WHAT?Although she is not of royal blood, she stands to become the first English Queen with a university degree, so in one fundamental way, theirs is a union of equals.
"About 21% of American children will see at least two live-in partners of their mothers by the time they're 15," says Cherlin. "And an additional 8% will see three or more."
AH! Pretty sneaky sis.Could living together become respected and widespread enough that it challenged the favored-nation state of marriage? The American Law Institute has recommended extending some of the rights spouses have to cohabiting partners. But cohabitation has not yet proved to be a robust enough substitute for most Americans to believe they can build a family on it.
Since I've lived with my girlfriend for the past eight years, that would put me in a sticky situation. If this looms on the horizon, what shoud I do, kick her out?The American Law Institute has recommended extending some of the rights spouses have to cohabiting partners.
zekko said:Since I've lived with my girlfriend for the past eight years...
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Kailex said:Why is everyone so negative about this???
If anything... THANK YOU American Law Institute.
If this is what we need to keep people from living with their girlfriends (Sorry, Zeek :woo: )... then so be it.
Right now, no one should be breaking the Iron Rule of Tomassi.
If anything, if this were to pass, just do it for a certain age group (40 and under?). I know it's unrealistic, but some states already recognize cohabiting as "marriage" which is bull.
But maybe if this were official, it'd give men a lot MORE leeway to NOT move in with someone unless they were absolutely sure. If anything, it'd really up the incentive for me to STAY in my OWN apartment. Some people live together just to avoid the certificate, but who are we kidding... it's already a marriage in it's own, specially if you are 25 and living together.
Maybe my glass is half full because I see it as a good thing and it doesn't really affect me.
Once you "cohabitate", you are essentially married anyway.Warrior74 said:No you're right. But for the poor slobs out there who are, they are gonna get a rude awakening when she file$ for divorce because she now has certain "right$" from cohabitation. That's the road this is going down.
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Many states already do have a clause for that. Basically you have to present yourself as a couple and others have to assume, for all intents and purposes, you're a committed relationship similar to that to being married. So if you have a roommate then you're fine, but if you're in a romantic relationship and you live with the gf then you could in fact end up married even if you didn't want to be.squirrels said:Once you "cohabitate", you are essentially married anyway.
My question would be what happens with platonic opposite-gender roommates. Is it only if you sleep in the same bed? How would you prove that?
And if you're a guy with a guy roommate in a state that allows gay marriage??
There needs to be a legal definition of what constitutes a "cohabitating couple".
How the heck am I hurting you by living with my girlfriend?Kailex said:If this is what we need to keep people from living with their girlfriends (Sorry, Zeek )... then so be it.
I've discussed this issue with Rollo before, and he has admitted I am probably an exception to his rule. His rule is meant for young, naive, inexperienced fellows who fall under the charms of some young girl and get entangled into her life unknowingly, without getting out there and experiencing his options.Right now, no one should be breaking the Iron Rule of Tomassi.
NO!If anything, if this were to pass, just do it for a certain age group (40 and under?).
No only as a couple but as a married couple in my state. A friend of mine went through a divorce because he introduced her to everyone as his "wife". Me, I introduced my girl as my girlfriend. She had no legal grounds for anything. I think the long term goal is to grant those legal ground regardless of representation. If you play house, you have to give up half of it.Nutz said:Many states already do have a clause for that. Basically you have to present yourself as a couple and others have to assume, for all intents and purposes, you're a committed relationship similar to that to being married. So if you have a roommate then you're fine, but if you're in a romantic relationship and you live with the gf then you could in fact end up married even if you didn't want to be.
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This is exactly my plan.Franky Four Fingers said:There are cohabitation agreements and as far as I can tell do cover assets;
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cohabitation_agreement
If you are going to do one get a lawyers advice for your state. I wouldn't do one of those generic ones you can purchase off the internet.
I don't agree with this. My house, my accounts, everything is in my name. She has her own stuff. On Census papers I list her as "roommate". We have no common law marriage in my state. I firmly believe that if we split up tomorrow, she would have no claim on any of my assets. But I have no doubt that the lawyers and the government will continue their march to impinge upon our freedoms and control more and more of our lives.Rollo Tomassi said:If you live with a woman you may as well be married because upon doing so every liability and accountability of marriage is then in effect.
This just shows why pushing for these laws is a bad idea. Where do you draw the line?Squirrels said:My question would be what happens with platonic opposite-gender roommates. Is it only if you sleep in the same bed? How would you prove that?
And if you're a guy with a guy roommate in a state that allows gay marriage??
There needs to be a legal definition of what constitutes a "cohabitating couple".
Okay, Kailex, I hear what you're saying.Kailex said:It's not meant as a stab towards you, but a stab towards the younger people who don't have the sound judgment to wait.
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