Originally posted by Distant Light
Well I don't know personally how accurate that is as I've only dated one asian girl in my life so far (Asian/Puertorican to be exact) but most the guys in this community that have gamed Asian girls they do the exact same thing with maybe alittle calibration.
The formula is very simple my friend. The more Americanized the girl is, the more defenses you will have to plow through with C&F, non-chalance and qualifying. Think about it, NYC and LA are probably the b!tch-shield capitals of the world, respectively. Cute girls get hit on shamelessly left and right with compliments and offers for dates. You have to be more creative then the typical loser who thinks that telling a girl she has nice eyes will get him some poon. This is why when I catch the yellow fever for a random HB, I will approach with a harmless and friendly opener, guage how assimilated they are in American culture, and take it from there.
With foreign girls, I find it's best to be polite yet persistant. They really respect that because you are being a gentleman yet somewhat of a brute at the same time. This means still talking to them after they blow you off and being totally unaffected by their defensive nature. You are just a guy out to have a great time and connect with open-minded people like yourself. Personally I prefer these types of girls because they are very feminine and it is easier for me to take the role as leader. Americanized girls are another story entirely.
When dealing with Ms. FungWah USA, I find its fun to disqualify their whole culture. I love to tell them I dont date asian chicks, how they dont turn me on at all. One of my favorite lines is to say that I hear asian girls have no soul and are terrible in bed. I always get the playful hit on the shoulder (except from that one girl who had just arrived from Korea...she cried)
My point is that you gotta know who you are dealing with. Is she a stranger in a new land, filled with apprehension and wonder? Or is she one of the locals now, as stubborn and bullheaded as any American girl? In the end you are right. This game is about calibration. A good hunter knows his prey well and acts accordingly.
Like anything in life, your mastery of this skill is directly proportional to how much practice hours you put in. Every interaction is an experiment and adds depth to your game. Remember, the only reason people like TD, Mystery etc got so good is because they have been out there consistently trying out new sh!t. Imagine if you have been approaching women at every available opportunity for years. How do these people act? What makes them different?
Will power. Plain and simple. Few have the instinct and raw drive to play the game...most are comfortable observing from the sidelines. In this game you are either a player or a spectator, so be careful with how many FRs you read and how much game you try to dissect in your mind.
This is a CONTACT SPORT and trying to wrap your head around it is about as useful as writing mathematical equations on Michael Jordan's hook shot.
Just keep immersing yourself in these experiences...step out of that comfort zone at EVERY opportunity and some day you just may be showing TD and all the rest a thing or two.
