This stuff really works. Play the game and you WILL win.

[almost perfect]

Originally posted by AMF
UPDATE - 8 months on.

Thanks to SoSuave, I killed my relationship.

pending details, it seems that once you have your own
"game" in check, most of what is read on this site should be taken with a grain of salt.

 

[ScrewIt]

i think a lot of guys here underestimate the power of kino. It's a very powerful arsenal. If you can talk confidently with the right attitude and body language and !kino!, and play it right, it can make the girl melt.

All about showing confidence in an unneedy way.

Funny this post came up about showing interest. Honestly i think what happens is often the guy and girl will play push and pull. if the guy pulls back, she'll push and show interest. But i think the key is the girl does her part (show signs), and leaves enough ground for you to start pursuing her (all girls want to be pursued). If the guy pulls back, she'll start pushing. Often that's how it goes. It's tough to maintain a balance, but it must be maintained.

 

[escobar04]

Originally posted by almost perfect
pending details, it seems that once you have your own
"game" in check, most of what is read on this site should be taken with a grain of salt.

word! theres only so much one can learn at a certain time

I'm 18 and I know that my game is much more superior than it was half a year ago, I got what I needed but I still visit everyday just for fun

I know I'll prolly meed some more stuff later on in life but right now I'm just reading stuff for the heck of it

Thnaks SoSuave

 

[Dr Box]

Originally posted by AverageFC
This is the female mindset that confuses me the most. Someone expresses interest in you, and you think they have a problem. wtf. If some hot chick told me she had an interest in me, I'd tihnk she had good taste.

Yeah, but if she came on real strong the first time you met her you would take a step back because she is to easy, so you would think their is something wrong with her, I have actually turned down a casual sex partner because she phoned me up after the first time we got together and said "hi.....uh do you want to just be f#$% buddies" (a longer convo then that but you get the idea). The reason I turned her down was because she instigated it and I thought to myself well I already have this one she is hooked.....next. I hope that makes sense.

 

[xblitz44x]

Originally posted by AMF
Trust me.

Ive incorporated everything ive read here into my game.


I have not had to set up a single date. Ive been more or less desireless, and it has drove her crazy.



Heres the best bit. She actually told me:

"If you had just come and made your move straight away [i.e., no game, guys] I would have been scared off, even though I like you. Doesnt matter whether us girls fancy you or not... if you "come running" or charge in [i.e., no game, guys] we will always lose interest because we wonder whats wrong with you. Youre so different to other guys."

Congrats on your catch. However, don't forget that she speaks for ONE WOMAN. I've dated a few girls back in my sosuave days who I got NOWHERE with because they needed that aggressive/dominant balance. They were passive so they needed me to make the moves, set the plans, take initiative.

Second, I think there is something else beyond the surface here. She said she would have bolted if you "made your move straight away", but the fact that you didn't isn't what 'got her'. If 10 guys just decided to NOT make a move, she's not going to sudden swoon for all 10. She apparently was into you, and the fact that you didn't threaten her with overbearing moves just kept you in the game.

Good work.

 

[xblitz44x]

Originally posted by Dr Box
The reason I turned her down was because she instigated it and I thought to myself well I already have this one she is hooked.....next. I hope that makes sense.

By the way, if you are turning down girls BECAUSE they like you and decided to be real and not play games with you, there may be something screwed up in your self-esteem department.

Funny how we bytch about women who give us the run around and play games, yet when they are real and come clean, we decide to move on.

 

[fender85]

Originally posted by AMF

Im posting this because theres been some anti-DJ skepticism cropping up from time to time.

Oh, how right you were. Check out this guy's response . . .

Originally posted by AMF
UPDATE - 8 months on.

Thanks to SoSuave, I killed my relationship.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by fender85
Oh, how right you were. Check out this guy's response . . .

:crackup: Owned himself.

 

[hydrocodone]

ive been desireless to a few hb's because they didnt mentally stimulate me(i know, lame)but it really did drive them nuts! this one hot chick that tons of guys wanted just didnt do it for me personality-wise and she couldnt believe i wasnt interested that she turned obessive over me. this "desirelessness" can come out naturally sometimes and its a little harder when you fake it. but it freaken works wonders on hb's

 

[xblitz44x]

Originally posted by fender85
Oh, how right you were. Check out this guy's response . . .

Whoops..I didn't even notice this. Another guy that learned the hard way.

 

[nighter]

Originally posted by hydrocodone
ive been desireless to a few hb's because they didnt mentally stimulate me(i know, lame)but it really did drive them nuts! this one hot chick that tons of guys wanted just didnt do it for me personality-wise and she couldnt believe i wasnt interested that she turned obessive over me. this "desirelessness" can come out naturally sometimes and its a little harder when you fake it. but it freaken works wonders on hb's

I got that problem. But its me that gets obessive. Can't belive she are not intressted when got alot more hotter girls then her. For my ego i had her hooked before but i blown it, she offered ***** but i did'nt take it, (long story).
Is like i can't belive it when she ljbf me. Is like hey how could you ljbf me my ego says iam better then all dudes you will ever meet.
You should be happy i show you attention. Then i can't let her go because it feels like i have to prove something for myself that she does whant me, and if she does i know i dont whant her, so thats really mess with my mind. I almost developed oneits for this girl. Think of her alot because of that. But truefully i dont like her personality or her look, of course i could bang her else i don't thik i had worked in my mind. But this girls i maybe a hb5 so my friends think iam nuts when i think about her. When i have a girl that works as a modell and are damn hot.

 

[skeeloo]

Originally posted by AMF
UPDATE - 8 months on.

Thanks to SoSuave, I killed my relationship.

not thanks to sosuave its you.
besides nothings alway percfect and u dealt with it.

ermm just a lil rant
sosuave dosnt rule your life.
i take responsility for my actions if i did good it came from within..some guys can read posts forever and not gain nothing infact the minimum for a poster here should be 5 years tops after that if you are still here something lacking.

 

[razors_edge]

Originally posted by Dr Box
The reason I turned her down was because she instigated it and I thought to myself well I already have this one she is hooked.....next. I hope that makes sense.

it's because of guys like you who f*ck girls up in the head and make them play stupid games with the other guys.