This is why you always confirm plans before a date

Spaz

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OP you're been making similar threads for god knows how long, we're getting tired of reading the same old stories, how abt you make a thread on how you managed to at least fvck 1 woman and then we'll cheer you on with some good pointers?

Even if it's a hoe, just get it done.
 

GeeMale

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So I don't get it. Are you saying to text and make sure to confirm during the days that you didn't text her at all? Or to confirm on the day of? I've had situations like your post many times. What works for me is "Hey are you still down to go etc" I had more success with this than 'looking forwadd to seeing you tonight" idk why but just have I've used what you say few months ago and I got flaked on a couple times lol
 

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I had many fcloses in the past and never had to confirm with her that we are going out. I just show up and she shows up.
Nowadays I'm not sure how girls are reacting because I didn't have consistent number of dates as I had 2 years ago :'(
 

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I don't confirm spit. If it falls through, it falls through and I next. Confirming is kinda treating her like some prize.
 

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I stumbled across this article today and found it useful. If you're getting flaked on over and over then the problem is YOU, not the woman right?

So if a woman agrees to go on a date with you but then flakes at the last minute, 95% of the time it's because there's a weak connection between the two of you. You can talk to her longer, or calling on the phone/Facetiming would help you avoid some of that flakiness. Working on that connection will drastically drop your flake rate.

Models by Mark Manson has a really good section about this too. He uses a Two Strike Rule regarding flakes. He doesn't even bother getting a woman's number unless she seems interested and attracted lol.


@DEEZEDBRAH Seems like Mystery's 7 Hour Rule still applies to this day lol.
 
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