This is what happens when you suck in bed...

[sangheilios]

For some of em cheating is the ultimate high.

I just read the more of the article. One part she mentions she waits for her husband to go to bed so she can watch porn and masturbate more. She does it when she gets ready for work and also said that she is sooo stressed that she uses getting off as a stress reliever.

There are people with high sex drives, but this woman's behavior goes well beyond that and is clearly not normal.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I just read the more of the article. One part she mentions she waits for her husband to go to bed so she can watch porn and masturbate more. She does it when she gets ready for work and also said that she is sooo stressed that she uses getting off as a stress reliever.

There are people with high sex drives, but this woman's behavior goes well beyond that and is clearly not normal.

She enjoys the secrecy of doing it around him.

 

[Rainman4707]

Lead in the bedroom. Don't ask her what position, you lead. It's good to say do you like this? that will be a good way of you two communicating.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lead in the bedroom. Don't ask her what position, you lead. It's good to say do you like this? that will be a good way of you two communicating.

Go by her moans and her ooh and ahhs.

 

[Rainman4707]

Go by her moans and her ooh and ahhs.

Few weeks ago I met up with a woman. It happened that she was wearing Victoria secret lingerie, so she must have thought there was a good chance she was going to get fu*ked.
Anyway, warmed her up, started fu"king her. She made this facial expression like 'oh my god, I'm going to *** really hard" that made me come. I think she was disappointed that I came so fast.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You guys can let them guide you a little towards zones and sensations they prefer. You shouldn't do it 100% your way.

 

[ubercat]

Chick s a fruit loop compulsive masturbation to cope with work stress... seriously.

Don't know about the bedroom but the poor chump epic failed on screening.

 

[lizardking82]

I've noticed something in women, the more women I have experiences with: there are 2-3 types of women: low libido, normal libido and high libido.

Low and normal libido women make good wives and long term partners because they are less likely to cheat on you in general, they don;t feel the sexual desire of a normal libido woman, let alone that of a high libido one. Just like some of the greatest artists used to castrate themselves, these women can focus on other pleasing and fulfilling aspects of a relationship with a man rather than just the sexual one.

High libido women...are good for some things, bad for some others. They are good for a man who hasn't had much sex and is looking to gain experience, you can explore sex with this type of woman often and in different ways. These women will masturbate regularly and if, like in the article, they do that more than 3-4 times a day, they are entering sexual addict zone.

In my experience, women with lower libido will give sex rather easier than women with high libido cause they don't consider it such an important thing, they don't feel it. Women with higher libido are made to think there is something wrong with them by societal standards and in fact, even biologically, there is: they usually got a higher testosterone level in their genetics, sth that leads in more masculine behaviour like wanting to have sex more, having more "manly" body features (wider jaw, more hair around the sideburn area of the face, generally more masculine behaviour) so this is not very natural at all. These women are acting manlier and you need to understand when you deal with them that (not necessarily), they are more likely to cheat unless what you're offering exceeds the pure pleasure from sex.

Any normal person shouldn't have to have sex all day. There are other, healthy ways to spend your energy other than fornicating like rabbits. If any man or woman feels like doing that, they definitely do have a disorder, be it physical or mental regarding sex and they need to take care of it. If you involve yourself with such a person, protect your feelings and make sure you feel the mostly physically, not much emotionally (I don't see the point in that anyways, but whatever).

 

[sazc]

"well, that's how I do that, it works on others" is a way that men try to shame women about their sexuality.

It's not on him, SHE must be in the wrong because "it works on others"

 

[lizardking82]

"well, that's how I do that, it works on others" is a way that men try to shame women about their sexuality.

It's not on him, SHE must be in the wrong because "it works on others"

If it comes down to the technicalities, the feeling's not there so in my opinion, it's not even worth it. Sex is mental and emotional long before it ever was "place your penis 2 cm to the right so I can orgasm" or "I have to move a certain way to ***". No. If you don't feel me enough, we won't do a thing, go find another sex toy you can command.

Moreover, I can tell you that women just cannot look up to a guy that doesn't lead them, including sexually and in bed in general. She will *** from the idea of you being in the lead in bed, not so much from what happens in bed LOL

 

[lizardking82]

I've only dated high libido but that might be part of the problem keeping them.

Depends on how high the libido is. A normal to high libido is what you want in a woman, in my opinion. No extremes.

 

[sazc]

If it comes down to the technicalities, the feeling's not there so in my opinion, it's not even worth it. Sex is mental and emotional long before it ever was "place your penis 2 cm to the right so I can orgasm" or "I have to move a certain way to ***". No. If you don't feel me enough, we won't do a thing, go find another sex toy you can command.

Moreover, I can tell you that women just cannot look up to a guy that doesn't lead them, including sexually and in bed in general. She will *** from the idea of you being in the lead in bed, not so much from what happens in bed LOL

I follow what you are saying but still think that, after awhile of him "leading in bed" if he still isn't hitting it right, and he's "so alpha" he isn't easy to communicate with, she's going to be frustrated.

It sucks to be worried about communicating with your partner about what you need in bed. Worried because he's going to dismiss what you say with "that works on other women, idk why it doesn't with you" or he's going to be so "alpha" that he dismissed what you say and shuts down, or gets defensive.

The attraction and "wet panties" of the alpha male leading in bed, is going to wane after a while if he continually doesn't hit it right.

 

[Ranger]

She’s teaching other women how to pull it off.
There is nothing unusual about this situation.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

"well, that's how I do that, it works on others" is a way that men try to shame women about their sexuality.

It's not on him, SHE must be in the wrong because "it works on others"

Thats not what it is. If a man eats puzzy a specific way or fingers a certain way or has sex a certain way and for some reason his usual way doesnt work on her bur actually rubs her wrong and turns her off. Being unopen to suggestion to adjust his self he says "thats how i do it it works on other". Females do the same exact thing. Having been trained in all the one night stands bad relationship and poor choices she thinks her man want it done exactly how THEY wanted it and being unopen to suggestion says "thats how i do it, it works on others". Being sexual and gaving a high sex drive doesnt mean you go lay with hundreds of people either. Men dont have to reward or be loyal to known slvts.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I follow what you are saying but still think that, after awhile of him "leading in bed" if he still isn't hitting it right, and he's "so alpha" he isn't easy to communicate with, she's going to be frustrated.

It sucks to be worried about communicating with your partner about what you need in bed. Worried because he's going to dismiss what you say with "that works on other women, idk why it doesn't with you" or he's going to be so "alpha" that he dismissed what you say and shuts down, or gets defensive.

The attraction and "wet panties" of the alpha male leading in bed, is going to wane after a while if he continually doesn't hit it right.

Whats hitting it right? Hitting exactly the angle and spot some other dude discovered? What if we want to explore and find new spots and sensations? I dont know too many men who want to be forced to do it exactly one way that some other guy found.

 

[flowtheory]

Whats hitting it right? Hitting exactly the angle and spot some other dude discovered? What if we want to explore and find new spots and sensations? I dont know too many men who want to be forced to do it exactly one way that some other guy found.

Lol I don’t think it’s what some other guy discovered... lose your ego. She probably coached that other person to get to that spot anyways.
It’s her BODY. Can’t just create a new spot in her vagina that’s purely yours.. haha
She knows what she likes. So learn what she likes and stop thinking about other guys who have been with her. You’re cucking yourself

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol I don’t think it’s what some other guy discovered... lose your ego. She probably coached that other person to get to that spot anyways.
It’s her BODY. Can’t just create a new spot in her vagina that’s purely yours.. haha
She knows what she likes. So learn what she likes and stop thinking about other guys who have been with her. You’re cucking yourself

What? Coached... Smh. Some of those have to be shown by her by someone else. I cant know all the massages i like without being massaged. If someone has varieties ive never experience i wont know i enjoy them. Your being a white night. Acting like some men atent capable of having sexual expertise and showing women new things. Its not about ego but rather open communication and freedom of expression. Controlling sex sucks. Explaining that something is a turn off is acceptable. But being unopen to freedom of expression is boring. And i can have a different stroke or focus on a different region of her vaginal canal that someone else was too rushed to focus on.

 

[sazc]

Whats hitting it right? Hitting exactly the angle and spot some other dude discovered? What if we want to explore and find new spots and sensations? I dont know too many men who want to be forced to do it exactly one way that some other guy found.

Just like HE has certain positions and sensations that really work for him, "hitting it right" means what really works for her

Or should she be disgusted because he is trying to force her to do it exactly one way that some other chick found?

The way you spin this, no one should be getting their sexual needs met simply because they have a sexual history

Come on.....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Just like HE has certain positions and sensations that really work for him, "hitting it right" means what really works for her

Or should she be disgusted because he is trying to force her to do it exactly one way that some other chick found?

The way you spin this, no one should be getting their sexual needs met simply because they have a sexual history

Come on.....

I think communication should occur and both should be open to exploration.

 

[sazc]

What? Coached... Smh. Some of those have to be shown by her by someone else. I cant know all the massages i like without being massaged. If someone has varieties ive never experience i wont know i enjoy them. Your being a white night. Acting like some men atent capable of having sexual expertise and showing women new things. Its not about ego but rather open communication and freedom of expression. Controlling sex sucks. Explaining that something is a turn off is acceptable. But being unopen to freedom of expression is boring. And i can have a diffetent stroke or focus on a different region of her vaginal canal that someone else was too rushed to focus on.

Who's taking about not being open to new experiences? When was that even discussed?