this is too funny

[backbreaker]

one of our "friends" back home, she's 29, just turned 29, been dating this guy who somehow, she has never seen for about a year. well she has seen pictures of him, but not like a good look at him. but they just really clicked. now, as rollo would say, it's been a virtual relatroinship of course, she has hooked up with other guys, but she really likes the guy.

anyway, about 2 months ago, he got a job offer to move to LA. he let her know he was moving. so, she says, basically that, you know when you get here, let's slow things down, let's just take it a day at a time and see where things go.. lol, basically buying herself space, either assuming that the gig is up for her e comforter guy or buying herself room for if he doesn't look like he says he looks or how she visions he looks.

anyway, low and beyond, guy gets here, and dude, is pretty pimp. he goes to the same gym i go to, he's in shape, has a decnet job...she hit the e jackpot lol. and he, really likes her. now, talking to him, he has dated other women too but, he really likes her as well. they click and he knows they are somewhat starting over, but, he really has some feelings for her. I do get the jist however, that he was more of a catch than she expected. why he was into her in the first place, i dont' know.; i don't konw him that well. but you see them together, they do "fit"

but, lol, khere is where it gets interesting. you know, putting cards on the table, he told me that when he left, he had seen a few girls, he had even told her that, i guess she thought he was joking trying to build up his cred or something, and that, he knows she has too, but he would like to be exclusive. she told him, that she wants to take it slow. he says okay, sure, i don't have a problem with that, well lol, it backfired lol, because now he has plates.

so my GF is talking to her and elling her, how much of a jerk he is because he won't commit and how he thinks he is such a "player".. lol, I was like how is he the player when he tried to tell you he wanted to date you and you turned him down lol. YOu put yourself in this situtation, and you told him that you wanted to take it slow and now, he is making you compete with otehr women, when you could not have been competing with anyone. and i have no doubt, had she went along he would have been faithful. But now that he has tested the water, he is not in a rush anymore. he doesn't know them as plates obviously but he is "confused how you said you wanted to take it slow and now that i'm here you are mad because i'm going on dates with other women".

What, she doesn't think I know, she doesn't think anyone knows but there was another guy, some loser that works at a movie theater that she was getting **** from and didnt' want to cut him off. **** has backfired. too funny to watch.

I predict in the end, she will get her man. dude, seriously likes the girl. I just think it's funny how all this backfired on her and how she thought it would play out

 

[Boilermaker]

what's too funny?

 

[Crow]

How she tried to get her cake and eat it too, but nearly spoiled it in the process.

 

[betheman]

Im not sure its funny, its ironic though, but arent most women like this? this is just a good example of how to be a dj? in fact not so much a dj just a self respecting man, however if he seriously thinks he can have a good LTR with her I reckon he is mistaken

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Give a starving man a cracker and he thinks it's filet mignon. Give a starving man an all you can eat buffet and he wont choose the crackers.

This is a prime example of the benefit of plate theory. Confidence comes from realized options and the acknowledged ability to generate more. Left to one available option a man will be desperately devoted to his one sure thing, and she'll despised him for it. Give him many options and he becomes a valuable commodity.

 

[backbreaker]

what she did not bank on is the culture shock. I did not have a problem geting dates in little rock, when I moved to cali however, it was the first time I had women just throwing themselves at me, well not throwing themselves,s but, being aggressive. women aren't aggressive down in little rock, there aren't many of them, even avg women can be picky.l when I moved to cali man, totally different. you guys growing up in big cities don't iknow how good you got it, you got to work for poon in small cities.

dude was from a small city in ohio. did not realize that he was an avg guy.

 

[synergy1]

you guys growing up in big cities don't iknow how good you got it, you got to work for poon in small cities.

a-****ing-men son. You have to put in twice the effort to get literally, twice the chick in a small down...and by twice, we are talking on a per mass basis here!!

My entire time in a small town in the south, I managed to pull one chick in the 9 months I was there. Since I have returned to the north east which includes frequenting the Boston area, I have literally lost count on the successes in HALF the time period. The difference is unreal. The only thing that has changed since returning is I feel less optimistic about life's direction (which in theory should hinder ones success)

The dynamic of small towns is that women hold much higher value, thus even a 3 or a 4 would have the same value as a 6 or a 7 from a higher population city. Even if you take a walk around the city, one can only marvel at the raw selection that there is - ones "scarcity" mentality evaporates. Meanwhile ,if you dwell in a small town for long enough, that mentality starts to set back in.

Something else of interest is that there is a higher portion of fat/ ugly women from small towns. Obviously you can't compare raw numbers, but one can estimate the percentage and it seems that the higher percentage of fatties is in small towns. A best guess as to why this is is because there is less of a sense of competition between women in spread out places. Add to the fact that men probably feel more desperate, this ups womens stock and thereby allows them to mentally feel okay with letting go.

 

[Nutz]

Give a starving man a cracker and he thinks it's filet mignon. Give a starving man an all you can eat buffet and he wont choose the crackers.

This is a prime example of the benefit of plate theory. Confidence comes from realized options and the acknowledged ability to generate more. Left to one available option a man will be desperately devoted to his one sure thing, and she'll despised him for it. Give him many options and he becomes a valuable commodity.

Wise words.

What's more, him moving to LA means the women there are probably going to be a lot hotter than what he was used to, so she's got that working against her as well.