This is why
OH.. you poor fellow. You are home and she is home ( probably
) ) . You've sent a couple of messages but she didn't respond to any of them yet.
All the questions apear: does she still like me? Does she want to actually move things forward? I want... and all this seems like a one way street! Shouldn't it be like.. she has to show some interest as well? Why only I? Is it worth it?
Or you fret and feel masive emotional pain because you expected something to happen ..and it didn't..so you suffer and say: Don't I deserve this? It's unfair! Why should I care?
ANyway..you find yourself in a low spot. You don't understand this or that. You start thinking of all the bad things.. what if... maybe she.... I dont know... is it WORTH IT?
All these have been going on in your head for a while and you are almost on the point of sending a message to your girl asking very boldly to choose and tell you how does she see this..
But what?!! a sound.. You look at the phone and she sends you a message or she calls you. She responds and sais something.. anything.
If in that moment... you have forgotten everything of the above.. all your toxic analyzation that created big monsters that don't exist, all you bad ipothesis and questions.. and you realize you care about her.. cause she just lights you up like that.. making you happy.. then it's WORTH going on.
It's worth continuing with this girl.
And before long you wi;; understand better her perspective of your relationship and you will see that her expectations are not faulty at all.. as you thought just some days ago.
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Then.. have fun.. feel good and laugh. Go out there tomorrow with a great attitude. Appreciate what you have. Act natural with her and be you. Do your own thing. You have it in you, believe me. Do you.. and create moments.
Make this beautiful for both of you.