Jon55 said:
It is a compliment. It's what you do with that compliment that's important. Do you just take it as a compliment and have your ego boosted, or do you actually continue to pursue her even though she's taken? I'm talking about the boys that actually go through with it. I say boys because real men/DJ wouldn't do that crap.
Hey Jon,
Im posting just to make sure, you didnt take my post as an attack at you. My reaction was more general response along with playing devils advocate. Much respect to you.
now to play devils advocate again.
Doesn't it make sense to show her that there are better men out there for her? Or possibly, if she is displaying interest in you and is wanting to spend time with you, would it wrong for you go ahead help her out?
The problem with answering a question such as this one is that we have to consider age, maturity, stage in life, etc. There are different circumstances. If you are in the college/ younger crowd i dont see a problem with it, now if it is someone who is older and is considering marriage but is still in the GF stage, well then the girl most likely wont be interested in you. If she is, i wouldnt do it.
Peace.