This sh**'s getting old (pun intended)

[BPH]

I'm gonna preface this by saying that I'm quite drunk.

Now that that's out of the way, I just got back from a night out and I'm absolutely losing my mind about the ridiculousness of these women...

I am 6ft tall, 220 lbs, and I'm ripped to shreds. I have all my hair, I have all my teeth - I even had a girl ask me tonight if my teeth were real or if they were veneers. I'm good friends with the bartenders and staff, and have social proof; I skipped the line, and my drinks were free.

Yet still, I'm running into the same problem:

"Do you go here?"
"Where do you go?"
"Oh, you're graduated?"
"Why are you here?"

It's all that f***ing matters.

I went up to a couple of girls tonight...

The first of which seemed interested, but left early with her friend. She was asking why I was there and didn't believe I was as old as I was. Needless to say, nothing happened there. She left a full hour before closing. I'm doubtful anything will become of that.

The second girl was eyeing ME up, so she waved me over and I went and talked to her for a bit. Same story; she found out I was older and thought I was cute, but wasn't interested.

So I went and talked to another girl. Turns out she's friends with girl number 2, and saw us talking, and decided she wasn't interested because I was hitting on her friend. She didn't mind that I was older, but didn't like being second fiddle to her friend, who, by the way, I told her was hitting on ME.

That brings us to girl number 3 - a gorgeous girl hanging out with her friends by the bar. Didn't mind the age, and I think we hit it off, but she wasn't prepared to leave with me that night. Rather, she wanted me to take her out tomorrow night. I suggested drinks at this nearby spot at around 10. She asked if we could go at 6, and then 8. I told her I wanted to be how she ended the night, not a pregame to how she started it. She asked whether that was her decision, to which I responded, "Yeah, and it's my decision whether to take you". She thinks 10 is late, so we'll see if that becomes a thing or not.

The most likely scenario is I'll end up going out there with no girl tomorrow night, which is fine. But man, this is starting to piss me off - I'm doing better than my competition in every way except for the number on my DOB in my driver's license. I don't understand why this is such a massive roadblock.

It's my birthday on Sunday, I'll be going out in Philly Saturday night with some friends, and most likely going back out here again on Friday night. I'd like to get laid, ideally with someone new, but I did not anticipate my age being such an issue.

I don't really know what type of solutions I'd expect to read, this is more of a rant on the ridiculousness of a number on my driver's license being what's getting in the way of me and these women - and it's starting to really piss me off. In a month, most of these patrons will be graduated and Delaware will go back to being the ghost town it's always been - dry spells and all.

Looking to avoid that.

Anyway, thanks for tuning into my rant. Have a good night.

 

[New_Journey]

I am 6ft tall, 220 lbs, and I'm ripped to shreds. I have all my hair, I have all my teeth - I even had a girl ask me tonight if my teeth were real or if they were veneers. I'm good friends with the bartenders and staff, and have social proof; I skipped the line, and my drinks were free.

On paper you are a "prize", but you don't see yourself like that. You never will see yourself as a prize until you work on your mindset. Being all of that doesn't guarantee anything as you know, so why are you failing? Hint: Its not women

The first of which seemed interested, but left early with her friend. She was asking why I was there and didn't believe I was as old as I was. Needless to say, nothing happened there. She left a full hour before closing. I'm doubtful anything will become of that.

The second girl was eyeing ME up, so she waved me over and I went and talked to her for a bit. Same story; she found out I was older and thought I was cute, but wasn't interested.

So I went and talked to another girl. Turns out she's friends with girl number 2, and saw us talking, and decided she wasn't interested because I was hitting on her friend. She didn't mind that I was older, but didn't like being second fiddle to her friend, who, by the way, I told her was hitting on ME.

That brings us to girl number 3 - a gorgeous girl hanging out with her friends by the bar. Didn't mind the age, and I think we hit it off, but she wasn't prepared to leave with me that night. Rather, she wanted me to take her out tomorrow night. I suggested drinks at this nearby spot at around 10. She asked if we could go at 6, and then 8. I told her I wanted to be how she ended the night, not a pregame to how she started it. She asked whether that was her decision, to which I responded, "Yeah, and it's my decision whether to take you". She thinks 10 is late, so we'll see if that becomes a thing or not.

You see the pattern? In your mind you are all of that, so they must be dripping wet for you right? And when they don't there is conflict with reality vs your narcissistic fantasy, all of them can see right through you, making you look fake and extremely unattractive.

The most likely scenario is I'll end up going out there with no girl tomorrow night, which is fine. But man, this is starting to piss me off

Its not fine, your whole goal in life is puzzy, wrong approach.

'm doing better than my competition in every way except for the number on my DOB in my driver's license. I don't understand why this is such a massive roadblock.

Since you are all of that, it has to be another external factor that you can't get girls right? Now is your birthday?
You are not doing better than anyone else, in fact you are doing worse because you are so "attractive" but are going home with no puzzy, just like a fat slob who masturbate all day, you two are the same at the end of the day.

I don't really know what type of solutions I'd expect to read

The only solution is in your mind, not in external factors. But you won't get it, until the pain gets too much and you do something about it.

the ridiculousness of a number on my driver's license being what's getting in the way of me and these women

Flash news: It is not

most of these patrons will be graduated and Delaware will go back to being the ghost town it's always been - dry spells and all.

Looking to avoid that.

Why not? Your masculinity is so fragile that if you spend a couple of months with no puzzy you are gonna become gay? Or your ego just can't understand that you should be swimming in puzzy but you are not?

Anyway, thanks for tuning into my rant. Have a good night.

This is a cautionary example, how ego can fvck up everything. You can turn yourself into the most attractive guy on earth, but if you mind doesn't think that, you are fvcked.

 

[SW15]

I am 6ft tall, 220 lbs, and I'm ripped to shreds. I have all my hair, I have all my teeth -

I'm doing better than my competition in every way except for the number on my DOB in my driver's license. I don't understand why this is such a massive roadblock.

"Do you go here?"
"Where do you go?"
"Oh, you're graduated?"
"Why are you here?"

You are having the issues you are having because you are 30-31 and going to a specific set of bars catering to 21-24 year old college students.

30-31 is not that old for certain graduate level programs.

This is a Wilmington, DE problem. In bigger cities, no one cares if a man is 31 and single so long as he avoids college specific bars.

In your region, you need to be living in Philadelphia at your age and status.

A 31 year old shredded guy with a roommate in Philadelphia can still do well seducing women even without money and status in post-college bars.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It is because you appear as a loser creep to these women because only losers tend to hangout in college bars after a certain age. You are basically the kid that graduated high school still hanging out in the parking lot and going to every Friday night football game. Would you bang a 40-year-old over a 20-year-old because the 40-year-old has a full set of teeth and is skinny? I do not think so lol. In addition, what kind of college area sees having a full set of teeth as a luxury? Are you gaming in meth country or something? Bottomline, time to change your strategy.