backbreaker
Master Don Juan
one of our "friends" back home, she's 29, just turned 29, been dating this guy who somehow, she has never seen for about a year. well she has seen pictures of him, but not like a good look at him. but they just really clicked. now, as rollo would say, it's been a virtual relatroinship of course, she has hooked up with other guys, but she really likes the guy.
anyway, about 2 months ago, he got a job offer to move to LA. he let her know he was moving. so, she says, basically that, you know when you get here, let's slow things down, let's just take it a day at a time and see where things go.. lol, basically buying herself space, either assuming that the gig is up for her e comforter guy or buying herself room for if he doesn't look like he says he looks or how she visions he looks.
anyway, low and beyond, guy gets here, and dude, is pretty pimp. he goes to the same gym i go to, he's in shape, has a decnet job...she hit the e jackpot lol. and he, really likes her. now, talking to him, he has dated other women too but, he really likes her as well. they click and he knows they are somewhat starting over, but, he really has some feelings for her. I do get the jist however, that he was more of a catch than she expected. why he was into her in the first place, i dont' know.; i don't konw him that well. but you see them together, they do "fit"
but, lol, khere is where it gets interesting. you know, putting cards on the table, he told me that when he left, he had seen a few girls, he had even told her that, i guess she thought he was joking trying to build up his cred or something, and that, he knows she has too, but he would like to be exclusive. she told him, that she wants to take it slow. he says okay, sure, i don't have a problem with that, well lol, it backfired lol, because now he has plates.
so my GF is talking to her and elling her, how much of a jerk he is because he won't commit and how he thinks he is such a "player".. lol, I was like how is he the player when he tried to tell you he wanted to date you and you turned him down lol. YOu put yourself in this situtation, and you told him that you wanted to take it slow and now, he is making you compete with otehr women, when you could not have been competing with anyone. and i have no doubt, had she went along he would have been faithful. But now that he has tested the water, he is not in a rush anymore. he doesn't know them as plates obviously but he is "confused how you said you wanted to take it slow and now that i'm here you are mad because i'm going on dates with other women".
What, she doesn't think I know, she doesn't think anyone knows but there was another guy, some loser that works at a movie theater that she was getting **** from and didnt' want to cut him off. **** has backfired. too funny to watch.
I predict in the end, she will get her man. dude, seriously likes the girl. I just think it's funny how all this backfired on her and how she thought it would play out
anyway, about 2 months ago, he got a job offer to move to LA. he let her know he was moving. so, she says, basically that, you know when you get here, let's slow things down, let's just take it a day at a time and see where things go.. lol, basically buying herself space, either assuming that the gig is up for her e comforter guy or buying herself room for if he doesn't look like he says he looks or how she visions he looks.
anyway, low and beyond, guy gets here, and dude, is pretty pimp. he goes to the same gym i go to, he's in shape, has a decnet job...she hit the e jackpot lol. and he, really likes her. now, talking to him, he has dated other women too but, he really likes her as well. they click and he knows they are somewhat starting over, but, he really has some feelings for her. I do get the jist however, that he was more of a catch than she expected. why he was into her in the first place, i dont' know.; i don't konw him that well. but you see them together, they do "fit"
but, lol, khere is where it gets interesting. you know, putting cards on the table, he told me that when he left, he had seen a few girls, he had even told her that, i guess she thought he was joking trying to build up his cred or something, and that, he knows she has too, but he would like to be exclusive. she told him, that she wants to take it slow. he says okay, sure, i don't have a problem with that, well lol, it backfired lol, because now he has plates.
so my GF is talking to her and elling her, how much of a jerk he is because he won't commit and how he thinks he is such a "player".. lol, I was like how is he the player when he tried to tell you he wanted to date you and you turned him down lol. YOu put yourself in this situtation, and you told him that you wanted to take it slow and now, he is making you compete with otehr women, when you could not have been competing with anyone. and i have no doubt, had she went along he would have been faithful. But now that he has tested the water, he is not in a rush anymore. he doesn't know them as plates obviously but he is "confused how you said you wanted to take it slow and now that i'm here you are mad because i'm going on dates with other women".
What, she doesn't think I know, she doesn't think anyone knows but there was another guy, some loser that works at a movie theater that she was getting **** from and didnt' want to cut him off. **** has backfired. too funny to watch.
I predict in the end, she will get her man. dude, seriously likes the girl. I just think it's funny how all this backfired on her and how she thought it would play out