Tiesto's Journal

[tiesto5]

Alright, well I 've been thinking about doing this for awhile now and decided to try it out and take some advice from the fellas on here.
So here is my situation right now: I am pretty comfortable around girls at school and outside of school. I just have a hard time breaking to the next level of hanging out to making out. I can get girls to go out just not finish the night off.
My other problem is approaching new girls, it takes me awhile to build up a good friendly or playful relationship and I don't really have the confidence to walk up to some random hot girl and talk to her.
Tomorrow though I'm going to try to talk to this hot senior. I'm a junior by the way.
So I'm going to try and keep up with this everyday or so and all advice, questions and harsh criticism is welcome
Thanks Tiesto

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Action comes before confidence.
The way I broke thru that plateu was telling the girl I was with "I really wanna kiss you right now". Anything will do if she likes you.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Yes! Another man starting a journey to greatness, looking forward to it man.
Feel the fear and do it anyway player!

 

[tiesto5]

Today school was hectic because of some testing thing going on. I didn't get to talk to that hot girl I mentioned before...didn't even see her today so I can't blame myself.
I've been texting this other girl and its gotten really awkward.
I feel like I friend-zoned her if that makes any sense. It seems that she wants to be more than just friends, but I really don't feel it. She is pretty hot so I would definitely hook up with her, but it seems impossible to do without becoming a couple.
Has anyone has any experience in this...would telling her straight up that I'm not really looking for a girlfriend, but more of a girl to mess around with?
Need some help

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Just go for it. You're not bf/gf before one of you ask the other. If it goes that far, just tell her you don't want a relationship. You can still date.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Yeah just tell her straight up that you just want a casual fling to mess around with, don't hide your desires, be honest about them.

 

[tiesto5]

Pussied out today with the hot senior today when I saw her...pretty pissed about it in retrospect. I'll go for it tomorrow hopefully.
I'll try to just straight up tell the girl, but I'll let her text me first hahaha

 

[tiesto5]

Anybody have any confidence boosters or some advice on an opener?
Hopefully by tonight talking to her this week would really boost my morale at this point.
I'll start with names right now.
So the girl who I friendzoned is HB7 Ash and the other girl who I want to approach is HB8 Ann.

More background is for a while this one girl HB6 Leasha was texting me all the time and it really gave me perspective. She seemed so desperate at this point. I was sort of a **** to her sometimes, but she still kept at it. Now though she moved on the one of my buddies and she seems way hotter now. So now I finally understand why being desperate is so unattractive.
I don't want to do that to my friend by talking to her again, but they are not official or anything.
Any opinions

 

[tiesto5]

Well today was a pretty good day. Still wimped out to talk to HB Ann although I hate saying it there's always tomorrow.
I'm in a mainly senior history class, but the girls in there lack looks. There are two though that are always talking to me and telling me how "adorable" I am and it gets to me for some reason. I don't know why girls only a year older call me that, but no other girls can. It seems like they try to belittle me a bit. They are both around HB5, but they both seem like a freak in bed, if you guys know those type of girls.
Anybody know how to deal with girls like this. Its hard to pull some of my go to stuff because I feel they have the upperhand because they are older and more experienced with sex and what not.
Any advice on what to do with any of my problems

 

[tiesto5]

Well the one girl in my history class who is a senior told me she wanted to hook up so this is a huge step for me. I just don't know how to go about it especially because we both want to keep it on the down low and I'm busy as hell right now. She also has another friend who I think might be into just hooking up with anyone. So I'm excited about that because she is hotter than the other girl.
They both lack a little in the face department, but they both have nice bodies and I have no reason to complain.
HB Ash has texted me a few times and told me she thought I was cute but I'm having trouble trying to play it out because she seems kind of prude.
Advice needed

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Just outright go for it, its not a big deal
Just do SOMETHING, it will usually give you good results.

 

[tiesto5]

Yeah I know man
I make it seem much harder than it is
I think once I can get past this, I'll suprise myself

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

one thing that has helped me a lot is to not think too much about doing something with a girl but just do it out of an impulse..

 

[EvilAgenda]

walk up to some random hot girl and talk to her

Drop the world hot, it really messes with your psyche. From now on, girls can only be either 'alright' or 'cute'.

 

[tiesto5]

Evil Agenda explain that theory

One of those girls who "belittles" me told me I was cute and that she was interested after we started talking it got heavy and I'm expecting something great to happen soon.
Wish me luck boys

 

[tiesto5]

Totally lost right now.
So the girl I mentioned before flat out said she wants to hook up with me. For some reason my game is totally thrown off now. I can barely talk to her for some reason.
Anyone else get this freeze up when they know they no longer have to try, but the girl still wants to talk?

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Just stop talking and start hooking up.

 

[tiesto5]

That's exactly what I did man, went straight for it.
She said she wants to talk more and get to know me.
I just can't talk to her for some reason. I'm just itching to hook up and I'm just left speechless

 

[Nino-Tk]

Be curious about her man, ask her questions, get to know her, the real her. Don't be too focused on just hooking up, you may miss something special.

 

[tiesto5]

Trying to juggle three girls is tough as hell.
One wants to just hook up
the other girl is on the edge of saying that
One i think wants a relationship.

Advice needed