Threesome With My Current Plate

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To cave under the pressure of what? A threesome? How is trying to find ways of making his wish come true a female thing or whatever you think is happening here?

Am I suggesting he bow at her feet, start buying her jewellery and fancy dinners, profess his love to her Disney style?

What am I saying that would be vastly different than what someone who doesn’t have a vagina would say?

I don't even think he read the post.
 

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Guys so currently one of my plates is showing interest in taking part in a threesome with me and another chick.. or maybe even a couple join us.

But at the same time, she is pushing for Girlfriend status.

I have written her off as relationship material, as the list of red flags is SKY HIGH.

01.Occasional Cocain Use (Socially)
02.Fuked me on the first date
03.She did some nude modelling in the past
04.She had a threesome in the past
05.Toxic ex relationship


So my question is this... Give her the illusion of a relationship?

Or tell her straight up, we are fuk buddies and nothing more than that..Ever!

I have attached one of her modelling pics, as you can see, nice figure on this chick.
LOL at least you recognize that she isn't relationship material. I don't think nude modelling itself is necessarily a bad thing in itself but I could see how such women would be highly promiscuous, maybe not have a certain set of personal/moral standards, etc.
 

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this boad has an ugly face don’t she bro
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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In my book none of the things OP mentioned would disqualify her for an LTR. If anything I’d feel pretty confident that she has a great sex drive, and I don’t see that as increasing the chance of being cheated on. I have sex with a lot of women and it doesn’t make me less loyal in a relationship, nor does it impact my feelings of intimacy.
 
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Let's test the men participating here; @Murkserious @mrgoodstuff @sangheilios @backseatjuan

In real life, not a week passes by that Spaz doesn't get that "I hate you" vibe either verbally or non verbally from women, why is that ?

@AJ84 and @sazc hush now.

@soulforge u r not required.

If there's any other men who wishes to participate, feel free to comment ur thoughts.
Do you own the site? Telling the OP he’s not required on a thread he himself started and trying to control who posts but tagging sazc and I so you know we get the notification.

Your ego, it’s blocking the sun.

But your wish to hush me up is granted because Raptors on in two minutes :).
 

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Do you own the site? Telling the OP he’s not required on a thread he himself started and trying to control who posts but tagging sazc and I so you know we get the notification.

Your ego, it’s blocking the sun.

But your wish to hush me up is granted because Raptors on in two minutes :).

My guess is Spaz doesn't get to see much action... Maybe me making a thread about having a threesome with a hotty, has filled him with anger and rage and bitterness.

You can tell when a person is living a bitter empty life, they will attack and try to belittle others for NO apparent reason.

Maybe if he came out of his basement once in a while, he wouldn't feel this angry with the world lol

When a guy needs to vent his anger at total strangers on a public forum for no reason, you know that dude has some SERIOUS internal issues.
 
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Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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In my book none of the things OP mentioned would disqualify her for an LTR. If anything I’d feel pretty confident that she has a great sex drive, and I don’t see that as increasing the chance of being cheated on. I have sex with a lot of women and it doesn’t make me less loyal in a relationship, nor does it impact my feelings of intimacy.

So the nude modelling wouldn't bother you? How about the occasional cocaine use?
 

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I hear what you say man... and I fully agree with you.

However, this is just a plate... I'm not expecting quality or good standards from her.. When it comes to a relationship, my expectations are way higher.

This one has already been ruled out for a ltr
 

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I hear what you say man... and I fully agree with you.

However, this is just a plate... I'm not expecting quality or good standards from her.. When it comes to a relationship, my expectations are way higher.

This one has already been ruled out for a ltr
Nothing wrong with just keeping her as a plate. I wouldnt lie to her but I also wouldn't tell her the whole no relationship thing in that way...you can kind of steer her in that direction without overtly saying anything and then if she presses the point you can just tell her the whole "I really like spending time with you and lets just see where it goes" thing...

If a woman really is into you she will bring this up multiple times before she ends up leaving and it will be over a period of several months or a year, she wont just bounce the first time she doesn't get what she wants.
 

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I met her on a night out in my city... we banged on the same night.
That looks and sounds about right lol, I'm not making fun of you but without even seeing her face she has that look to her.

I think you are already well aware enough to realize that a woman like her is not relationship material lol.
 

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That looks and sounds about right lol, I'm not making fun of you but without even seeing her face she has that look to her.

I think you are already well aware enough to realize that a woman like her is not relationship material lol.
Off course... she has done nude modelling.. bondage modelling.. occasionally uses cocaine...

Only someone suicidal would get into a relationship with her.
 

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Off course... she has done nude modelling.. bondage modelling.. occasionally uses cocaine...

Only someone suicidal would get into a relationship with her.
Well you mentioned the nude modelling and the cocaine use, but not the bondage modelling lol.

What type of nightlife venue did you meet her at? I'm not making fun of you but I find this interesting.
 

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Well you mentioned the nude modelling and the cocaine use, but not the bondage modelling lol.

What type of nightlife venue did you meet her at? I'm not making fun of you but I find this interesting.

Just a normal night out in a club in my city... she seemed like a sweet sexy girl...


However its amazing how much truth a woman will speak and reveal of herself when she is drunk.
 
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