This place is depressing

[PickSix]

Don't get me wrong I have posted my fair share of whining threads too. But maybe it is I am getting older or something but everything I read here is along the lines of:

1) She looked at me does she like me?
2) When I reply to her texts should I put a smiley in?
3) She didn't reply to my text thread, followed by everyone saying next and accusing the girl of cheating.


Look gentleman I think we all need to get a life, me included, and enjoy our own lives. Screw woman (pun not intended) and live life and they will fall into place, stop the stressing about small things and focus on your self. Give her attention if you like her and if she doesn't bite, don't be butt hurt, move on and/or try again later.

There is no winning and no losing in this game. The ultimate ending for us all is death. So stressing over why some girl replied late or that she didn't reply is a disservice to yourself.

Every man has the ability to better himself to attract woman he finds attractive, I go by the mantra when a girl flakes that she is missing out not me, you have to believe your the **** and if you don't believe it, become it!

This life is too short to stress gentleman, we need to enjoy it, maybe me calling this place depressing is a little bit cynical on my part, as without a problem or an issue a thread could not be started. Thus there being no threads and from time to time us guys support each other isn't a bad thing. See I just went full circle.

 

[Moroder]

I look at this place as a pit stop for every guy who drives his a$$ around town in a motor vehicle, no matter whether it be Formula 1 or Nascar or a rusty VW Beetle. There's lots of shop talk, there's many newbies asking about the clutch and how to shift (and the seasoned drivers sometimes going nuts because how can you not know what a clutch is, dammit, let's talk Nascar and those damn noobs better read the Pit Stop Bible and the Jiffy Lube Manual first) and when to yell at other drivers. There's also the guys with the fancy cars and loads of experience.

One thing, though. For a million of reasons, we're all here to talk shop - women, that is. Sometimes you can't get enough of discussing all those little details, sometimes you get stuck up. And sometimes you're fed up because you spend like 3 hrs each day talking about stuff instead of doing stuff.

But eventually, you'll drive right back on track and lay some rubber. Vroooom. Taking off and finding out how to drive, with as many pit stops as you need before you can do it on your own. That's what matters to me. I am not gonna be here forever, but while I am here, I try to learn as much as I can.

Off to the races fellas!

 

[jurry]

Well said moroder

 

[Zarky]

Like the second poster said, it's a typical online forum. Most guys come in when they're young (mid-20s or younger) and have problems with chicks. It's the same damn questions every time.

The only problem is that the guys who've been around the block usually leave and don't post anymore. OR you get the ones who have repeated failures with women and who spew bitterness everywhere which isn't very helpful.

So the problem isn't really the constant noob questions, it's the lack of advanced questions. The guys with a tiny bit of experience talk as if they know it all and the guys who actually do know a lot don't stick around.

 

[Poon King]

Like the second poster said, it's a typical online forum. Most guys come in when they're young (mid-20s or younger) and have problems with chicks. It's the same damn questions every time.

The only problem is that the guys who've been around the block usually leave and don't post anymore. OR you get the ones who have repeated failures with women and who spew bitterness everywhere which isn't very helpful.

So the problem isn't really the constant noob questions, it's the lack of advanced questions. The guys with a tiny bit of experience talk as if they know it all and the guys who actually do know a lot don't stick around.

All men need to worry about their personal goals, having self-respect and dignity, and finding a calling in life before they worry about women.

But maybe this problem is by design. Media messages:

To WOMEN: You can have it all. You deserve the best. Never settle.

To MEN: Behind every good man is a good woman. Nothing in life matters without a woman by your side. You are immature if you don't serve women (settle down). Never hit a woman. Never be mean to a woman.

 

[GS750]

Seems to be a select few who are constantly hijacking threads with nothing good to say and lame ass name calling. By all means share your opinion, but recognize that not everyone is going to agree with you. That being said, I have leaned a lot here and enjoy reading other guys perspective on things. The good far outweighs the bad.

 

[mangotot]

No one is forced to visit this website.

 

[No.Danny]

Take a look at this when you can, Really explains a lot I believe.
Click here and Click here

 

[Bingo-Player]

i dont know i think it depends what you use the forum for

if you come here expecting to read a few articles and threads and expect all of lifes problems to be solved then you are going to be dissapointed

i use it too understand why women do the stupid things they do

i enjoy reading about how women try to mess with guys heads

they near enough all play the same game and i have a self satisfaction of knowing that if i choose not to play then i win anyway

ive learnt a lot from this site and its saved me a lot of heart break and wasted time / money this year so for that i owe it a lot

theres also a lot of wise posters on here who have been round the block know what there talking about

 

[Serenity]

It's an online forum, it doesn't sort people. I would say the main quality lacking is probably humility, and I'm no exception. I would say that I have a fair amount of experience, but there's always more to learn. I very much see what Zarky is saying. I came asking probably stupid questions to some, but to which I had no idea about. Then I gained some experience and success, now I didn't even see the problem. Then I was smacked in the face with the problem, now I understood the bitterness. Then I resolved the bitterness and shake my head at all the people who just never learn.

Yes this forum is frustrating, just like trying to be nice to a larger group of people is frustrating. To some I probably come off as stupid, but I ask questions to build on my current knowledge and experience. To some I might seem arrogant, but that's because now I'm the one smacking things in your faces. I might seem bitter, but the truth IS bitter if you've lived with rose colored glasses. No matter what I say and how I say it some fvcker will be in opposition and to each other we'll be one of the above mentioned idiots.

Even on this forum we're all making the same mistakes over and over again. And being here is tempting me to engage in it, so yeah I understand why good guys get the fvck away from here. It's a place dealing with emotional problems, manipulation and the more sketchy parts of humans. Just as it is talked about it's also practiced exactly because it isn't learned, and the people doing it is unaware and resist when faced with the truth.

 

[KarmaSutra]

My favorite aspect of this forum is reflection. When I occasionally pop-in, I'll sometimes read my posts back when I was a know-it-all. With age comes experience. How you use that experience dictates your growth as a man. I've not needed the "advice" for years, and it''s comical to see some of the newer guys with the same ol' same ol' sh!t happening to them that I used to lose sleep over. What's depressing is the "older" guys who incessantly belittle these newer brothers by portraying themselves as superior in either mental aptitude or life experience; of which, very little is actually real.

 

[( . )( . )]

1) She looked at me does she like me?
2) When I reply to her texts should I put a smiley in?
3) She didn't reply to my text thread, followed by everyone saying next and accusing the girl of cheating.

If some clueless chode asking stupid questions and accusations of cheating rattles your emotional cage so much that you feeeeel making a " Dear diary. Wow, just wow here's why that's a problem" jurry/zarky style post whining about it is in order I've got some bad news for you son. You're more than likely ill-equipped to deal with any legitimate problems life is eventually going to throw at you and in all honesty I think you should probably kill yourself now.

Just saying if something so inconsequential can trigger depression in you then perhaps suicide could be an option rather than trying to force your emotions and insecurities on to others who couldn't give a rats ass about a random fella b!tching about his girls wandering eye. Give it some thought.

 

[KarmaSutra]

You're more than likely ill-equipped to deal with any legitimate problems life is eventually going to throw at you and in all honesty I think you should probably kill yourself now.

T!ts, you should change your moniker to C0CK. Ever the ball-buster since I've known you.

And I love you for it buddy.

 

[( . )( . )]

T!ts, you should change your moniker to C0CK. Ever the ball-buster since I've known you.

And I love you for it buddy.

Cheers mate. Unfortunately the moniker of "C0CK" would probably trigger half of these millennial kidults and chicks incognito. The ensuing twitter outrage could get messy but I'll take it under advisement Karma.

 

[Zarky]

Yep, it's easy to be outspoken and edgy on the internet. You don't have to look anybody in the face.

 

[_sideways_]

^ truth

 

[( . )( . )]

Yep, it's easy to be outspoken and edgy on the internet. You don't have to look anybody in the face.

Because telling a thin skinned and temperamental mangina that random dudes complaining about random chicks on the internet may not actually be the crisis you and that other chick pretend it is is just sooo "edgy". That maybe not every man who posts here is triggered by the word "slvt" the way it seems to affect you and jurry?

 

[dutchmaster]

good thread

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I made a thread about that actually. I said that people just need to relax and stop thinking entirely. All the general basic social rules should be common sense. In fact, they aren't even 'social' rules per se, just more of like regular human decency rules. That stuff needs to be common sense, live without thinking, enjoy the game because if she is gaming you, that means that a part of her DOES in fact want you, and just relax. People are so serious and don't let themselves fail because they're weak and wimpy. They don't want to get hurt. There are so much women whom you can fail and mess up on that when you actually see one who is of higher quality than the rest, then you will be able to [nearly] perfect everything you do.

People just need to relax and enjoy the moment for what it is.