Thoughts from one of America’s top divorce lawyer

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James Sexton shares his thoughts on…

00:00 Intro
02:02 I Am A Divorce Lawyer
02:37 How Many People Divorce
08:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires
12:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage!
17:14 The Perfect Prenup
18:56 Disagreements Over Prenups
26:48 Are Prenups Legal?
28:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat)
29:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship
32:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses
37:30 Are Prenups On The Rise?
39:39 Are People Fake Happy?
44:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others
50:44 How To Prevent Divorce
55:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life"
01:02:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:07:53 Fixing The Marriage
01:09:36 Who Cheats More?
01:10:02 Who Wants More Sex?
01:13:05 Most Shocking Deceit
01:14:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies
01:16:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship
01:22:17 Have You Ever Cried?
01:24:29 Love And Loss
01:37:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters
01:40:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie?
01:44:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:48:59 Can You Hide Money?
01:50:16 You Are Liable For Debts
01:51:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet
01:53:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces
01:59:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer?
02:02:00 Is Cheating Okay?
02:05:44 Should We Get Married?
02:13:14 Last Guest Question”

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

The anomaly is that we even have to talk about such things as if they werent the base of the law and social dynamics for decades.

Me personally, I could list 100 reasons not to commit even before talking about the final one called marriage.

 

[SW15]

I like James Sexton. I seem to remember that he mentioned in another video that he read "The Rational Male" at one time.

 

[Divorced w 3]

He’s brilliant

 

[Divorced w 3]

You keep waiting for him to talk you out of love and commitment and he ends up selling you on it. Thanks for this

 

[Ricky]

I feel like i could listen to Chris Williamson and Diary of a CEO podcasts all day. They get all the great guests, kind of like Tim Ferris and Jocko and Peter Attia. Lots of overlap

 

[BaronOfHair]

52:22 (Which I personally agree with)is going to get Sexton labelled a "simp" by large sections of The Manosphere

 

[BaronOfHair]

The anomaly is that we even have to talk about such things as if they werent the base of the law and social dynamics for decades.

And these discussions are hardly new either

Book review: The Divorce Lawyers' Guide

Author and former practicing attorney Wendy Jaffe has written an interesting and illuminating work called, "The Divorce Lawyers' Guide to Staying Married."

jewishjournal.com

Note the date Jaffe's book and article were written

 

[jhonny9546]

very informative, thx for sharing

 

[SW15]

This was a good post. I am going to re-watch parts of this video. It's a difficult video to watch in one sitting. I saw parts of it in the past.

I liked his response to the "Should We Get Married?" question near the end.

The blue pill ideology makes everyone chase marriage, despite the fact that it isn't a good fit for a lot of people.

 

[jhonny9546]

This man just told the truth: It's natural to see life as 'chapters.' There's falling in love, making plans, moving in, having a child, wanting to start a family, and then realizing that living together isn't working, which can lead to separation, etc.

It's all a natural process. You have to respect it if things aren't working out.
Lucky are those who find a person who stays by their side for life and is content with them.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Lucky are those who find a person who stays by their side for life and is content with them.

Lucky or complacent, take your pick

 

[zekko]

You keep waiting for him to talk you out of love and commitment and he ends up selling you on it. Thanks for this

Well, he has to stay in business, after all.