this quote is the diff in me and you!

[frivolousz21]

That's why I kind of envy my parents and those who met in college, dated a couple of years and then got married. They were able to enjoy life together without all of the superficial games which in the end lead to lonelyness and regret.

alright.

Joeker showed an article about woemen single in there 20's.


this quote is dead on.

I am 23 yrs old.


most of the women id of dated in the past 2 yrs..would be 18 to 22.

and most of them, regardless of there wanting to have fun and party...want love bad.

believe me..they want to fall in love..they have dellusions of grandure.

this is why I came on this board..and said wtf??? why do you guys think women are so bad...

if this article is true..then women who come out of there early 20's single...and get that job...prolly do change from the girl of wanting love.

all of the females I know from the past 6 or 7 yrs..none of them who have been in love..that ive seen have ever hurt there man..

grantide these women are 17 to 23.

but..my mother is 43....she works with a women in there mid to late 20's who have been hurt early on..and now go out with guys and act like its some game.

so maybe the mid to late 20;s is the worse time to get a women of that age?

im not sure..but that article showed me that the women my age dont see it that way.
now thats the normal ones..not the messed up myspace *****s..or club hoes.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by frivolousz21


most of the women id of dated in the past 2 yrs..would be 18 to 22.
and most of them, regardless of there wanting to have fun and party...want love bad.

believe me..they want to fall in love..they have dellusions of grandure.

this is why I came on this board..and said wtf??? why do you guys think women are so bad...

you have to make sure you undersatnd the female concept of love. It doesn't mean "she is in love", the most essential component is a man who is madly in love with her.
If she's got such a guy, she feels her female beauty is working perfectly and the guy will do anything for her.

Is not it nice for a girl just to tell the "fallen in love" guy to do somehting and he'll do it?
Women are simply using men who fall in love with them, it is all very simple.

Beside it would be much bettrer if you post this in General discussion, right?

 

[frivolousz21]

ok so your saying women only use men?


no women wants to love a man?

 

[al77]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
ok so your saying women only use men?
no women wants to love a man?

When women keep saying "Love, love love.." they simple package the thing into a nice box with great design and cool colors.
What women want is the feelings:
1. "I turn this man on! my body\face\pvssy turn him on!"
2. "The man gives me buttreflies in my stomach"
3. "The man fell in love, so he is like a puppy now: I can tell him what to do, and he will do it. I can punish him or play with him"
Just look how women deal with real puppies.

Women want to love a child, sure. But to want to love a man?
Love is about giving and what women could give to a man (besides her pvssy)?

If you look closer at some couples who have fallen in love, you'll see that when a woman thinks "I am in love" she just keeps talking about herself to her bf. It doesn't amuse him at all, but well, he is pretending it is ok, since his status "fallen in love" now.
What a guy does? He tries to say something amusing, inetersting or useful, he rarely just blah blah about himself.
But women think they show love when they talk about themselves to a guy. It is like "ok, ok, I'll let you know more about my life despite you didn't even ask for it".

"I want to love a man" is something women say, but never mean.
They mean they want a man to give her all the feelings.

 

[frivolousz21]

"I want to love a man" is something women say, but never mean.
They mean they want a man to give her all the feelings.
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if you really believe this..you need therapy.

 

[Crowes]

friv, you've much to learn. Listen to this man al77, he knows what he speaks. He is dead on. Quit being so arrogant kid.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Love is an abstract term that everyone defines differently. And these definitions change as people get older. 2/3 of divorce proceedings are initiated by women.

 

[belividere]

That quote is way off. Just because you date someone for a few years and than settle with them doesn't mean that you circumvent the relationship games. If anything your typical college relationship involves more games, jealousy, and nonsense than a relationship after college. Lets see for most people college life involves living in a town or area surronded by thousands of young attractive students for the first time in life. Life aint all leave it to ****** like this quote seems.


Secondly, few girls between 18-22 have any idea what life is. What they desire is to be the one getting the attention, the one who is the center of their friends glory, and the one that has an emotional support leg in the form of a man. For the most part young girls just "think" they want the love of a man to make them complete. Dude that whole idea of being incomplete if unloved is a disaster to begin with and should be treated as a pyschological disease. Yes this is a dillusional state that many people will never be able to admit or transcend.

Love is the ulitmate manifestation of immediate gratification for a girl barely old enough to drive. Oh everyone look at me I have a boyfriend. Oh my boyfriend is the best guy in the whole world. Love to an immature girl, for the most part anyways, isn't about who they are with. Instead it is about who they can show off, brag about, and the feelings that they are given.

Are all women bad? Of course not. I dont see why you are posting this in the mature mans forum. Actually I tried to read this again and am wondering now how drunk you were when writing it. What are you trying to say? And yeah I agree with al77 on this

 

[al77]

Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Love is an abstract term that everyone defines differently. And these definitions change as people get older.

Another great observation.
Women DO define love very much differently then men do.
They want a lot of things, feelings, power over a guy...
What guys want we all pretty much know.

The point is men are often very confused when they hear women say "I want to be in love".
Men apply their own definition of love and usually they assume other people, i.e. women are open about the definition of terms.
It means from men's point of view women mean what they say.
Which is obvious some pure BS:

"I want butterflies in my stomach". Sure, a guy buy some, brings them home and start undressing his gf searching for a big enough openning to her stomach...

"I want somebody tall and handsome". Guys cry about their height and start lifting weights.

"I want somebody cool. With tatoos and piercing".
Guys got like 20 piercings and try to keep a convo around it by asking if she has her ****oris pierced.

But women want some totally different thing obviously. But when a guy got brainwashed about the definition of love, he starts to believe that what he was brainwashed with is the truth.
How come??? You do not believe that BS we see on TV is the reality? Why would anyone believe what women say about love?

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by belividere
Secondly, few girls between 18-22 have any idea what life is. What they desire is to be the one getting the attention, the one who is the center of their friends glory, and the one that has an emotional support leg in the form of a man. For the most part young girls just "think" they want the love of a man to make them complete. Dude that whole idea of being incomplete if unloved is a disaster to begin with and should be treated as a pyschological disease. Yes this is a dillusional state that many people will never be able to admit or transcend.

Girls in this age range have absolutely no experience in life. Just like most guys in the same age range have none either. Maturity can't be bought or won. It must be lived. Especially when it comes to issues of love and relationships.

I've learned a coupla' things in my time and one that tends to stick it's neck out less often as I grow older is:

" Everything ends badly or else it doesn't end. " That has stood me in good stead and hasn't failed yet.

 

[Egoist]

actually this quote is the difference between me and you:

"You are a ****ing idiot, and I am not."
-Egoist

 

[JonJack]

Actually, it's very much possible that some girls actually mean what they say when they talk about love. It's just that their perceptions may differ from yours. It goes the same with guys.

This is one good reason why words mean so little and it's the actions and behaviour that should be observed. Of course you'll have to draw some conclusions instead of just wondering what the hell it all means. Whether or not you're right or wrong in the end doesn't matter. We all learn from our mistakes and errors in judgement.

Words aren't meant to be the all comforting device used by people to garner the attention and affection of others. Although in certain situations it might be highly effective, a lack of action later on will lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction. If any of you still continue to take the words of others for comfort, you have a lot to learn about the nature of human beings.

Sad and unfortunate that a lot of girls tend to want to hear words for comfort. Considering I'm the type of person that doesn't even need to hear a thank you from people after helping them, my relationships with girls tend to be a little difficult.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Egoist
actually this quote is the difference between me and you:

"You are a ****ing idiot, and I am not."
-Egoist

I suppose that works too!:crackup: