Three Guys Get One Girl's Phone Number.

[cordoncordon]

That's the 1,234,577th time cordon has posted her picture on this forum..and that's just in sosuave and not counting other forums he probably posts at

While we might not always find great advice or showcases of masculinity on sosuave we can always count on finding on sosuave cordon posting his gf's picture or backbreaker braggin about his business.

And what's this? she's into american food? This is highly disappointing.

I wouldn't even consider an asian girl for a girlfriend if she didn't know how to make orange chicken or other great asian specialties. What good is an asian girlfriend that eats burgers and fries and won't make you some orange chicken?

I have an asian friend who's girlfriend makes him delicious asian food everyday. Yet here cordon is probably being fed junk food and being killed slowly in the process.

She can cook, and cook Asian food, but to be honest, I do more of the cooking. I really love to cook, very relaxing to me.

But yeah, she is definitely way more into an American type diet rather than an Asian one. In fact I had to get her hooked on sushi. She loves stuff like steaks, burgers, bacon, potatoes, sausage (including mine).

I invite all to post pics of their past or present gf's!

 

[Fuglydude]

Since you probably won't see here again, how about showing us one of the pics?

And just to get into the spirit of things and to also piss off some guys here who HATE when I post my gf's pic, here is a Christmas Festivus one!

http://img26.imageshack.us/img26/7470/rose3w.jpg

Dammit man, it totally pisses me off when you post pics of your gf with that much clothing on!

 

[cordoncordon]

Dammit man, it totally pisses me off when you post pics of your gf with that much clothing on!

I have others......oh do I have others.

 

[Bluntmaster]

Mine would be more into burgers and fries haha.

Who cares about your girl man seriously?

I have a hot latina girlfriend. What guy on here wouldn't kill for one of those?

They are the best.

 

[backbreaker]

Hey Cordon, get your girl in the kitchen to make me some fried rice and General tso's chicken.

I'll get my girl to cook some Burritos and Tacos and we'll have a party.

umm.. sounds good. any woman that could get down on some orange chicken (that's what we call it in the south) gets a bump up. i could eat that everyday
my 2 best friends growing up, we generally would not hit on the same women, mostwly because we had very different tastes. i was the only one that ever dated outside my race, so anything non black was mine lol. one of them, liked thick women, the ohter liked small skinny black women. so it made it pretty easy.

 

[cordoncordon]

Who cares about your girl man seriously?

I have a hot latina girlfriend. What guy on here wouldn't kill for one of those?

They are the best.

I've seen a pic of her, she ain't that hot bro. Around a 6. Though for you, and I have seen pics of and read about the past girls you have dated, she is a world class model...so congrats!

 

[synergy1]

umm.. sounds good. any woman that could get down on some orange chicken (that's what we call it in the south) gets a bump up. i could eat that everyday
my 2 best friends growing up, we generally would not hit on the same women, mostwly because we had very different tastes. i was the only one that ever dated outside my race, so anything non black was mine lol. one of them, liked thick women, the ohter liked small skinny black women. so it made it pretty easy.

most of my friends have different enough tastes to keep us all hitting on different chicks, although sometimes there is some overlap. The general rule is first in gets first choice and second in is wingman. You can always tell the bad friends as the ones who try and slob all over your target, but are few and far between. last weekend i was trying to wheel a fairly attractive blonde chick and my buddy told me he was pretty jealous. Its one of those situations where you hope you didn't steal the thunder or anything.

# closed but got blown off. boo

if someone started a gf / girls you have been with thread, who would post on it? I have plenty of pics but am still nervous about shedding light on my identity...women I know do NOT need to be knowing about these things...

 

[Kailex]

Who cares about your girl man seriously?

I have a hot latina girlfriend. What guy on here wouldn't kill for one of those?

They are the best.

Not me, that's normal for me.
I was actually going to try out something different, but they keep pulling me back in. It's like the latina mafia.

 

[squirrels]

Haters wanna hate, lovers wanna love.

 

[Bluntmaster]

I've seen a pic of her, she ain't that hot bro. Around a 6. Though for you, and I have seen pics of and read about the past girls you have dated, she is a world class model...so congrats!

You are so hung up on PICS. She a 10 bro. By the way, I make a million bucks selling stocks every year.

Now go get me an egg roll.

 

[5string]

I like hearing about backbreakers business, and seeing pics of CC's squeeze.

 

[cordoncordon]

You are so hung up on PICS. She a 10 bro. By the way, I make a million bucks selling stocks every year.

Now go get me an egg roll.

If she's a ten to you, that is all that matters.

 

[Jeffst1980]

back to the original topic..

I thought it was interesting that, despite the fact that Warrior74 built the most attraction, his friend wound up getting her first, simply because he was the most persistent.

This is where I find there to be a disconnect between a lot of the "community" theory and its real life application. The theory says we build attraction by displaying higher value and get them to chase US, making sure we always display slightly less interest in her. In practice, however, this builds ATTRACTION, yes...but won't seal the deal (Warrior- I know you were legitimately too busy to chase that chick, so don't feel like I'm picking on you, because I'm not!).

If you've ever gone out caveman style, you'll find you'll get some real counter intuitive results. Girls that may instinctively resist your advances suddenly become interested in you just because you had the sheer guts to make a move on her (of course, you need to still have good conversation skills, even if you're going caveman).

Also, just because a girl won't kiss you the first time you try does NOT mean she won't the NEXT time you try. If you confidently plow through rejection by staying calm and perhaps a bit playful, you will become more interesting to her--simply because most guys would give up, act needy, or sulk! If she hasn't blatantly told you to leave, the set is still on.

The game has changed thanks to technology, and the slow process of building attraction and comfort doesn't work as well as it used to--girls just have too many options to care about one guy they met at a party. You CAN'T expect high interest right off the bat, or for a girl to chase you, or for your aloofness to drive her wild. Nowadays, you need to escalate quicker, follow up sooner, and, above all, plow through rejection with a smile. In essence, you just have to act super alpha, rather than a Neil Strauss, indirect type.

Also, if you observe a lot of high status, alpha guys "in field," you'll find that many of them have virtually no "game" in the conventional sense--they escalate too fast and act downright pushy--yet, they somehow manage to plow through rejection. It sounds anti-challenge, but that's because the "challenge" part is implicit; girls know that these guys are obviously doing this to other girls they meet, as well.

 

[Warrior74]

back to the original topic..

I thought it was interesting that, despite the fact that Warrior74 built the most attraction, his friend wound up getting her first, simply because he was the most persistent.

This is where I find there to be a disconnect between a lot of the "community" theory and its real life application. The theory says we build attraction by displaying higher value and get them to chase US, making sure we always display slightly less interest in her. In practice, however, this builds ATTRACTION, yes...but won't seal the deal (Warrior- I know you were legitimately too busy to chase that chick, so don't feel like I'm picking on you, because I'm not!).

If you've ever gone out caveman style, you'll find you'll get some real counter intuitive results. Girls that may instinctively resist your advances suddenly become interested in you just because you had the sheer guts to make a move on her (of course, you need to still have good conversation skills, even if you're going caveman).

Also, just because a girl won't kiss you the first time you try does NOT mean she won't the NEXT time you try. If you confidently plow through rejection by staying calm and perhaps a bit playful, you will become more interesting to her--simply because most guys would give up, act needy, or sulk! If she hasn't blatantly told you to leave, the set is still on.

The game has changed thanks to technology, and the slow process of building attraction and comfort doesn't work as well as it used to--girls just have too many options to care about one guy they met at a party. You CAN'T expect high interest right off the bat, or for a girl to chase you, or for your aloofness to drive her wild. Nowadays, you need to escalate quicker, follow up sooner, and, above all, plow through rejection with a smile. In essence, you just have to act super alpha, rather than a Neil Strauss, indirect type.

Also, if you observe a lot of high status, alpha guys "in field," you'll find that many of them have virtually no "game" in the conventional sense--they escalate too fast and act downright pushy--yet, they somehow manage to plow through rejection. It sounds anti-challenge, but that's because the "challenge" part is implicit; girls know that these guys are obviously doing this to other girls they meet, as well.

Excellent analysis. And no worries. I'm not put out about losing out on this one, I just put in a bid like it was ebay, if I win, great, if not, look for another sale.

To cordoncordon...sorry I don't post pics, but that's a nice looking one you got there. She wasn't on you're girl's level. Props player.

 

[teacha]

back to the original topic..

I thought it was interesting that, despite the fact that Warrior74 built the most attraction, his friend wound up getting her first, simply because he was the most persistent.

....uhmm,how do you know this?

 

[Bluntmaster]

If she's a ten to you, that is all that matters.

Would your girl stay with you if you went broke and homeless?

That's all that matters.

 

[Jeffst1980]

....uhmm,how do you know this?

teacha- obviously, I haven't called her to verify, so I don't know.

But, Warrior74's approach is a textbook example of solid game--he approached confidently, didn't fight for her attention, and demonstrated that he didn't need her validation. This is all behavior consistent with that of a high value male, and she was clearly interested if she was sending texts and pics to him during a party.

My point is that, although every girl WANTS a high value male, most will settle for one of lesser value, provided they are persistent enough. Girls settle ALL THE TIME. Of course, they will always feel more attraction for the higher value male.

 

[MatureDJ]

).....the fact that she has no car? Total deal breaker for me. Whenever I hear a girl with no car, I eject. Once you are out of school or over 21, if you don't have a car, that spells trouble to me.

Hmm, none of the women I date in Ukraine have a car. It doesn't bother me. I sort of like the idea of women not driving much.

 

[cordoncordon]

Hmm, none of the women I date in Ukraine have a car. It doesn't bother me. I sort of like the idea of women not driving much.

True, in the old Eastern bloc, a woman not having a car is not so uncommon.

Here in the West, its a big red flag.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

My point is that, although every girl WANTS a high value male, most will settle for one of lesser value, provided they are persistent enough. Girls settle ALL THE TIME. Of course, they will always feel more attraction for the higher value male.

"High value","attraction", etc. Nothing but mind stuff. The girl is banging who she's banging.