organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
THROUGH THE EYES OF A 'NATURAL'...
here are a few experiments i am gonna throw out there for the
few people who might 'get it'. The very few that can
'see' the suble cues and lil details that everyone else
misses completly.
the one' s that can feel and see through an entire
interaction and have a strong sense of it going on
but may have a hard time explaining it or finding people
who 'get it' also.
the guys who are communicating on totally different level
and have a hard time finding people to ask questions about
or finding anyone else who 'gets it'.
there are alot of people that just don't get it and i don't
blame them.not everyone does...
A LITTLE HISTORY
anyways,before i go on-
here is a little history on how i came about this
discovery about my little talent.
i was always an introverted child but i had a social
spark and almost shamless attitude about me,naturally
drawing others to me. unfortunantly i never really had
enough courage to interact confidently until i was about
14,and even then i was having troubles.
that led me to go inwards and become even more withdrawn
and isolated. i began slowly 'reading people' and seeing them
as who they are, not merely judging them on a superficial level
but really feeling who they are and listening to my gut instincts
about them.
being shy actually helpped my develop my other senses.
like intuition, and being able to read and see cues in
their body language and even as far as seeing the outcome
of situations before it happening, NO not ESP or anything,
but similar.call it a future vision of sorts.
i had early success with girls because i stumbled on how to
communicate on a different level-this was when i was
12.and it opened my eyes to seeing 'sexual communication'.
i had no books as a kid on this subject, i knew it existed
but i had no resources or ways to increase my knowledge on
the issue. So i had to just go out and do it through
experiance. i did this for about a total of 14 years-
not all the way mind you , but keeping concious awarness
of it going on.Not only until 5 years ago have i became serious
about this issue. During my early through late teen years,
i had met a ton of girls, made alot of inprovments in my
game and establisehed an almost unstoppable mindset-
in terms of confidence. But there was something more that
i wanted. i wanted to be able to let others in on it to.
My friends were also no doubt naturals and i also
learned alot from them in the process.
anyways, this led me to further my investigations and
conduct even more experiments in the field concerning
interactions with people. Concentrating mostly on
sexual communication. David D teaches something similar
but mine is on a totally different level and on a level that
i have never even read about, except for in older books,
but even they were kind of rudimentary in their
descriptions and discoveries, and some were just way out there!
in other words, i had to do a ton of my own research until
i stumbled upon David D's stuff, but even alot of his stuff
i had already previouslly researched.
RSD and DYD covers alot of the outer and inner games
and the process of attraction and maintaining it.
but what it dosen't teach is the actual attraction is
itself and how to instantaniouslly see cues and
subtlties that are seen but never talked about.
partly because they get dismissed without concrete
evidence of it's existance and too many variables
during the situations.
i have never read about anything that covers this area...
for me personally i have been able to develop a skill
that i can actually see out of the corner of my eye or take notice to;
*a girl checking me out then turning away quickly when caught
*a girl playing with her hair cuing me in her direction
*the way she sits in relation to me
*when we speak if she slowly blinks and looks up at me the way she is breathing
*the slow jesters the way she displays her neckline as she turns around
*flusing of the face and neckline when interacting with her
*the exposing of the wrists/forarms
* her reactions to prolonged eye contact
*the way they walk pass me and sway their hips as
they turn and they run their fingers through their hair
*the way they slowly blink as i am interacting with them
the little things that matter but are soo subtle that you might miss them. little cues being shuttled back and forth like a game of chess,waiting for the right move before contact.
ATTRACTION
the thing about attraction is that it's sub-concious and
communicated automaticlly.we have learned to manipulate it
but we have not been able to manipulate the emotions
behind the attractions. In other words , we can 'fake' rapport
& developing it through mirroring but not the creating the
geniune emotion itself in others,when we ourselves do
not have those feelings in the first place.
the game is played on a different level coming
from a stance of 'mutual attraction' and the vibe is there.
there is no need to concioiusly monitor everything
because the attractions bring about the appropriate
responses naturally.
i think alot of guys aren't cued into this type of vibing is
because they are looking at it from a viewpoint of focusing
too much on what to say -too much emphasis on the
verbal aspects of the interactions.
thats why a typical jock or stud has the uncanny ability to
spot the girl he wants and is put naturally into a state
of attracting her because he's already on that level-
he knows the little things to look for and the little things
that occur during that phase of attraction.
Usually most often then not he goes into a frame of
'mutual attraction'.
where both parties are in a state of mutual attraction.
you might say he has the looks and it dosen't matter what he
says. It dosen't matter because he's sending out all the
right signals because he's recieving the right signals
from her that it's cool for him to approach her.
sorry to break your guys hearts here but a girl will size
you up in a fraction of a second if you are someone she
will sleep with. Everything like the way you walk, your
posture and your 'neutral expression' are all cues that
will make or break you during a first impression.
Sure attraction is something you can build, thats already
been established...but what i am talking about is
the natural ability to cause attraction ,big difference.
and from the beggining the natural already knows what to do
in order to get the results he wants because he knows how
to instantly create an emotional connection with the girl
he is interested in.
the difference between the natural and the experianced pua is that he's going in cold turkey (PUA)with no attraction but he
causes it through routines,status building and social proof
or whatever he does to create the initial attraction.
it works, yes but on a different level.
where as the natural, with his abilities to 'see' the social
matrix of sexual communication..he actually has a different
way of sizing things up. he actually goes into the interaction
with attraction already in the process..
with the first moment of eye contact, he knows if it's a go or no.
eye contact, followed by subtle jesters -exposing the neckline,
clearing hair from face, the pulling back of the hair over her
shoulders or thumbing through it, but also things to watch out
for like a flash of a ring, quick twitches of the neck, uncomfortable
blinking,tenseness any sign of no recipricating of interests.
the little cues that you must see and catch on to if
you ever want to be able to see attraction taking place.
no it's not a must , but it's just s different point of view and
a different angle to approaching ,thats all.
alot of people might pass on this because it does take
patience and it does take effort, just as much effort as it
does approaching. But the payback is tremendous.
it builds an intution that almost guarentees success everytime.
you can practice aproaches and gaming sets, but it's much
much more time consuming to develop an intuition and
learning how to trust it.
you may say, big deal- i see those cues too, all the time.
well good for you sparky!But this is a way to fine tune it and
have it work systematiclly and to build up your intuition
accordingly surrounding it.
here are a few experiments i am gonna throw out there for the
few people who might 'get it'. The very few that can
'see' the suble cues and lil details that everyone else
misses completly.
the one' s that can feel and see through an entire
interaction and have a strong sense of it going on
but may have a hard time explaining it or finding people
who 'get it' also.
the guys who are communicating on totally different level
and have a hard time finding people to ask questions about
or finding anyone else who 'gets it'.
there are alot of people that just don't get it and i don't
blame them.not everyone does...
A LITTLE HISTORY
anyways,before i go on-
here is a little history on how i came about this
discovery about my little talent.
i was always an introverted child but i had a social
spark and almost shamless attitude about me,naturally
drawing others to me. unfortunantly i never really had
enough courage to interact confidently until i was about
14,and even then i was having troubles.
that led me to go inwards and become even more withdrawn
and isolated. i began slowly 'reading people' and seeing them
as who they are, not merely judging them on a superficial level
but really feeling who they are and listening to my gut instincts
about them.
being shy actually helpped my develop my other senses.
like intuition, and being able to read and see cues in
their body language and even as far as seeing the outcome
of situations before it happening, NO not ESP or anything,
but similar.call it a future vision of sorts.
i had early success with girls because i stumbled on how to
communicate on a different level-this was when i was
12.and it opened my eyes to seeing 'sexual communication'.
i had no books as a kid on this subject, i knew it existed
but i had no resources or ways to increase my knowledge on
the issue. So i had to just go out and do it through
experiance. i did this for about a total of 14 years-
not all the way mind you , but keeping concious awarness
of it going on.Not only until 5 years ago have i became serious
about this issue. During my early through late teen years,
i had met a ton of girls, made alot of inprovments in my
game and establisehed an almost unstoppable mindset-
in terms of confidence. But there was something more that
i wanted. i wanted to be able to let others in on it to.
My friends were also no doubt naturals and i also
learned alot from them in the process.
anyways, this led me to further my investigations and
conduct even more experiments in the field concerning
interactions with people. Concentrating mostly on
sexual communication. David D teaches something similar
but mine is on a totally different level and on a level that
i have never even read about, except for in older books,
but even they were kind of rudimentary in their
descriptions and discoveries, and some were just way out there!
in other words, i had to do a ton of my own research until
i stumbled upon David D's stuff, but even alot of his stuff
i had already previouslly researched.
RSD and DYD covers alot of the outer and inner games
and the process of attraction and maintaining it.
but what it dosen't teach is the actual attraction is
itself and how to instantaniouslly see cues and
subtlties that are seen but never talked about.
partly because they get dismissed without concrete
evidence of it's existance and too many variables
during the situations.
i have never read about anything that covers this area...
for me personally i have been able to develop a skill
that i can actually see out of the corner of my eye or take notice to;
*a girl checking me out then turning away quickly when caught
*a girl playing with her hair cuing me in her direction
*the way she sits in relation to me
*when we speak if she slowly blinks and looks up at me the way she is breathing
*the slow jesters the way she displays her neckline as she turns around
*flusing of the face and neckline when interacting with her
*the exposing of the wrists/forarms
* her reactions to prolonged eye contact
*the way they walk pass me and sway their hips as
they turn and they run their fingers through their hair
*the way they slowly blink as i am interacting with them
the little things that matter but are soo subtle that you might miss them. little cues being shuttled back and forth like a game of chess,waiting for the right move before contact.
ATTRACTION
the thing about attraction is that it's sub-concious and
communicated automaticlly.we have learned to manipulate it
but we have not been able to manipulate the emotions
behind the attractions. In other words , we can 'fake' rapport
& developing it through mirroring but not the creating the
geniune emotion itself in others,when we ourselves do
not have those feelings in the first place.
the game is played on a different level coming
from a stance of 'mutual attraction' and the vibe is there.
there is no need to concioiusly monitor everything
because the attractions bring about the appropriate
responses naturally.
i think alot of guys aren't cued into this type of vibing is
because they are looking at it from a viewpoint of focusing
too much on what to say -too much emphasis on the
verbal aspects of the interactions.
thats why a typical jock or stud has the uncanny ability to
spot the girl he wants and is put naturally into a state
of attracting her because he's already on that level-
he knows the little things to look for and the little things
that occur during that phase of attraction.
Usually most often then not he goes into a frame of
'mutual attraction'.
where both parties are in a state of mutual attraction.
you might say he has the looks and it dosen't matter what he
says. It dosen't matter because he's sending out all the
right signals because he's recieving the right signals
from her that it's cool for him to approach her.
sorry to break your guys hearts here but a girl will size
you up in a fraction of a second if you are someone she
will sleep with. Everything like the way you walk, your
posture and your 'neutral expression' are all cues that
will make or break you during a first impression.
Sure attraction is something you can build, thats already
been established...but what i am talking about is
the natural ability to cause attraction ,big difference.
and from the beggining the natural already knows what to do
in order to get the results he wants because he knows how
to instantly create an emotional connection with the girl
he is interested in.
the difference between the natural and the experianced pua is that he's going in cold turkey (PUA)with no attraction but he
causes it through routines,status building and social proof
or whatever he does to create the initial attraction.
it works, yes but on a different level.
where as the natural, with his abilities to 'see' the social
matrix of sexual communication..he actually has a different
way of sizing things up. he actually goes into the interaction
with attraction already in the process..
with the first moment of eye contact, he knows if it's a go or no.
eye contact, followed by subtle jesters -exposing the neckline,
clearing hair from face, the pulling back of the hair over her
shoulders or thumbing through it, but also things to watch out
for like a flash of a ring, quick twitches of the neck, uncomfortable
blinking,tenseness any sign of no recipricating of interests.
the little cues that you must see and catch on to if
you ever want to be able to see attraction taking place.
no it's not a must , but it's just s different point of view and
a different angle to approaching ,thats all.
alot of people might pass on this because it does take
patience and it does take effort, just as much effort as it
does approaching. But the payback is tremendous.
it builds an intution that almost guarentees success everytime.
you can practice aproaches and gaming sets, but it's much
much more time consuming to develop an intuition and
learning how to trust it.
you may say, big deal- i see those cues too, all the time.
well good for you sparky!But this is a way to fine tune it and
have it work systematiclly and to build up your intuition
accordingly surrounding it.
