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Lmao. Again, I’ll spell it out for you: NOTHING I SAID WAS RELEVANT TO PICKING UP FEMALES, only how to be an adult.

Now get on your school bus before your mom has to drive you to school.

Punk.
Awww man, I missed the bus replying to you.Guess I’ll be hitching that ride from my mom after all.
You didn't maintain emotional self-control. I get that you are pleased that you have not lost your sh1t when she ended things, and this is good. But really you should have been the one to end things because you knew it was over. When it's over, it's over... end it, don't wait for her to do it for you.

Emotional self-control means you are not too upset: you are not too happy. Showing that you were amused by this isn't behavior that does you any good. Always ask yourself, "Am what I am going to do actually help me?" If the answer is no then don't do it. Don't make enemies that you do not have to make.

When a chick breaks things off say you are disappointed, but that you understand... don't get mad: don't giggle... wish her luck in finding what she wants. After she leaves delete her number... call another woman. She doesn't need to know you are happy about this. Why? Because it really doesn't help you.
You may be right, I will admit that the laugh was involuntary.About the emotional self control.....yeah,maybe you’re just a better man than me in that regard.Knowing this girl,we would have been enemies even if I displayed all the emotional control in the world anyway.

Will this come back to bite me in the ass one day? I seriously doubt it.
That pretty much ensures you will definitely hear from her again and at some point probably will beg to get back together.
Maybe I will,maybe I won’t. I really don’t care either way.
 

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You may be right, I will admit that the laugh was involuntary.About the emotional self control.....yeah,maybe you’re just a better man than me in that regard.Knowing this girl,we would have been enemies even if I displayed all the emotional control in the world anyway.
I'm not better than you, I just have more experience. 30 years of dating will do that to you. I have been given my walking papers by so many women I literally have lost count... I have dumped an equal number of women. The more you practice, then better you get. I'm to the point now where none of the women I stop dating are my enemies, right now I'm dating the sister of a woman I stopped dating a year ago.

Breaking up with women is a skill just as important as getting them because social media, me-too, and the internet is something that can bite you in the butt and hurt you with other women you are trying to date.
 

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Give it up bud
It goes to show, that maybe there's something to how groundedeagle dealt with that chick. You responding the way you did made you feel good about it. Good... You're center of your world and in your frame. That's why it's more of a positive than negative the way he dealt with that chick.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It goes to show, that maybe there's something to how groundedeagle dealt with that chick. You responding the way you did made you feel good about it. Good... You're center of your world and in your frame. That's why it's more of a positive than negative the way he dealt with that chick.
Hahaha keep trying to undermine me bud. Find something else to occupy your time with.

Sorry if I got you and your buddy all triggered. Lmao
 

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Hahaha keep trying to undermine me bud. Find something else to occupy your time with.

Sorry if I got you and your buddy all triggered. Lmao
You undermined yourself with showing how your "adult" attitude is only a thin veil... Resorting to name calling and gas lighting isn't "graceful or dignified"... But hey, I'm of the opinion that it's not totally a bad thing...
 

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You undermined yourself with showing how your "adult" attitude is only a thin veil... Resorting to name calling and gas lighting isn't "graceful or dignified"... But hey, I'm of the opinion that it's not totally a bad thing...
Quite sad. Do you have a job? Maybe another hobby? Move on bud…..
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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We need less scrubs like you in the forum who don't contribute anything. I don't understand where your arrogance comes from Mr. Celibate.

You're either a troll or a woman. Blocked for good. Mods should remove this moron as well.
Had you been literate and able to read my initial posts you’d know I had no intention of trolling. But then you proceeded to troll me. The irony is nauseating actually
 
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