made it home safely! Myname"
So at 9 pm on the same day she answers with " hey xxxx just getting home from work dinner. Yess, mr cab driver got us home safely. Hope you had a good start to your week"
I wait 10 minutes and reply with " Mhmhmh not really lol I had a 4 hour conference call this morning which started at 7 am our time... I'm still barely recovering! And tomorrow I have another one... But I hope your dinner went well "
And she replies a minute later with "It did, thank you. Well you better get some rest..nite!"
And 20 minutes later I text her with "Haha ok, goodnight"
It is now Tuesday afternoon and yes my texting was horrible, boring, self centered, I know. It was just bad but I know I still have a chance because I know she had a feat time on Saturday night and my opinion is that she just doesn't wanna play easy to get especially because when I was drunk on Saturday night at some point I told her "I've done this a million times (referring to meeting girls at clubs) but I really like you" and I know it's bad to say that I think I made her wanna play hard to get
But like I said I think I still have a chance! How would you guys advice moving forward from here ? I'm thinking about calling her tomorrow night to say what's up
I would so appreciate the opinion of some of you if you can help me. I know this can be rescued and with all the time I travel for work I have few chances to go out like this and she was very pretty.
Just one more thing: both her and I are in our mid 20s I consider my self more than average looking and have a very good career she is very pretty and also same age
Thanks so much!
Met her Saturday night at a club, typical situation with my buddy and I hitting on two girls on the dance floor. We dance with these two but they don't act too slutty. We take them upstairs on the rooftop floor, talk more, they laugh, we offer them drinks (just once), they are kinda drunk but really not much.
The point is we end up spending the rest of the night with them. We go back down with them and dance more. The dance floor is crowded and I try to kiss mine but she doesn't want to. She doesn't act disgusted or anything, it's just a playful no but we keep dancing and she's in a good mood.
But they don't like the music and neither did we, so we go to a different club. I'm drunk by now, not acting harassing or annoyingly, and we are on our way out. She is having fun though. I buy her a rose as we walk to the other club. She likes it but I do it in a playful way, I'm acting fun and they are having fun.
End of the night: the second club closes very early, as soon as we go in. We walk them for a few blocks to get a cab. As we are walking the two couples are separated and I talk to mine about things in general, she laughs and has a good time or in other words there is a connection.
Right before we are about to get them a cab, my buddy starts making out with hers and they stay busy like that for a few minutes. I try to kiss mine too but again she says no, although she is acting playful and not like there is a problem or anything. I ask her for her number and she gives it to me.
Keep in mind mine lives in my city while her friend was visiting and is staying for a few days only. Anyways, although she didn't wanna kiss she definitely enjoyed me and had a good time. Before she and her friend get in the cab I ask her of she wants to go out again and she says yeah.
I text her on Monday because I don't wanna look too needy. I texted her at 3 pm: "hi xxxx how are you! It was nice meeting you the other night
hope you made it home safely! Myname"So at 9 pm on the same day she answers with " hey xxxx just getting home from work dinner. Yess, mr cab driver got us home safely. Hope you had a good start to your week"
I wait 10 minutes and reply with " Mhmhmh not really lol I had a 4 hour conference call this morning which started at 7 am our time... I'm still barely recovering! And tomorrow I have another one... But I hope your dinner went well
" And she replies a minute later with "It did, thank you. Well you better get some rest..nite!"
And 20 minutes later I text her with "Haha ok, goodnight"
It is now Tuesday afternoon and yes my texting was horrible, boring, self centered, I know. It was just bad but I know I still have a chance because I know she had a feat time on Saturday night and my opinion is that she just doesn't wanna play easy to get especially because when I was drunk on Saturday night at some point I told her "I've done this a million times (referring to meeting girls at clubs) but I really like you" and I know it's bad to say that I think I made her wanna play hard to get
But like I said I think I still have a chance! How would you guys advice moving forward from here ? I'm thinking about calling her tomorrow night to say what's up
I would so appreciate the opinion of some of you if you can help me. I know this can be rescued and with all the time I travel for work I have few chances to go out like this and she was very pretty.
Just one more thing: both her and I are in our mid 20s I consider my self more than average looking and have a very good career she is very pretty and also same age
Thanks so much!
