- You can order one, but that is not as much fun as hunting one for.
- It also depends if that chick is attracting and if you are too... and I am serious... I have a friend who some of his ex were bi, and that was the girl that was doing the job, unfortunately maybe they were not enough attracting... chance are you get a fetish IRC channel, amateur site in your town (but on the internet bah...), else chance are you have a club where there is such people (it depends if you wanna share too.)
- The club IMHO can be a good occasion... I even used it somehow without any intention to get anything beside playing... you go on with your girls and some more people maybe... you try to have the much fun out of your time... you do some flirt (use your own technique) with some chick that is obviously sexually open-mind, then later you involve your chick, you get to danse with, then with some chance you get to both kiss her, and if your chick is not going nuts with the other girl (it cans happen no matter how open she claims to be), then you will have a huge step going on. You kiss her, she kiss her, you kiss your chick, there we go, after that I hope you will be able to play it right. But you have to be both minded to do it and enjoy your time, I dunno your chick, but you will need some help too from her of course. That does not mean that next time you go party with her that you will get your friggin 3some, but having fun and taking the right opportunity when it is to you, and you will have it.