YO NEWBIE......U didnt do your homework. The problem with Net dating is that for a great many they just think it's just so easy. Yes the net dating sites make it appear all too easy, but in reality there is a science to dating online.
One of the biggest pit-falls is that potential members fall for "DATE-BAIT", do some research and you will be able to spot players, fake, phonies, just from keywords in their profiles. Now I could just list the top 20 key words that should trigger your red flag warning sensor but thats just one of many things you will encounter with Net Dating.
Baby steps my friend, U can go online, post a picture, and maybe even email a few women and cross your fingers hopefully get a response OR........U can design a killer profile, send out enticing emails that reap success and PICK AND CHOOSE WHICH ONES YOU WILL SLEEP WITH!!!!!
or continue on your own and U may end up with one of those BBW types, or even a pre-op, post-op, STD, etc.
THE MORE YOU KNOW THE MORE YOU GROW.........my advice get the INSIDERS INTEL on net dating. I know a lot of contraversy has been stirred over net dating on how it should only be used as a last resort and is the lowest form of a pickup artist tactics......and for the mostpart I tend to agree with that consensus.
Again I could go on about specifics but theres way too much info on net dating that should be inplace PRIOR TO joining and way prior to contacting anyone online.
Good luck.......without the Intel you will need it!!!