this question for both guys and girls

[justheretohelp]

Hi guys and gals,

I have a question for both sexes, and yes it has to do with sex.

How would the girls feel about having a 3some w/ their ex bf and the girl he is currently dating?

How would it defer if you were the current girl? And your bf's ex was a close friend of his and wanted him back?

How would a guy feel about this? Having a 3some w/ his ex gf and current girl?

Would like to know both sides of the story, and if anyone would be okay with this (besides the guys) and why or why not.

Thanks!

 

[Eileen]

I read your post and caught myself saying "HA!" outloud.

To be more clear, no f'ing way on any of those accounts. A man who suggested it to me would quickly become an ex.

 

[justheretohelp]

Originally posted by Eileen
I read your post and caught myself saying "HA!" outloud.

To be more clear, no f'ing way on any of those accounts. A man who suggested it to me would quickly become an ex.

Eileen- So you could never move past the emotional parts and just enjoy it on the physical level?

 

[Eileen]

To be fair, I have a hard time enjoying sex with someone I love purely on a physical level. It's not how I'm designed. My emotions always get a stir.

That's not to say I don't enjoy it physically. It just goes hand in hand with the emotions.

 

[justheretohelp]

Something to think about

Here's a follow up question---

Do you think that the more you love the person the less willing you would be to share them with someone else ---sexually?

 

[justheretohelp]

Originally posted by Eileen
To be fair, I have a hard time enjoying sex with someone I love purely on a physical level. It's not how I'm designed. My emotions always get a stir.

That's not to say I don't enjoy it physically. It just goes hand in hand with the emotions.

But what if you didn't love them anymore?

 

[Eileen]

Then I wouldn't be getting naked with them ...

 

[justheretohelp]

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What do guys think of girls who do have 3somes with them?

Would it make you think that she would cheat on you easier than someone who was opposed to 3somes?

What if she insisted she only wanted to have 3somes with you? Would it make you feel less for her?

I know its a lot harder for women to have 3somes because they don't want to share their man esp. if they love them...

Knowing this, would you think that she didn't really love you?

 

[Runna13=)]

I would strongly consider having a threesome if the girl I'm currently dating is mainly a physical attraction. I've never dated a girl just due to pure physical attraction, so i really don't know. I mainly date more conservative girls, so I can't imagine how a threesome can be brought up and agreed upon. Your questions are somewhat confusing. Clarify it a little and I might be able to reply in more detail.

 

[justheretohelp]

Originally posted by Runna13=)
I would strongly consider having a threesome if the girl I'm currently dating is mainly a physical attraction. I've never dated a girl just due to pure physical attraction, so i really don't know. I mainly date more conservative girls, so I can't imagine how a threesome can be brought up and agreed upon. Your questions are somewhat confusing. Clarify it a little and I might be able to reply in more detail.

What were you confused about? What did you need me to clarify?

 

[justheretohelp]

I would have thought there would be more response to this question. I'm slightly disappointed.

 

[prodigy1]

its a stupid question

and you have asked about 50 different questions..

 

[Big Pappy]

Are you completely insane? I have more than enough on my hands pleasing one woman to her hearts content, let alone two!

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I'm not opposed to threesomes (haven't ever had one) but I'm not into chicks... so a threesome for me with a guy and another girl would most likely not be a threesome, but 2 twosomes, ha ha... but I'm willing to share, ha ha... maybe. Depends on how close I was with the people (both of them) and how serious of a relationship it was... I'd say I'd have to be pretty close with both people, but in a casual relationship.

How would the girls feel about having a 3some w/ their ex bf and the girl he is currently dating?

I have no desire to get with my exes to be honest. There is a reason they are exes. So I'd certainly not want to be with him AND his girlfriend. But if I had an ex I'd hook up with again (I do have some ex-hookups maybe or some close guy friends, but no ex-boyfriends I'd consider) I wouldn't have a problem with a threesome with him and another girl, but I think I'd feel weird about it being his girlfriend. Only because I'd rather be in a threesome with someone I know, trust, etc... and I doubt I'd feel that way about an ex's girlfriend, but who knows.

How would it defer if you were the current girl? And your bf's ex was a close friend of his and wanted him back?

If I was the current girlfriend (Note: I am opposed to being a "girlfriend" at the moment, so this is all just speculation on my part, ha ha) I think I'd be okay with a threesome, but probably not with an ex-girlfriend (more likely with a close friend of MINE, rather than a close female friend of his)... especially not an ex that wanted him back. No way. I'm secure in myself enough that I think I could have a threesome without being jealous, but only if i knew that that person was only in it for the threesome and not trying to steal the guy from me. That's a little much. But then again, if a guy can be "stolen" from me, then he's not really mine in the first place... but then why I would have a threesome with him? ha ha I don't know what I'm talking about anymore, I'm overtired, I'm going to bed. SOrry if this post made no sense, hope I gave you some "insight".

 

[Big Pappy]

Gee, all this effort I put into just to get a twosome!

If my ex asked me for a 3some with her current guy, I'd say no.
If she asked me for a 3some with my girl, I'd say no.

I might consider a 3some with Heather Locklear and Neve Campbell or some other beauiful women, but that's only because they're wealthy.

I just have no desire to work that hard. One woman is quite sufficient for my needs.