This is my life.

[irocknike23]

What are you aiming at?

....I dont know how I could of made it any more clear to you:
I think the reason you have no friends is the same reason why you fail with women
1 more time, can you explain why you dont have any friends? and how old are you? Is this a touchy subject or something?


And dude, quit coming off all pissed off, you been doing it wrong for 8 years? Thats a long time but I believe you have not applied any material you read from here. Admitting that you are desperate is one thing sure, but acting like it? You cant act desperate dude even if you are. Because that will for sure 100% guarantee you no success with women.

I'm telling you, re-read DJ Bible and apply it.....
Because so far the road you are heading down will go 1 of 2 ways

1:You will continue to act desperate among many other wrong mistakes that DJ Bible tells you not to do and you will never get a girl
OR the second one which I think will most likely happen to you:
2:You eventually find a girl. Since you are desperate and never had a girl, you will treat her like a queen by flooding her with attention and buy her things, be a sweetheart gentleman for her and spend way too much time with her, since you have no friends and have no one else(by the way she will find it very weird that you have no friends) as a result of all this she will slowly loose interest in you and one day unexpectedly break up with you. At that point instead of walking away cool and calm you will break down and beg for her to take you back which will re-assure her decision she made and then you will really know what pain feels like.

Unless you apply the stuff you read those are the 2 things that will more than likely happen you...sorry to say just my opinion.

 

[FairShake]

Make some friends. Just 2 or 3 people you can hang out with to get your mind off this stuff. It will give you more experience with other people and more experiences to share with people. You will be happier about yourself too and be more willing to open up yourself to a woman.

Lack of women is a symptom of having a lack of friends. So many people meet women through friends or while going out with friends.

I could be wrong but reading your post you sound like you might not be particularly friendly or open. These are the two most important attributes it takes to have friends. Try it for awhile and see if you notice any improvement with people.

 

[visions]

sorry to hear about your situation...
perhaps you can try to befriend men or women, then work you way into a social circle and see if things become easier

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

"being a man" means stop complaining about not getting girls

This sounds more like a "don't be annoying to other men" than "it redounds to your advantage in getting more women".

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Regarding friends: My brother has no friends but he had lots of girlfriends in the past. So no, having friends is not the way to go.

 

[JoeMarron]

Maybe you just need a break. 8 years a long damn time to be doing something with no results. Take a year off or so and focus on the fundamentals: money, style, social skills, fitness, hobbies. If you get good in all these areas and youre still not getting success then something is seriously wrong and I doubt the forum will be able to help you.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Maybe you just need a break. 8 years a long damn time to be doing something with no results. Take a year off or so and focus on the fundamentals: money, style, social skills, fitness, hobbies. If you get good in all these areas and youre still not getting success then something is seriously wrong and I doubt the forum will be able to help you.

How do you picture taking a break? You see couples everywhere, movies are full of them, you experience married people everywhere. So how do you picture taking a year off?

I see it like this. If I take time off, I'll start where I ended. All a break would do is postpone things even further.

 

[JoeMarron]

Youve been doing this for 8 years. A year is insignificant in comparison. Females arent going anywhere. Its not good to constantly keep working on something when youre making little to no progress. Youre just gonna burn yourself out and make progress even slower. Take a break, get your fundamentals in order, then come back and you'll be refreshed and in a better state for success.

 

[goundra]

Sounds to me like you should put a couple of plastic bags over your head, take a BIG shot of dope and just "opt out", dude. Since you have no life anyway, no loss, right?

 

[Nite]

Regarding friends: My brother has no friends but he had lots of girlfriends in the past. So no, having friends is not the way to go.

Lol so you'd rather not have friends? Who cares about women, having friends is great

 

[Vidrio]

I think age might have something to do with it. How old are you? I think theres a difference in how you should approach girls and how they will perceive you if you're 20 than if you're 40.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Lol so you'd rather not have friends? Who cares about women, having friends is great

You are 17, you know nothing about friends you pathetic co.cksuc.ker.

 

[R.C]

You are one of the most unreceptive people I've ever seen.

He might be 17 , which is completely irrelevant by the way , but he speaks from a particular experience you entirely lack , regardless your age.

YOU said you never had friends , and yet you have the nerve to lash out on him ?


You're weak and pathetic. You have the worst kind of character. You go out and ask for help. People more successful than you give you endless advice and have much more patience with you than you deserve , and yet you still think you're smarter than everyone else and shut advice down left and right ? On what grounds ? That "I've already tried that" ? BullSh!t. If you actually tried any of it you would NOT be in this position.

No wonder you have no friends and the fact that women avoid you like a plague ? Yeah,that no big surprise either.


Enjoy your loneliness you self-centered a$shole. With your personality , things won't change for you.Ever.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

R.C, sorry for interrupting you while sucking him off.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

bradd80, you are giving advice on how to change your attitude without knowing how to change an attitude and without asking whether I wanted to change mine. You assume my attitude was bad and would lead to my situation which is false. You're doing nothing but whining and complaining, that I wouldn't listen to you which will get you no where. This is probably what you've been doing the last 8 years with other people when you should have been implementing and practicing positive change yourself. Your failure to do this is most probably why you haven't been getting any positive results, yourself.

There is excellent advice being given by other people than you, which I put into practise.

Brad, just based on what you've written in your posts on this forum, these are your problems and how can we solve them if you're not willing to implement action instead of complaining?

I am fascinated by you never relying on women to make you happy, how do you do that? You read that women will NEVER make you happy so you think it was true. Then you cite nonsense you read about happiness, which I, with all due respect, understand much better than you.

You shoot down my reactions without even attempting to understand them. No woman wants to be with a man who is biased and does nothing but b*tch like a girl. They want to be with men who have something different to tell than all the other people who believe everything they read in self-help books. They want men who are confident, and not guys who are blind. You cry about hearing all my remarks, but if you had actually understood all these statements instead of dismissing them I know for a fact you would have been more successful.

I have many long term goals, but this created nothing in women as they lack the empathy to understand them.

I have a job and I don't want a career.

I do not need to improve my looks.

These, combined with the right attitude.

Which you lack so how would you know?

if you look like a squeegee kid with tattered, smelly clothes.

No, I don't look like you.

What worked for my brother, hasn't been working for me but not because I had no friends. Having friends will not cure any problems but delay them(!) Because of friends I failed at a few tests in university. So yes, thinking back I had friends.

 

[Darth]

Phil, your attitude sucks. You need to quit giving up on life and quit copping out. Either that or go to a psychiatrist, or both. But don't sit here at your computer whining and refusing to stop giving up on yourself. We have no respect for that.

That's all I have to say.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Darth, your attitude sucks. We have no respect for that. That's all I have to say.

are you mentally retarded?

Anybody: Would you turn to someone who writes that and ask for advice? I wouldn't.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

I wrote that because all you have done is insult

It gets even worse, guys, beware of this guy, he's a living soap opera.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Just look at that guy trying hard to get my attention, what a tool.

 

[Gro0ver]

Medicine for the mind:

Western - Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Eastern - Meditation.

Invest in both. Good luck.