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[FlowStill]

So, I've known this girl since middle school, her name's Pyper, shes pretty cute maybe an 8. I'm good friends with her older brother etc.. Anyways, I initially sent her a message wondering what's been up etc. Nothing special. She ends up not responding so I think to myself, "WTF" and all and decided to call her on it. This is the messages we wrote back and forth.

I'm wondering what you all think and would love some feedback.

Title of message: Irrespondable

ME: Someone deserves a spanking. You got a man?
I'm just kidding *Pyper you know we're just friends. Though, that doesn't mean I wouldn't spank you if you're being so damned irrespondable all the time. ;P Nice.

HER: haha. you crazy...damn, how do you know i would even let you spank me...?

ME: The way you wiggle your hips when you walk by me. I see you baby, it's obvious. But I keep my cool. Anyways... there's not much choice when you're being bad.

HER: youz ridiculous, kiddo. ridiculous. that's all i gots to say about that.

ME: Serious. You kinda remind me of a little sister, so now I feel not only ridiculous, but dirty as well. But than again, since I don't actually have a real sister, it all kinda falls into the realm of fantasy anway.... haha don't get the wrong idea here...let's stick to higher moral ground. You know? a paddle and a confession for your sins will work just fine.

This is where it ends. She read it, just no response. I'm wondering if I went to far. I thought it was pretty funny myself, but perhaps a little to aggressive (or kinky? )

 

[ryannath]

Your last message was just weird and sucked to be honest. Obviously she thinks you are a clown for that last message and she is not interested and didn't respond. No big deal. More fish in the sea. Move on from her I would say.

 

[Incog]

You should not have responded to her last message.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

[Freud]
Upon anaylziz of ze transcriptz. It vould appear zat, ze subjekt has lost attraction towardz you. However, ze subject also seems to be partially distressed. Perhaps ze problems with ve childhood? Tell me who is ze Fazer? And vat does he do?
[/Freud]

 

[FlowStill]

Right. Definitely need to work on knowing when to end. I actually thought about ending it there but I guess I was a bit too brash.

The whole little sister thing, since she has an older brother was probably not a good idea. I just remember reading somewhere that saying that will make a girl wonder whether or not you are really into her or not, but than again, calling it a fantasy kind of kills that tactic anyways.

 

[mrRuckus]

What does irrespondable mean?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

So, I've known this girl since middle school, her name's Pyper, shes pretty cute maybe an 8. I'm good friends with her older brother etc.. Anyways, I initially sent her a message wondering what's been up etc. Nothing special. She ends up not responding so I think to myself, "WTF" and all and decided to call her on it. This is the messages we wrote back and forth.

I'm wondering what you all think and would love some feedback.

Title of message: Irrespondable

ME: Someone deserves a spanking. You got a man?
I'm just kidding *Pyper you know we're just friends. Though, that doesn't mean I wouldn't spank you if you're being so damned irrespondable all the time. ;P Nice.

HER: haha. you crazy...damn, how do you know i would even let you spank me...?

ME: The way you wiggle your hips when you walk by me. I see you baby, it's obvious. But I keep my cool. Anyways... there's not much choice when you're being bad.

HER: youz ridiculous, kiddo. ridiculous. that's all i gots to say about that.

ME: Serious. You kinda remind me of a little sister, so now I feel not only ridiculous, but dirty as well. But than again, since I don't actually have a real sister, it all kinda falls into the realm of fantasy anway.... haha don't get the wrong idea here...let's stick to higher moral ground. You know? a paddle and a confession for your sins will work just fine.

This is where it ends. She read it, just no response. I'm wondering if I went to far. I thought it was pretty funny myself, but perhaps a little to aggressive (or kinky? )

Fantasizing about a sister eh? Real smooth.
Don't hold your breath for that response.

 

[wayword]

ME: Serious. You kinda remind me of a little sister, so now I feel not only ridiculous, but dirty as well.

So, you just DLV'd yourself as ridiculous, incestuous & dirty. Smooth... :crackup:

Look, here's the problem - you're typing in novels and she's typing in 1 sentence "uh huh" replies. Can you see who has the power here?

I can.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

So, you just DLV'd yourself as ridiculous, incestuous & dirty. Smooth... :crackup:

Look, here's the problem - you're typing in novels and she's typing in 1 sentence "uh huh" replies. Can you see who has the power here?

I can.

:crackup: :crackup:

It wasn't that bad until the last sentence... he killed himself.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Trying too hard makes you look stupid in the end. End of discussion.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Trying too hard makes you look stupid in the end. End of discussion.

Well, I guess his only option now is to find out where she lives, and stalk her.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Did she reply yet FlowStill?

 

[FlowStill]

Did she reply yet FlowStill?

No not yet... I'm thinking she won't. Anyways, at this point all I hope is she isn't taking me too seriously. I sure wasn't taking it seriously when I said it. I now can see how it could be taken the wrong way though. Anyways, whatev. irrespondable isn't a word btw. It's meant to mean what you think it does.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

No not yet... I'm thinking she won't. Anyways, at this point all I hope is she isn't taking me too seriously. I sure wasn't taking it seriously when I said it. I now can see how it could be taken the wrong way though. Anyways, whatev. irrespondable isn't a word btw. It's meant to mean what you think it does.

Yeah.. it was pretty funny. I liked everything you said until that last line. Anyway just remember most chics online deal with ALOT of obsessive psychos that wont leave them alone. So even a SMALL amount of weirdness will turn them away.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

What does it mean when a chic you are gaming calls you "kid" or "kiddo".. a definite sign of no interest?

 

[The_Unit]

@OP

something I am working on right now, is when and how to steer a potentially "dangerous" conversation in another direction. whether it be msn, phone, or in person.

It pays to have good intuition. Sense when a convo that is a ticking time bomb.
For example, I only glanced over ur convo and I didnt like it. The following crossed my mind : desparate, pervert, sick. the word spank. ewww.


Girls can sometimes start "flammable" convos. My gf started one this past weekend in fact. What did I do? I grabbed that little bunny by its ears and steered it into a cheerful talk about my high school times. ah good times
not only did I dodge a bullet myself, I set a good mood for her too.

I may not have control of what comes out of her mouth, but I do have control of what comes out of mine.


the thing is you want to project you're positive and fun-loving. ALWAYS. Not only do women love it, but it'll help ur own self-esteem too.

 

[ThunderMaverick]

ME: Serious. You kinda remind me of a little sister, so now I feel not only ridiculous, but dirty as well. But than again, since I don't actually have a real sister, it all kinda falls into the realm of fantasy anway.... haha don't get the wrong idea here...let's stick to higher moral ground. You know? a paddle and a confession for your sins will work just fine.


Hahaha! Ewww creepy.

My advice is, is that she doesn't ask any questions or flirt back, you should really back off. =P

 

[My Name is Nobody]

She didn't reply obviously. Flowstill dont worry about it.. it really wasn't that bad... but...it's still better than stalking.

 

[Lust]

So, I've known this girl since middle school, her name's Pyper, shes pretty cute maybe an 8. I'm good friends with her older brother etc.. Anyways, I initially sent her a message wondering what's been up etc. Nothing special. She ends up not responding so I think to myself, "WTF" and all and decided to call her on it. This is the messages we wrote back and forth.

I'm wondering what you all think and would love some feedback.

Title of message: Irrespondable

ME: Someone deserves a spanking. You got a man?
I'm just kidding *Pyper you know we're just friends. Though, that doesn't mean I wouldn't spank you if you're being so damned irrespondable all the time. ;P Nice.

HER: haha. you crazy...damn, how do you know i would even let you spank me...?

ME: The way you wiggle your hips when you walk by me. I see you baby, it's obvious. But I keep my cool. Anyways... there's not much choice when you're being bad.

HER: youz ridiculous, kiddo. ridiculous. that's all i gots to say about that.

ME: Serious. You kinda remind me of a little sister, so now I feel not only ridiculous, but dirty as well. But than again, since I don't actually have a real sister, it all kinda falls into the realm of fantasy anway.... haha don't get the wrong idea here...let's stick to higher moral ground. You know? a paddle and a confession for your sins will work just fine.

This is where it ends. She read it, just no response. I'm wondering if I went to far. I thought it was pretty funny myself, but perhaps a little to aggressive (or kinky? )

You nut.

You haven't got the game internalized into your head properly. Don't go with Mystery's sister neg routine, you haven't ran half the game you are supposed to. I am guessing that you think they are a bunch of magic lines that will just work.

Quit wasting time and actually get down to some basics first, before you start using negs and ****y funny. Because you are just rushing into it. To her, you are now a creep.